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Today is Sunday, I have a rest. Early in the morning, I received a call from Sister Wang from my workplace. She was working overtime today.
On the phone, she immediately asked me if I could do something, not only to harm others, but also to her. The whole process was scolded without mentioning anything, which made me confused. The key point was that the tone was very harsh, as if I had committed some unforgivable sin.
For a moment, I wanted to fight back, but then I changed my mind and finally stopped. I calmed down and asked her what made her so angry. After asking, I found out that there was something wrong with an order shipped on Friday.
What happened was that there was a shipment that needed to be sent to Shenzhen on Friday. Sister Wang was originally responsible for this matter, but she happened to have something to do with her children in the afternoon and asked for leave in a hurry. The department leader handed over the shipment to me. This matter is actually not difficult. I have done it before. I just need to check the outer packaging of the goods, then print out the order and send it out with the goods.
Things are just a little clever. When I logged into the client company's smart warehouse to issue orders, I found that the corresponding order filled in was somewhat inconsistent with the actual goods. I thought this was not a big problem at the time, so I did not tell Sister Wang, but directly contacted the customer for purchase. The purchasing side said there was something wrong with the system and asked me to manually invoice this batch of goods. She would tell the warehouse then.
Maybe I was busy purchasing and forgot about it, so I didn’t contact the warehouse. After the freight delivered the goods this morning, the warehouse refused to accept the goods because they did not meet the requirements. The freight forwarder called the company, and Sister Wang happened to answer it. Sister Wang thought that I deliberately failed to do things well, so she made the initial accusation.
Later I explained it clearly to her and she calmed down. Then contact the purchaser, who then contacts the warehouse. After a few phone calls, the goods are smoothly put into the warehouse, and the matter is resolved.
Things are always trivial, and conflicts are all due to emotions. As I reach middle age, I have become more and more open-minded, and I don’t want to argue with others anymore. I just want to solve the problem.
has a saying that goes like this: A person's maturity is not his age, but his mentality. The maturity of the heart is not about the many things you encounter, but the attitude towards things. There is no perfect thing in the world, and there are no perfect people. There are solutions, and no matter how big the difficulty is, it will eventually pass.
People living in a group are nothing more than looking at other people's faults, then thinking about their own mistakes, looking at other people's faults, and then forgiving others' difficulties. Those things in life that cannot be obtained and cannot be grasped will be taken away. If you learn to let go and know how to let go, your life will become easier and easier.
In the workplace, those who get along will be closer to each other, and those who do not get along will be more relaxed. Just let the situation pass and get the job done well. When you meet someone who doesn't agree with you, just say more.
Of course, some people disagree with my approach and think that I am a coward and have no boundaries. If I let others scold me, I will only become more and more arrogant.
But I think that at our age, there are many people we cannot change. The only thing we can change is ourselves. If we don’t want to be angry, it’s better to relax and take things lightly.
What would you do if you encountered such a thing?
