As parents age, they need care from their children, who will face the fatigue and mental stress of taking care of their parents. When parents are old, their children should have their share of companionship and care. In order to fulfill their filial piety, most children are willi

As parents age, they need care from their children. Children will face the fatigue and mental pressure of taking care of their parents.

When parents are old, their children should have their fair share of companionship and care. In order to fulfill their filial piety, most children are willing to take care of their parents.

But if you accompany and take care of your parents who cannot take care of themselves, you will lose your own life. Children have to endure loneliness and helplessness, repeating the same boring and unbearable life. Over time, they will inevitably become bored. Being bored with their parents will make children feel guilty, tangled mentally, tired physically, and tired mentally. , is the norm for children taking care of their parents.

Lao Zhang, a middle-aged man, is experiencing this kind of life.

In order to take care of his mother, the couple separated. He lives in an old house of ten square meters every day to take care of his mother who is almost in a vegetative state. He gave his mother liquid food, inserted a gastric tube, wiped her body, and could not leave her for a minute.

He has lost his own life and lost communication with the outside world. Looking out the window in his spare time became his only communication with the outside world, but there was no scenery outside the window. What he faced outside the window was an old house that was about to be demolished, and in the distance was an alley.

My mother lives in a dilapidated compound that is facing demolition and most of the residents have moved out. The alley was quiet and unpopular. Loneliness and loneliness invaded him, and the depression and boredom in his heart made him restless.

One day, a strong and plump woman lived in the house opposite. He heard the sound of a trolley suitcase being mopped on the floor, and a woman dressed a little rustically came into his sight, rented the house opposite him, and lived under his sight.

This woman lives alone, and strange men often come to her home. When a visitor entered the woman's rental house, the woman closed the curtains, and the man left in less than half an hour. Lao Zhang knew what happened in the rental house, and when he saw this woman again, his mind changed.

Living a boring life, Lao Zhang began to observe the female tenant opposite. He discovered that female tenants like to wear red clothes, even their underwear is red. The underwear was hanging on the wire hanging by the window, catching his eye.

observes the female tenant opposite him every day, watching her every move, watching her receive men, and looking at various styles of red underwear, which becomes the joy of his life.

One day, he found that the female tenant and the man were cleaning up the house together and preparing to move. While he was inserting the gastric tube into his mother, he felt disappointed and his hands shook. He had never made a mistake in inserting the stomach tube for three years, but he missed it.

His mother passed away, and he knew that he had killed her. He was painful and guilty, but when the familiar smell of his mother disappeared, he only felt his chest loosen, as if a pair of scissors had picked at his heart that had been bound for a long time. The rope broke, the heart was loosened, and the blood began to flow in an instant.

Lao Zhang took a deep breath. In his imagination, he completely opened the lung lobes in his chest, and a sense of transparency suddenly surged throughout his body.

Pain and guilt are intertwined with relaxation and liberation. He is both guilty and somewhat relaxed. This is true human nature. His mother had no quality of life, and he took good care of her for several years. This ending may be suitable for both mother and son.

When Lao Zhang opened the window that had been closed for a long time, the cold wind stung. It was as if I had been slapped hard by my mother for doing something wrong when I was a child. He subconsciously covered his face with his hands, but his hands were wet. He didn't realize that tears had already covered his cheeks.

When caring for bedridden elderly people, how should we balance limited freedom and responsibility? Is it a coincidence or necessity that the son accidentally killed his mother? Complex human nature gives us a lot to think about.

This story comes from one of the short story collection "Ju Ge" written by 12 well-known contemporary writers. The article is called "Hou Nong" and the author is Xue Shu.

12 well-known writers include Liang Xiaosheng, Jiang Zilong, Qiao Ye, etc. The entire novel collection talks about 12 lives that are not perfect but worth embracing. The story is warm and simple, romantic and secular, magical and everyday.There is also an article in the

novel collection, the content is also related to parents. It is about a daughter bathing her elderly mother. The content is true and the emotion is simple.

It is a daughter's duty to bathe her elderly mother. This seemingly ordinary and simple thing has extraordinary significance.

Because of the inherent thinking, the mother favors sons over daughters.

The mother has three children, two sons and one daughter. The daughter is the second child, with an older brother above and a younger brother below.

Mother is an ordinary mother, with characteristics that all mothers have in common. Restricted by traditional thinking, they pay more attention to their sons and feel tough living in their sons' homes. Even if their lives require the care of their daughters, they will never live in their daughters' homes. If a daughter is needed to help with bathing, it should definitely be done by her daughter. It is not a matter of going to the daughter's house and letting the daughter come to her brother's house to bathe her mother.

Although I have only one daughter, she will not be pampered. Although she did not receive special treatment and even felt that her mother favored sons over daughters, her daughter was considerate and filial to her mother. Do what your mother likes and meet her needs as much as possible.

is somewhat vain, likes to be praised, and needs her daughter to realize it.

Mother is vain. When she needs to buy something, she always tells her daughter, because only her daughter will buy it for her without hesitation and willingly.

Although the mother cares more about her son, she is aware of her daughter's thoughtfulness and warmth. She is very relaxed in front of her daughter. She wants things she likes. Although she is very tactful, she also accepts them confidently. She will never let her son buy these. She knew in her heart that her daughter was filial and considerate, and she also said that people who have daughters are blessed.

She is actually contradictory. The environment makes her value boys, but she still loves her daughter in her heart. She knows that she is happy for her daughter, and she also knows that her daughter can fulfill her wishes. She is very good at doing these things, and this mother is successful.

She put in a lot of hard work in raising her children.

's works describe many details of life. The mother's life is narrated in a eloquent way. It is as ordinary as the life experienced by every mother. It uses delicate descriptions to restore the mother's real life.

The hardships you put in to raise your children, and your strength to withstand the hardships of life. There are many sacrifices that children cannot imagine. You can read a lot from this article, which can help all children understand their mothers and understand their mothers. A lot of behavior.

took off her clothes one by one by taking a bath, revealing the most authentic image of her mother. The image of a mother who is no longer physically upright, because she is flesh and blood, the image in the reader's mind is clearly visible, real and credible.

The old mother is so weak that it makes people feel distressed.

While the daughter was giving her mother a bath, she chatted while washing her. Through the mist, she recalled what happened in her life. Even though her life felt a little unsatisfactory at the time, The memory is still full of warmth.

The best way to express your nurturing grace to your mother is to understand your mother's behavior, respect her hard work, value her feelings, and respond to her needs in a timely manner.

A daughter can best understand the psychology of a mother. The mother's strength is given to her sons, while her vulnerability is left to her daughter. Although the mother may favor sons over daughters, she is not confused and her daughter will do all the things that need to satisfy her. She knew that the only person who could truly understand herself in detail and feel sorry for her was her daughter.

Therefore, when the daughter gives her mother a bath, the mother can sigh: It is her daughter who is better.

But it cannot change the importance they attach to their sons. This is an inherent thought in their minds and has nothing to do with character or feelings. But the daughter can have the most barrier-free communication with her mother, and the mother's weakest side is presented to her daughter.

When facing her daughter, a mother is the most relaxed.

uses the process of bathing to vividly express a woman's life's hard work and dedication, her love for her children, her partiality and balancing as much as possible, and her life of trying to be strong but ultimately losing to time.

This mother is very ordinary, just like our parents. She has her own favorites, her own vanity, and her own concerns. She knew that she could only tell her daughter what was on her mind, but she would not go to live with her daughter. What she missed most was her grandson.

Every mother is, first of all, an ordinary person with her own strengths and weaknesses. After becoming mothers, their sense of responsibility makes them willing to put in labor and hard work. At the same time, due to the influence of the environment and inherent thinking, it is difficult to be equal to a bowl of water, and it is inevitable to be unfair in treating their children.

An ordinary mother and a careful daughter. In the mist, the mother and daughter slowly revealed the details of their lives, which were both warm and helpless, but very real and very real.

Twelve stories, each story is close to life, telling the tears and tenderness between people. After reading it, you can know all kinds of things in the world and all kinds of tastes in life. Peel away the complexity and subtlety of daily life, and release the indescribable pain sunk in the tedious life.

can be described as: an old soul’s writing about the world, ordinary people’s special moments.