When people live in this world, they have to deal with all kinds of people and experience all kinds of things. If they want to straighten their backs, live freely, and live strong, they must meet the following three conditions .
First, you must have money.
Especially when people reach middle age, they have to face a lot of problems. They need money to support their elders, and their children need to go to school. They also have their own family life, and they need to buy a house and a car. All these problems need to be solved with money.
Money can solve more than 90% of problems, and the remaining 10% of problems require more money to solve. Money can buy you what you want, money can give you the life you want, and money can also help you win over relatives around you. Respect from friends.
Xiaohong went out to work after graduating from junior high school. His younger brother Xiaoyong got good grades and was admitted to college. Xiaohong helped his parents to support his younger brother's education.
Xiaohong met her husband when she was working. After they got married, they worked together in other provinces. After graduating from college, her younger brother became a civil servant in the county.
Every time during the New Year, Xiaohong’s husband would ride a motorcycle and take Xiaohong back to Xiaohong’s parents’ home to celebrate the New Year and visit her parents.
At this time, Xiaohong's family of three, his younger brother, and their parents would sit together to eat and chat, and Xiaohong's parents would cook a large table of meals.
At the dinner table, Xiaohong's parents often praised their son for his potential. Xiaohong's parents had always been partial to their younger brother, and Xiaohong and her husband were used to it.
During the Spring Festival of my younger brother’s third year at work, Xiaohong’s husband rode a motorcycle and took Xiaohong with him to Xiaohong’s parents’ house to celebrate the New Year. When he just walked to the door, he saw Xiaohong’s mother coming out. Xiaohong said enthusiastically Going up to say hello, Xiaohong's mother just glanced at the family of three and said: "Your brother went to his girlfriend's house to celebrate the New Year this year. I just finished eating. If you haven't eaten, just make it yourself. I'm going next door." The family is playing mahjong.
After saying this, Xiaohong’s mother left without looking back, not even her grandson’s New Year’s red envelope.
Xiaohong felt very uncomfortable, and Xiaohong’s husband was also very angry. Xiaohong told her husband at that time, let’s go home and not eat at his place.
Just like that, Xiaohong’s husband took Xiaohong and his son home.
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After attending the confinement nanny training class , Xiaohong's husband stopped working for others and began to take on home decoration projects independently.
In order to make more money, they did not go home for three consecutive Spring Festivals. In these three years, Xiaohong's husband's business grew bigger and bigger. He established a home decoration company and earned a lot of money.
Xiaohong’s husband returned to their hometown county with funds, opened the largest local decoration company, and purchased commercial housing and shops in the county.
became a famous local decoration boss. Xiaohong no longer has to work. She and he became the boss's wife and stayed at home to study with her son.
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Whenever the Spring Festival, Xiaohong's husband will drive a 300,000 off -road vehicle , and he returns to his father -in -law's mother -in -law's house with the little red mother and son. Every time, the father-in-law and mother-in-law entertained them warmly and gave Xiaohong's son a generous red envelope.
Xiaohong's husband also received warm hospitality at the home of his father-in-law and mother-in-law. Xiaohong's parents became very affectionate and polite when they spoke.
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Xiao Hong knows very well that if a person has no money, even his biological parents will look down on him.
Second, you must have a healthy body.
Your body is your capital, and it also gives you the confidence to work hard to make money.
Health is like "1", money, status, and women are like the "0" at the end. If the "1" is gone, everything is equal to "0".
Third, you must be irreplaceable in the workplace.
In the workplace, you must have a certain skill, and you must continue to learn and maximize your expertise, and you will live more and more comfortably.
mid-life crisis, because your irreplaceability is easily resolved. If you stop moving forward and know everything half-heartedly, the midlife crisis will come to your door.
Fourth, know how to enjoy a lonely but not lonely life.
can live happily alone, concentrate on doing her own thing, live in her own world, and enjoy the happiness that life brings her.
A person with such ability can enjoy life without being disturbed by the world. This is the foundation for him to enjoy life.
A person lives until retirement. Looking back at his life, it is both complicated and simple.
Make money, take care of your body, have a certain degree of irreplaceability, and learn to enjoy loneliness. People who have these four things will have the confidence to live in this world.
