I have wine and tea. If you have stories, come to me. Click "Follow" above and you will be mine. Gu Man's "The Sun Is Like Me": "Being passionate is a disease, and it must be cured." Smart people know that being passionate is a disease, and they either don't allow themselves to g

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Gu Man "The Sun Is Like Me": " Being passionate is a disease and must be cured. "

Smart people know that being passionate is a disease. They either don't allow themselves to get sick or stop losses in time. And stupid people never know that being sentimental is a disease, otherwise they would not be sentimental, and they would not continue to be sentimental after being punished.

Maybe there are people like this around you: they are very conceited, feel that they are great for no reason, feel that they are the god, and look down on everyone, especially those who they think are inferior to them.

Such people not only show off their superiority, but also like to use their superiority to attack others, deny others, and calculate others. They think that everything they do is natural and that they are qualified to do these things.

Anyone with any brain can see that this kind of person is sick. If you are in a marriage and your significant other and your husband's family are this kind of people, and you see that they are sick, will you still stay and suffer??

The following reader’s complaints about her ex-husband and mother-in-law are about this issue. Let’s take a look at it together.

Letter from readers:

For me, marriage can only be crossed by feeling the stones. It is impossible to understand all the principles without getting married.

Since I want to get married, I can only take this path. However, this does not mean that if I marry the wrong person, I must still make the mistake. Anyone who marries the wrong person should stop the loss in time. Don't always think about marrying a chicken or a dog. Some people come into your life just to make you try and make mistakes.

The reason why my ex-husband and I got married is, to put it bluntly, we each got what we wanted.

Because I didn’t go to school much and went out to work very early, I lacked knowledge and culture, and he could make up for my shortcomings; his shortcoming was that he didn’t make as much money as I did, so we went out. Considering the next generation, I feel that two people can be perfectly integrated when they get married.

But the fact is that my shortcomings are not really shortcomings. Although he has a higher education than me, he is just a nerd. To put it bluntly, he is just better at taking exams than I am. Apart from that, his knowledge of how to behave and do things is far inferior to mine, because my experience is all gained from practice, while all he has mastered is theory. .

His shortcomings are the real shortcomings. Although he has a high degree of education, he makes less money. Moreover, due to the lack of practical experience and rigid thinking, he will never make more money than me..

In this way, I suffered a disadvantage in that marriage, because I did not need him to make up for me, but he and his family needed me to make up for their shortcomings.

If their family is reasonable and treats me well, it is not impossible for me to marry a chicken and a dog. The problem is, none of their family is normal.

As soon as we got married, my mother-in-law ordered me to hand over my pre-marital property. Her son actually agreed with her hands and said it was for my own good. My mother-in-law's appearance was really ugly.

After I rejected them, they began to be sentimental and hit me with a sense of superiority. They denied everything about me just because of my low academic level, thinking that I was trying to climb up their family, which meant that I had to hand over all my money to be qualified to climb up the ladder. their home.

It’s obvious that they are trying to make me a money-spinner, but they accuse me of trying to make me a money-spinner. Don’t you think it’s sad? Do I need to treat such a man and such a husband well?

They thought they were sure that I would not dare to get a divorce, and they thought that what I valued most was a man with a high academic level. Little did I know that since I discovered that my shortcomings were not shortcomings, I no longer have any nostalgia.Moreover, my advantage is that precisely because of my low education level, I can legitimately be a scolding shrew. If anyone dares to stop me from getting a divorce, I will definitely fall out with him.

Although they have a sense of superiority, they suffer the disadvantage of being educated. They don't dare to be a shrew like me, and they don't dare to fall out with me, so the divorce is extremely smooth for me.

I heard that the two of them haven't learned any lessons, they are still being sentimental, and they still want to scheme against others. I just think they are pathetic. The sad thing about them is not that they are sentimental, but that they don't know that being sentimental is a disease. This means that sooner or later they will pay for their own pride, and even gods can't save them!

Donglin Xiting Emotional suggestions:

The reader’s mother-in-law is passionate and has nothing to say, because this is a common problem among many elderly people. Mother-in-laws like usually have little education and have never seen the world. Their social circle is basically limited to a certain village or community, and they are surrounded by the same kind of people, so they can never find a way out of their own cage..

The most tragic thing is her ex-husband, because he should not be as ignorant as his mother. He had read, gone to school, been out, and was young. In every way, he should be smarter than his mother. He is not smarter, which only shows that he is stupid. He has been living in his own world and under the wings of his ignorant mother.

In terms of marriage, his most stupid behavior is foolish filial piety. If he had grown up in captivity, Yuxiao would be understandable. But he was not kept in captivity. It can only be said that he has always been uncivilized. He has developed the bad habit of "being sentimental" since he was a child, so he did not have any doubts about his foolish and filial behavior..

After the divorce, mother and son neither learned lessons nor made changes. We can say with certainty that they are hopeless and terminally ill. This kind of people who have no strength or sense of superiority think that they have strength and superiority, which is equivalent to saying that they are on the road to schizophrenia. They can't even manage themselves well, let alone bring happiness to others. This As a result, no one dares to live with them.

The problem of being sentimental is easy to cure, you just need to use your brain. After you make a mistake because of being sentimental, use your brain to reflect on yourself and question your mentality and behavior. The main thing is that if you can recognize that being sentimental is a disease, you can recover immediately, otherwise you will be burdened with shackles for a lifetime. Don’t believe it !