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There is a word called "one period, one meeting".
means that in a person's life, there may be only one chance to meet a person, so you must treat the other person in the best way possible.
People are lonely by nature, and everyone longs to meet someone in this world with whom they can cherish each other and never tire of each other.
However, life is like a torrential river, rushing forward. Most people are wandering between meeting and parting. Even if they meet someone they like, they will check it out again and again. If you notice something is wrong, let it go immediately.
This is because many people have overlooked one point, that is, love is romantic, but marriage is secular.
To live a real life, two people need to be able to persist in "firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea", rather than having a candlelight dinner, or going to the river to count fireflies to be a little poetic, it is so simple.
Therefore, those who can be truly affectionate and sincere to you are often more anxious.
Especially when you are still hesitant, he wants to approach you ten times faster, break into your real life, and get your emotional recognition of him.
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Love should be grounded.
Those who really love you will be reluctant to be cold to you, and they don't want the distance between you to be too far. He will hope that this encounter between you will be long-lasting and can go to the end.
If a man pretends to love you, even if he says sweet words of love, he will still be bored in his heart.
So, when a man has fallen deeply in love with you, you will find that when he looks at you, his eyes will show an "anxious" look, because he will not be able to control his inner urgency and love. Your heart is pounding.
and below, these three "anxiety", if the person around you has already behaved in these ways towards you, then don't doubt it, he must be full of you.
Anxious to take you home to meet your parents, and want to gain their approval
A girl once said in a comment on an article: "It took about half a year for him and I to get together. I don't know why, first When I saw him, I had a very familiar feeling. Later, three months after we established our relationship, he cautiously asked me if I wanted to be a guest at his home, and I readily agreed."
Perhaps, love is like this. If a man has determined a woman in his heart, his reaction will be very rapid.
He will use all his enthusiasm, as if his feelings have a "head start", and he is eager to take you home and let his parents see the girl he likes.
Therefore, if a man establishes a relationship with you, no matter how you ask to visit his family, he will find various excuses to reject you, and may even say "I talked about you with my family, but my parents "I don't even agree with you" is a boring reason to prevaricate you, then you should know that he doesn't actually love you that much.
I still remember that there was a woman in the background who said in a private message:
"I am thirty years old this year and have been with him for nearly a year. Because my parents have been urging us to get married, I want to take him home." , let my parents meet me, but when I proposed, he got angry and refused. Later, he saw that I was really angry, so he agreed to accompany me back to my hometown for a visit. However, after returning, he even took a photo with my family. I had to avoid them all, but my sister reminded me later, and I got a better idea and realized that I was the third party invisibly, and he was already married and had children."
is so stupid.
It can be seen that whether a man will be "anxious" to bring you into his circle of friends, whether he will be "anxious" to let you meet his parents, or whether he will be "anxious" to get your parents' approval... This is a measure of whether he loves you deeply.
Someone who truly loves you will be eager to get blessings from his family as soon as possible.
I am anxious to transfer to your city and want to stay with you forever
Some love spans the city.
Just like that sentence: Maybe, the distance is not far, but it seems to be far away from the mountains and seas; maybe, the distance is very far, but it is just the distance between hearts.
A girl said: I originally disdained online dating, but the moment I met him, I realized that you can really give your heart to a stranger.
Although the words are very romantic, in my opinion, there is only one criterion for online dating, which is that he can come to your city, transfer his work to you, and have the heart to stay with you forever.
How much love seems to be lingering, on WeChat, on the phone, and talk about human love, but often "die in the light". Once they meet, it evolves into a room card, a short-term relationship.
Therefore, a person who truly loves you will be afraid that you will disappear into his world, so he will be anxious to be around you; he will be afraid that if he is not by your side, you will be ignored by someone else. He was "robbed" away... Therefore, he will immediately mobilize various relationships, abandon his original life circle, come to your city, and start a new life.
Love is actually not that complicated.
A man loves you deeply, and you are the only factor he considers when making a choice; you are also the only principle he adheres to when making a decision.
So, women, if you are "in love" with a man living in two places, then he will work hard for you to go to the same city, which is the most obvious manifestation of his deep love for you.
I am anxious to establish a relationship with you and want to get your "heart and soul"
In life, there is always some love. After dating for a long time, two people still do not recognize each other.
Even if you have been getting along with each other for a long time, even your friends will call you "sister-in-law", even if you have been living together for a long time... But when you ask him "When will you get married?", he still can't give you " affirmative answer".
You must know that there is a saying that although it is tacky, it is very true, that is: any relationship that is not for the purpose of marriage is a hooligan.
Therefore, if a man only wants to enjoy your body, enjoy your care for him, and obey your financial help for him, but has no intention of marrying you, then most likely, you are in love with the wrong person.
I still remember that I once saw a diary written by a boy who had just graduated.
He said: "After graduation, I anxiously confessed my feelings to her. Fortunately, she already had me in her heart.
We looked for a job together, rented a house together, adjusted our lives together, and accepted each other. We are very interested in food. Every weekend, she would make a bunch of baked cakes and snacks and put them in the refrigerator for several days. I like to cook Sichuan cuisine and always make sauerkraut in large plates and bowls. Fish, spicy chicken ... Just like that, we have been together for five years and have never been separated.
Sometimes, I think that everything is fine with her here. I just hope to be with her like this for a lifetime. ".
is very touching, so, what is love?
Love is what we often call "companionship". Without companionship, there is no recognition; without the certainty of mutual relationship, there is no peace of mind.
If a man loves you deeply, he must be eager for you to give him the status of "boyfriend", and he will definitely ask for the status of "husband" from you anxiously.
Love is not about the length of time, but it is about the determination of the relationship.
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There are always some men and women who have been in love for seven or eight years, but as soon as they turn around, they break up.
Ask them if they love it? The answer is always "loved".
But why didn't they end up together? Because there is no "deep love", because it just seems to be "very much in love".
There are always some girls who accompany a man to grow up, letting themselves go from youth to over thirty years old, but in the end they get the absurd sentence "You like the sea, I have liked you", which makes people want to spurn the man's scum. .
Therefore, a man who is "anxious" to you is worthy of your serious treatment.
Because he does not treat you with the intention of "compare and compare again, and look at everything again", but wants to hold you firmly in his hand and does not want to let go. He uses his attitude to show you Confessing his sincerity.
You must know that life is long and every moment is tortured by time. Therefore, a man's "anxiety" for you means that he is attacking time. He wants to stay with you more and see more of you. People eat more delicious food and live a better life.
So, women, you must cherish this man who is "anxious" to you.
It has been a long time, but with his company, the time will be turned into a long trickle, and the flower of happiness will bloom brightly and long-lasting.
author, calm fox
picture, network
I hope you can find the deep affection in the ordinary years in my words! Thanks for attention!
