Married life needs to be managed by both husband and wife, and a good marriage cannot be separated from the joint efforts of two people. So don’t always envy others’ love and happiness. If you can do these three things, you will be happy for a long time and be envied by others.
First, don’t quarrel often.
Many couples quarrel when they encounter problems, and they end up red-faced every time they argue. After the quarrel, there was a cold war. The result is that nothing can be solved. If we encounter similar problems again, we will still quarrel and have a cold war. Even when your emotions are high, you may say some hurtful words to the other party. Even if you reconcile afterwards, these words will stick in your heart like a needle, and it will sting when you think about it. The problem will not be solved by quarreling. It will only make the relationship more noisy and diluted, and life will become more and more chaotic. Relationships are originally 100 points, and once you quarrel, one point will be lost. If you keep arguing, there will always be a day when it returns to zero. You should find the right way to solve the problem.
The second point is to be dedicated.
When two people are together, they must be absolutely loyal to this relationship, this marriage, and this family. There are many temptations after marriage, but you must not think that this is because you are attractive. The men and women outside are not stupid either. They all know that anyone they can easily pick up is definitely not a good man or a good woman. Marriage requires exclusiveness. We need to cherish each other even more.
The third point is to discuss things when things happen.
Couples should discuss things when things happen. There is a kind of conflict between husband and wife called non-discussion when things happen. I feel like I can make the decision, so I don’t need to tell the other person. But this kind of arbitrary assertion will make your other half feel disrespected. Many family conflicts arise as a result. If you discuss it with the other party in advance, you will have an extra pair of eyes and a smart brain.
home should be the direction of return and our eternal safe haven. Discuss big things more and be considerate of small things. Don't argue about right or wrong, don't settle old scores. Absolute devotion to family and mutual tolerance. In this way, a home will get better and better!
