Yesterday, a man in Linxiang, Hunan Province knocked down his wife while driving on the street and crushed her twice to death. Does this sound creepy and incredible? How much hatred and insanity would it take to do this? Why did the original sweetness and love disappear and even turn into murderous intentions?
The process of the incident
According to the personnel of the local police station, the perpetrator and the victim were indeed a couple and had two children. The two parties met on the same day to discuss divorce due to personality differences, but due to the husband’s household registration issue, it would take several days to complete the procedure; After they came out, the two went their separate ways. The husband hit his wife on the side of the road and ran him over with his car. When a pedestrian on the side of the road came to rescue her, the husband drove back and ran over her a second time and drove away. The wife was eventually sent to the hospital and rescued. Invalid death.
Emotional Analysis
It is said that a couple's kindness lasts a hundred days. Husband and wife are closer than parents. They have been sharing the same bed for so many years, and they are life partners with body and inspiration. But everyone has their own personality. If you really can't live together because of your incompatibility, it is wise to negotiate for divorce. But why put people to death? If it is a dispute of interest during negotiation, can the two parties just negotiate again? If one party does not want a divorce, then both parties can coordinate and communicate. Why not give both parties a chance, but destroy both parties with their own hands? I think this is ultimately caused by the low quality in the marriage of .
Low quality - low quality culture and education
It is understood that the victim is a post-00s generation and has two children. From this, we can guess that the woman’s education level may not be high, or even on the low side; depending on the woman’s age and social status From the actual requirements of women in choosing a spouse, it can be inferred that the perpetrator should be of similar age and education or slightly older. From his behavior, it can be inferred that personal control and understanding are average; it can be seen that quality plays an invisible role in marriage. Couples with low qualities have lower conflict rates and handling methods than couples with high qualities; this is because individuals have different abilities to realize and have different visions. Of course, this does not guarantee that highly educated people will not make mistakes. The Fudan poisoning case, case, and SISU drug poisoning case were all committed by highly educated people; but at least the way they commit crimes is not so simple, crude, and blatant.
Low quality - low tolerance and tolerance
Couple life is also a process of seeking common ground while reserving differences. It is difficult to change the habits and personalities that have been formed for more than 20 or even 30 years; therefore, couples should spend more time together. Be tolerant and tolerant of the other person, and tolerate it if you can. If you really can't tolerate it, then you have to communicate and see how to improve. Blindly thinking that you are wronged and magnifying the degree of self-injury will only make the relationship more tense; when life cannot go on, think about "I still have children, if the family is gone, what will the children do?" Although this sounds like a practical use Children are bound morally, but isn’t that the essence of married life? What was originally a life for two people, with the arrival of the child, became a matter for three people, four people, and finally became a matter for two families. Therefore, tolerance is very important in a family.
low quality - low love interest
To maintain a relationship for a long time, you have to let the other person take root in your heart; to maintain a long-term relationship between husband and wife, you must maintain love for a long time; this kind of love can be the love when you are passionately in love, or it can be daily. Family love lasts for a long time; but in real life, many couples lose their relationship after living in the daily necessities of life. Some time ago, the Jiangxi Satellite TV gold medal mediation program encountered a couple quarreling. The husband drove past his wife and later claimed that he drove away because he did not know at the time. At the mediation scene, he said that when he saw the look on his wife’s face, It's very heartbreaking when I get scars, but I don't forget to add one last thing: Even seeing a stranger will make me feel heartbroken. With this sentence, the host questioned whether he really loved his wife and compared his wife with a stranger. This can't help but make people feel sad.
In general: The main reason why the divorce rate is high and marriage breakdowns occur frequently is that there are too many low-quality marriages; these low-quality marriages cannot withstand the test and temper of life, and low-quality marriages remain low-quality for a long time. Marriage can make people tired and even give rise to evil thoughts.
