Everyone knows that raising children is to prepare for old age. This sentence seems to be directed at one's own son. But when an old man is planning to live in his daughter's home, he must be careful. A son-in-law can only replace half of a son. After all, a son-in-law cannot be

Everyone knows that raising children is to prepare for old age. This sentence seems to be directed at one's own son.

But when an old man is planning to retire at his daughter's home, he must pay attention. A son-in-law can only replace half of his son. After all, a son-in-law cannot be compared with a son.

Although the daughter is also the heir, the idea of ​​​​the son-in-law is probably not as simple as you think.

No, there is Aunt Chen in Henan. She is 65 years old this year. She is planning to spend her retirement at her daughter's home.

Aunt Chen thinks so and is prepared to do so.

But what does his son-in-law think?

Don't worry, please pay attention to the editor, and ask me to tell you this emotional story.

This son-in-law's name is Peng Gang. He is 33 years old this year. His mother-in-law has three children, and his wife has two brothers.

After he got married to his wife, his mother-in-law came to visit his house every now and then, and sometimes she would stay here for a day.

After my mother-in-law retired, she came to my home more frequently. As a son-in-law, I had nothing else to say.

One day, my wife said to me, my mother plans to retire at our home and die. What do you think?

As a son-in-law, of course I disagree.

I told my wife: I am opposed to it! Because my own parents still live in their hometown in the countryside to take care of themselves.

You see, the wedding house where the two of us got married and lived in was bought by our parents who were reluctant to eat and spend the money they saved for us.

Although the mother-in-law is my wife’s biological mother, she also has two sons! Why can't we live in the same house as our two sons?

Besides, raising a son to provide for old age refers to a son, not a son-in-law. You have two older brothers above you. No matter how many times you go around, you won’t be able to live in your son-in-law’s home until you die!

My son-in-law called his mother-in-law at that time and politely refused her to come to my home to retire.

Who knows, after my mother-in-law answered my call, she clearly knew that I was opposed to it.

So, she simply came and stayed at my house without doing anything. The next day, she carried her luggage and came directly to my house to live.

As a son-in-law, of course I can't be on the same level as my mother-in-law. Even if I don't want to stay, I have to pretend to smile and welcome my mother-in-law's arrival.

After my wife saw what I was thinking, she said to me: My mother’s monthly pension is 5,000 yuan, so she doesn’t need your dirty money at all. My mother must have come here for the sake of our family. Either you contribute money to our family, or you contribute to our family.

So, I didn’t say anything else at that time. I hope so!

In the blink of an eye, my mother-in-law has been living in my house for three months.

When she first came here, she asked for a separate room for herself, and asked her son-in-law to prepare air conditioning, a refrigerator, and a washing machine in the room. She didn't need to pay for these, as she had plenty of money.

After I prepared all these things for my mother-in-law, she never mentioned it again. I said I wanted her to pay, but in fact, I ended up paying it myself.

After my mother-in-law came to my house, she requested to eat seafood every day, because seafood is natural and nutritious.

I thought to myself that seafood is so expensive. Our family has never had such a request. Mother-in-law, you have to make such a request. I was really speechless.

I thought that my mother-in-law’s monthly pension was 5,000 yuan, but unfortunately, after one month, all her money was spent, and our family even subsidized 2,200 yuan here.

So, I was puzzled, can the monthly household expenses be so high? I quietly asked my wife, what is going on?

Unexpectedly, the wife said: All of my mother’s pension was spent on her two grandchildren.

It turned out that every Sunday, both sons had no time to take care of the children, so my grandma brought the two grandsons to my house.

After her grandson arrived, the mother-in-law went to the supermarket to buy hundreds of dollars worth of groceries. Then she returned home and cooked for her two grandsons. She will cook whatever her two grandsons like to eat.

The most annoying thing is that her two granddaughters and grandsons turned a blind eye and turned a blind eye.

After her two grandchildren are gone, if you ask them to cook, she will have various reasons to refuse to cook in the kitchen.

During a weekend break, two grandsons came to my house. The little grandson wanted to eat lobster.

The mother-in-law cooked steak and boiled lobster for her grandson without saying anything.

After my little daughter saw it, she was eager to eat it. Suddenly, her mother-in-law scolded her and made her cry.

I see it in my eyes and remember it in my heart.

thought to myself, mother-in-law, you eat and live in my house, is this how you treat your grandson and granddaughter?

So, I thought that this mother-in-law was not a qualified elder.

In addition to cooking various feasts for her two grandsons every week, her mother-in-law also takes her two grandsons on trips together during holidays.

Therefore, the mother-in-law’s monthly pension of 5,000 yuan is not enough at all.

In addition, the money that the three of them, their grandparents and grandchildren, can enjoy together is not enough, and our family has to pay in advance.

Since my mother-in-law came to my house, not only has she not contributed any money to our family, but we have to give her supplementary money.

However, in all of this, my mother-in-law has never considered the feelings of our family.

No, just a few days ago, she bought another LCD TV, and she planned to put it in her bedroom.

I refused directly and said: Our two people's salaries have been reduced recently. At present, our family's living situation is very difficult. I hope my mother will stop making so many demands.

also hopes that mom will think about your daughter. Our life is really difficult!

As a son-in-law, he said such straightforward words to his mother-in-law.

But this mother-in-law doesn’t allow you to argue at all. She only said, all I want is that you buy me an LCD TV. Don't tell me anything else, I can't understand it either!

My mother-in-law's words and deeds really disappoint me. Since the elders don't think about their daughter and son-in-law, don't blame the son-in-law for being rude.

So, I directly said to my mother-in-law: You can buy an LCD TV, but you have to pay for it yourself. Our family doesn’t have that much money to buy a TV for you.

After hearing this, the mother-in-law also said angrily: All my pension has been spent, and now I have no money.

After I listened to my mother-in-law, I also said: You buy this today, buy that tomorrow, and live and eat at my house, but you are reluctant to spend a penny on my family and only care about your son and grandson.

You have never taken care of your grandson or granddaughter. Are these two children not your children?

Now, your daughter and I have lost wages, but you insist that I buy you an LCD TV. Don’t you want to bring down our family?

Mother-in-law doesn't care whether you have money or not, let alone my feelings, she insists on letting her son-in-law buy an LCD TV.

Now, as a son-in-law, I finally understand that this mother-in-law is a particularly selfish woman.

She only cares about her sons and grandsons in her family, and does not consider her daughter, son-in-law, granddaughter, or grandson at all.

When you meet such a mother-in-law, will you have a headache? Do you feel that she intentionally wants to bring down the family of her daughter and son-in-law?

I am really speechless!

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