"A Good Life": She is worth tens of millions, but a flash marriage is only one extra for sex. How stupid is she?

Qian Jiayi is the sales manager of a listed company in Shanghai. At the age of 32, she has spent every day at work 10 years after graduating from university in order to gain a foothold in this city.

Just like Liu Wen said, there is no time to fall in love, abandon all private life, and have today's status.

32-year-old strong woman, why suddenly flash marriage "soft rice man"?

In Shanghai, a place with a lot of money, she has a big house of her own, and her car is a silver Mercedes, which can be regarded as financially independent and successful in her career.

But when a person returns home at night, the snow-like loneliness will slowly fade away. Every time you stand in front of the floor-to-ceiling windows, the bright lights of thousands of families can always arouse her. Sorrowful pulse.

For modern professionals, the three mountains of marriage, life, and occupation, each of which can crush you, is even more cruel to older leftover women.

28-year-old Wu You is urged by his parents every day because he is still unmarried: "You are in your 30s. Are you still gnawing at home, are you sorry?"

"You are the biggest light bulb in the house, you Don’t you think? When on earth can you get married?"

In the eyes of many people, when a woman passes 30, she will immediately start to depreciate, just like a car that is sold, it will be scrapped in a few years. , The child will not give birth to half.

No matter how well your career develops, in the eyes of others and your parents, you are a poor and useless person. In the eyes of many people, you also seem to be a quirky and incomplete person.

Add one to the money that can’t bear the pressure,I got married with Lin Yueda who had known each other for a day.

Is there love between them? Qian Jia and Lin Yueda certainly have no love.

Lin Yueda happened to appear at the stall where Qianjiayi wanted to get married. Before Lin Yueda could express his admiration for Qianjiayi, Qianjiayi took the initiative to attack: "You like me, don't you?"

When Lin Yueda bought Qianjiayi sanitary napkins and brown sugar to hang on the doorknob, she sent him a message: "Let's get married."

The next day, the two got married at the Civil Affairs Bureau. The news shocked everyone.

Qian Jiayi chose Lin Yueda for three reasons: First, he likes her. Second, he is obedient enough. Third, he is not as good as her.

A man's love begins with heartache, and a woman's love mostly comes from admiration. However, once a person gets married in order to complete the task, the first consideration is the condition rather than love.

A woman like Qian Jiayi who is strong, temperamental, busy at work, and has a cleanliness is suitable to find a "soft man" who follows her in everything. Her life rhythm is inherent His living habits will not be broken because he moved to her home.

These are all the conditions for her to get married, and not disturbing her life and work is a prerequisite.

Marriage without careful consideration, a fierce son will always drown himself

Lin Yueda after marriage is indeed obedient. He is on a nine-to-five shift and is diligent every day Get up early to make breakfast, clean up, and wait for the money plus one to come back for dinner at night like a little wife.

They got married with a certificate. There is no wedding, no banquet, and no real husband and wife.

How awkward is it when two people have known each other for a day?

The two have been sleeping in separate rooms. Lin Yueda's friend learned that he was married and sent him a condom packed in a chocolate box in a prank manner.

Lin Yueda didn't know it at first, so he gave his wife money for food. When he knew it was a condom, he explained awkwardly and awkwardly: "I didn't mean it, don't think too much!"

Two married people talk about "sex" discoloration. The trial marriage period is awkward and lumpy, but this is the true reaction of many couples who marry to "finish the task".

Many people who have been married quickly through blind date do not accept that they are married in their hearts. They will also unconsciously conflict when they have physical contact with each other.

If she doesn't let him go to bed, he can really sit on the ground all night, add one to the sleepy money, and see Lin Yueda lying on the ground and steaming food, she is satisfied.

For a few moments, she felt unprecedented happiness and felt that the decision to flash marriage was wise. did not fall in love with Lin Yueda, but fell in love with this kind of day.

What broke the happiness filter of money plus one was the arrival of cousin Lin Yueda, a middle-aged woman in her 40s who brought a 6 or 7-year-old child to her house.

As soon as she entered the door, she saw the messy ground. She found her slippers on the feet of her cousin. The child jumped onto her white leather sofa while wearing shoes.

Qian Jiayi's heart beats with anger,On the surface, she still pretended to be calm. Because of the arrival of her relatives, she was forced to have no choice but to share the bed with Lin Yueda.

She only knew that the man’s snoring was so loud, she did not fall asleep all night, which seriously affected her mental state and reduced the quality of work.

What she couldn't bear most was Lin Yueda, who had promised to send her eldest cousin and children to the hotel the next day, and was procrastinating every day.

Only now did she understand that marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families. Lin Yueda can give in for anything, but when it involves family and relatives, he is like a different person.

Very few people can leave the family of one person, just be with this person. The shrewd and strong money in business and the face of affection are the same as papi sauce, simply believing that you can escape from his origin. Family, only two people in the world.

A fierce son plunged into the marriage, she was overwhelmed with anger , she couldn't beat her big cousin, and didn't want to make herself a bitter woman. Qian Jiayi dragged a suitcase and moved out of her house, standing in the hotel room with mixed feelings in her heart.

There are trivial and unbearable weights in marriage that you can't imagine

There are some unsatisfactory things in marriage, such as the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, snoring of each other, lack of hygiene, and meddling and trouble between relatives. To put it bluntly, But trivial, it's almost impossible to get it on the countertop.

However, these things are like sand falling into the eyes. Although small and not dangerous, they still make people uncomfortable and uncomfortable.Sometimes, is like a big deal.

Many older leftover women, especially Qian Jiayi who is devoted to career, are quite stubborn and pure, just like her best friend gave her:

"Qian Jiayi is at work An exquisite warrior, but in terms of feelings, she is Xiaobai. I am really worried about her marriage.”

Many older single women are just like Qian Jiayi. They have too simple and ignorant ideas about marriage. They either have illusions about love and refuse to improvise, or they imagine marriage too terrible.

In fact, not many people have marriages as perfect as you think. Most of them are gorgeous on the outside and fleas inside.

man, life has given you a shell. No matter how hard you are in the shell, the shell must remain strong.

Good things are difficult, many things in the world are the same, there is nothing that you can achieve a perfect state without hard work, especially marriage.

Many times it is more difficult to manage a marriage than to do a good job. Many people have a smooth family relationship only when they have been tempted by marriage and are covered in blood and bruises.

Marriage is just like human nature, not as good as we thought, and certainly not as bad as we expected.