My husband came again and always said to me, my mother is not easy, you should be nicer to her, he is an old man, why can't you give in to him? I endured it for a long time, and finally I fought back: Yes, it’s not easy for my mother-in-law. Isn’t it not easy for you to drag me w

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My husband is here again, and he always says to me, my mother is not easy, you should be nicer to her, he is an old man, why can't you give in to him?

I endured it for a long time, and I finally fought back:

Yes, it’s not easy for my mother-in-law. Isn’t it not easy for you to drag me with him?

What you mean by this is that you are drawing boundaries, you are separating me from my mother-in-law, and you are siding with my mother-in-law!

Yes, my mother-in-law and I are strangers to each other, but I am your most beloved one! Your pillow companion is the one who will accompany you until you grow old, and the others are just passers-by. This is our little home, and the relationship between husband and wife should come first!

What I want to say is that it is not easy for mother-in-law. Did I start after I passed it?

Of course not, it should be the father-in-law who makes his life difficult, not you! This is the life of our old couple. You can't say that after I got married, the reputation of being difficult was hung on my head!

If you say this, let me analyze it for you. We are also parents. Why have I never heard you say that it is not easy for me? Did I come here specifically to be a nanny?

If this is the case, your family can just hire one. Why do you need to spend so many colorful gifts to marry a daughter-in-law? Why do you need to let me, an outsider, in?

What you mean is that no matter who you marry, your mother-in-law’s life will not be easy!

But my husband, your statement really makes me feel chilled! Ours is a family, a family of unity and friendship!

But in this family, whenever my mother-in-law and I have a slight conflict, your whole family, father-in-law, sister-in-law, brother-in-law, and you will come over and talk to me all night. Why do we still have this kind of marriage?

My husband was speechless by what I said.

summary: After we get married and have our own small family, it does not mean that we have to break away from our original family, parents, brothers and sisters, but the most important thing for you is that your small family can keep everyone safe! The person beside your pillow is your closest lover.

Being an adult is not easy for everyone. I hope our boys can treat their wives well. Because he is the most important link between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

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