With the opening of the second and third-child policy, 55-year-old Ms. Zhang’s heart began to move.
But as she is over fifty years old, her body is actually very risky if she gives birth to a second child.
Ms. Zhang’s daughters are already discussing marriage with her boyfriend.
Ms. Zhang always wanted to have a son when she was young, but after giving birth to her daughter, the policy did not allow him to have a second child, so this matter has always been a regret in Ms. Zhang's heart.
However, with the current opening up of policies, almost all of Ms. Zhang’s peers are preparing to have a second child.
Ms. Zhang’s life now is stress-free. Her parents are receiving pensions and she is in good health and can take care of herself. Her daughter also has a good job and doesn't have to worry about it, so Ms. Zhang's idea of having a second child becomes more and more important day by day.
But before Ms. Zhang started to prepare, her daughter heard the news.
Ms. Zhang felt that it would be good if it was conveyed to her daughter’s ears, and she no longer had to worry about how to tell her daughter.
When her daughter came to see her, Ms. Zhang told her daughter that her health was not good. If she gave birth to a younger brother, she would not be able to take care of him, so she would have to ask her daughter to take care of the younger brother.
After hearing this, my daughter completely collapsed. She had always been very concerned about her mother having a second child. After hearing her mother tell her to take care of her younger brother, she became very angry. She directly asked her mother, "Why do you want me to take care of my younger brother?" ? If you do this, what should I do in the future? I won't help you take care of your brother.
After hearing this, the mother slapped her daughter directly.
But what the mother didn't expect was that her insistence on having a second child would actually ruin her daughter's marriage.
Originally, my daughter and her boyfriend had already reached the point of discussing marriage, and they were about to take the final step of getting engaged.
But somehow, my boyfriend heard the news that his future mother-in-law insisted on having a second child, and wanted to give the two of them the care of the child.
So after discussing it with his mother, the boyfriend decided to push the matter away because they couldn't accept that they would take care of the children before they got married.
If two people get married and the children are raised by both of them, then the future expenses will definitely not be small.
So the boyfriend’s family couldn’t accept it. After the boyfriend married Ms. Zhang’s daughter, a little troublemaker followed him.
So their family chose to give up the marriage.
’s boyfriend also broke up with his daughter.
After the breakup, Ms. Zhang’s daughter hated her mother very much. She became silent every day and only knew how to stay in her room.
Ms. Zhang regretted seeing such a scene, but her daughter had ignored her.
Ms. Zhang and her daughter sometimes cannot speak more than two words a week.
In the view of Ms. Zhang’s daughter, it was her mother’s insistence that caused her to lose this good marriage.
But the mother felt that if she gave birth to a second child, her daughter would have someone to accompany her in the future. If she got angry at her husband's family, there would be someone to take it out on her.
In fact, no one is right or wrong in this matter, but there are many things to consider when giving birth to a second child. It does not mean that you have to give birth to a child, and you must also communicate well with your first child, otherwise the family in the future Problems are inevitable.
