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I once saw a sentence: Good girls, falling in love is too difficult.
Perhaps the reason why everyone says this is: once some girls fall into a relationship, they will live by the rules around men and give to the person they love without asking for anything in return.
Even some girls will identify with that person for life, and they can’t wait to take out their heart and soul and let the other person see it.
However, the more often a woman is like this, the more she will be severely hurt in a relationship.
Just because this man had not completely fallen in love with her, but she surrendered as soon as they got together.
So, women, you have to be clear-headed. Only when a man really recognizes you can he "see your goodness", "no matter what you do, he will approve", and only then "no matter what you become" He likes them all."
is just like, in " the little prince ", facing the proud rose, the little prince's behavior is an expression of a person's deep love.
Because, even if he left the planet where the rose was, he still couldn't let it go in his heart; even though, in the eyes of others, that rose was no different from thousands of other roses, he would still say:
Her More important than all roses, because I watered her, I put her in the flower canopy, I protected her, and I got rid of the caterpillars on her body.
It can be seen that in his eyes, rose is unique and charming, and he is willing to give everything for her.
Therefore, if a man sets his heart on you, he will want to protect you for the rest of his life. He will take one action towards you, which is: recognize you and praise you, no matter what you are.
A person who is committed to you will not make you feel "inferior".
There is a friend next to you who is very outstanding. Anyone who sees it will comment that he has a model figure and an angel face.
A woman is also very confident, she has great achievements at work, she dares to wear backless clothes, she dares to challenge on the dance floor, and she is also very eloquent in speeches... Therefore, she is also very picky about relationships. Everyone always says, "If you don't find it, you will get old." "Yeah," but they didn't care at all.
But one day, she posted on WeChat Moments, saying that she was single, and attached a photo. In the photo, she was leaning against a man, and the two of them looked so happy that it was beyond words.
However, the two of them were together. Not long after, she suddenly said to everyone in confusion: I think I may not have found the right person.
Everyone asked her what was wrong. She said: After being with him, she always felt inferior and felt that she was getting worse and worse.
However, her past "pickiness" was seen by everyone. How many men came under her pleated skirt, one after another, and finally left in disgust. How could she feel inferior?
It wasn’t until her boyfriend showed up that we discovered the fishiness.
That day, the woman wore a suspender dress with a thin gold chain. She was still as stunning as before. However, when we all complimented her on her beauty, her boyfriend said inappropriately: How beautiful. Ah, the fat on my belly is about to pop out.
Everyone was speechless for a moment, and she even blushed to the root of her neck.
Yes, a person who really loves you has no time to praise you, so how can he be willing to "humiliate you" in public?
Later, they broke up naturally.
Therefore, when a man uses words to "demean" you and makes fun of hitting you, then let this man go as far as he wants.
In life, there are always some men. When a woman wears a short skirt, he will say that the girl’s legs are thick. When a woman has a pimple on her face, he will say, “This thing is a little too hard to eat.” When a woman uses a parasol, he will say "I'm already so dark, but I'm still afraid of being exposed to the sun"... In short, his words and deeds will let you see how low a person's lower limit is.
When encountering such a person, a woman must not feel inferior, let alone doubt that she is as unworthy as he says.
Please believe that you just haven't met the right person.
A person who truly recognizes you will only make you more and more confident and love yourself more and more.
The person who has his heart set on you will "praise" you endlessly
Once, a girl in the background left a message saying:
"When my husband and I first met, there was a kind of "Titanic", Jack It felt like love at first sight when I met Ruth. He was very romantic and his words were humorous. I was attracted unconsciously.
We developed quickly. After three months together, he took me back to see him. Parents.
However, I later discovered that after I went to his house, every time he talked to his mother on the phone, he would always look up and look at me affectionately. I originally thought it was his mother praising me, and I asked him shyly, But later I found out that I was overthinking it. In fact, it was his mother who always told him that "I am not suitable for him." She said that I was from a single-parent family, and she disliked my lower education than him and my appearance.
In fact, I have always felt that. My situation is very good, my job is stable, my income is not shabby, and my appearance is average. So, after learning about his mother's thoughts, I was very angry and thought of breaking up.
However, at this time, my husband was really worried. It's great. Every time I go to his house, he always praises me in front of his mother, which makes me feel embarrassed. I have also dispelled my doubts, and now his mother and I get along very harmoniously. , and I’m going to be a mother soon.”
After reading this long paragraph, I feel that when the girl wrote this experience, she must have been smiling happily.
Yes, what does a man’s true love for a woman look like?
Perhaps, in his eyes, you are the most beautiful, best, and best person in the world.
He appreciates you just like appreciating a famous painting. Even if you have occasional flaws, it is like "blank space", exuding the beauty of reverie.
He will not let you suffer any injustice. He will enter your life and treasure you like a "rose that needs to be worried about from time to time."
Therefore, it can also be seen that if a man truly recognizes you, he will not follow other people's arrangements. He will recognize you, praise you endlessly, encourage you, and make you feel the warmth of being surrounded by love.
A man who has his heart set on you will "appreciate you"
In "Wuwen Xidong", there is a character Liu Shufen.
She had a good job, but because she liked Xu Bochang in her heart, she sent him to college without any regrets.
However, Xu Bochang disliked her after graduating from college.
Even if he married her, even if she worked hard every day to wash clothes and cook for him, even if she didn't have enough to eat, and she would leave the food to him, he still abandoned her like nothing. Not a single good word.
He would never touch the cup she used. She beat and scolded him, but although he didn't speak, he was terribly silent.
It can be seen that he is only enjoying his care in the marriage relationship, but he does not recognize her at all, let alone praise her.
In life, there are always some men who demean women from the bottom of their hearts, and the reason why they do this is mostly because they themselves lack trust in love.
They do this just because they have low self-esteem inside, so they want to gain a sense of security in life and improve their own value through such behavior.
Therefore, anyone who shapes the relationship between men and women by trampling on the self-esteem of others will find it difficult for him to fall in love, and his heart is also extremely selfish and indifferent.
So, women, when you meet such a man, don’t break up with him, just leave quickly.
Don’t think that you can influence him with love. The longer you are with him, the more he will demean you and the deeper you will be hurt.
0 million, don’t think that it’s okay to tolerate it, you have to remember: someone who is truly committed to you and wants to treat you as a partner will only appreciate you, not attack you.
Conclusion:
Love requires mutual joy.
Just like in the fairy tale Cinderella, even if the girl is "Cinderella", the prince will hold the glass slipper and look for her all over the world. When he sees her true appearance, he will praise her beauty and feel sorry for her plight. , sensing her kindness.
Perhaps, some women will say, if he doesn't like me, why would he mess with me? Why are you still confessing to me and pursuing me?
tells you that the truth is very cruel, that is: at present, he has no better goal, and he feels that you are easier to chase and easier to get "trapped".
That’s why he will attack you verbally and dislike you after he gets together with you.
When facing such a person, you must not think that he is "teasing" you, nor that you are "making fun of each other."
You need to be sober and truly recognize your man. He will only make you more confident, make you happier with him, and allow you to enjoy his "praise" to you all the time.
author, calm fox
picture, network
I hope you can find the deep affection in the ordinary years in my words! Thanks for attention!
