Since ancient times, stepmothers have been difficult to be, and stepmothers have a bad reputation. It seems to be a conclusive statement.
I am Xiaosan Zhuanzheng married to Jiang Hao.
After graduating from university, I was admitted to the business department. Jiang Hao is the deputy chief of my department.
Jiang Hao, as a leader, took care of me a lot.
Jiang Hao is ten years older than me. I am already thirty-three years old.
However, his daughter is only five years old. I heard that his wife is in poor health and has not been to work. She is a standard housewife.
I also know that it is very immoral for me to intervene in other people's families like this.
I have to withdraw a few times and leave, but I am confused and lost by Jiang Hao next time.
Jiang Hao said that he has filed for a divorce from his wife. They have two houses. The small house will be allocated to his wife. He will keep the big house, but he will also keep the custody of his daughter.
I am a little hesitant, after all, I am just twenty-three years old, and all my dreams of marriage are beautiful imaginations.
As a stepmother, I really don't have any mental preparation, let alone be a stepmother.
I asked Jiang Hao if he could give his daughter to his wife and give them the big house. After marriage, I can also give him children.
Jiang Hao hesitated, but on this matter, I was very persistent. Since I was a child, I have been criticizing my stepmother. I really can't accept that I face an adopted daughter every day and get criticized by others.
In the end, Jiang Hao divorced, and the child was sentenced to his ex-wife, and the big house was also given to his ex-wife and daughter.
The underground relationship between me and Jiang Hao has always been well hidden.
At that time, I had a boyfriend dating to cover up. Therefore, no one thought that I would have an affair with Jiang Hao's secret song.
Therefore, when Jiang Hao and his ex-wife divorced, they divorced on the grounds of emotional death.
In order to avoid suspicion, it took another year and a half before we entered the marriage.
After Jiang Hao and I got married,His daughter would come to live with us one day on weekends, and we were unfamiliar and polite.
Jiang Hao's daughter smiled. Although she is less than seven years old, she is very smart. She has no resistance to me, but she has no affection and liking.
In such a peaceful day, two years later, I gave birth to a son, and Jiang Hao treated me better.
I thought that life would go on so happily.
Unexpectedly, Jiang Hao's ex-wife was diagnosed with cervical cancer. The normal course of our lives has also completely changed.
Jiang Hao was ashamed of his ex-wife, so after knowing that his ex-wife had cancer, he took his daughter back to our house according to the wishes of his ex-wife.
At this time, Xiaoxiao is already in the fourth grade, and the ten-year-old Xiaoxiao looks quiet and quiet. There is a bit of warmth in the ordinaryness that we have been getting along with.
Jiang Hao said, maybe after smiling, he will live with us.
Although I have slight resistance in my heart, under special circumstances, I can't help but forgive Jiang Hao. After all, his ex-wife has cancer and his daughter is still young. If we don't take her in, can we have other choices?
Originally, my mother brought me a one and a half year old son at home, and smiled. In a two-bedroom house, my mother was bound to live in the same room with Xiaoxiao.
My mother said it was embarrassing. She asked my husband to take the mother-in-law to take care of the two children. My mother said that she was going back to her hometown. After all, she couldn't worry about keeping my dad at home alone.
That's it, my mother is gone, and my mother-in-law is here.
Originally, I was worried about the conflict between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so I begged my mother to take care of my son. When I laughed, everything was disrupted. I was really worried about this complicated relationship.
I asked my husband to transfer Xiaoxiao to a private school, the kind of closed management, and go home once every half a month, so as to avoid some friction and right and wrong.
Husband said that he had this meaning, and he was worried that the relationship would not get along well.
However, Xiaoxiao disagrees, and my mother-in-law disagrees.
said with a smile, private schools are expensive, and she wants to use the money to treat her mother.The mother-in-law also promised again and again that she would make Xiaoxiao obedient, and she would take care of Xiaoxiao.
Husband is very helpless, not only moved by the love of the mother of Xiaoxiao, but also worried about the future bumps and bumps, my stepmother will be kind to Xiaoxiao.
My family’s economic power is in my control. I originally saved three to four hundred thousand yuan. I am about to sell this house and change to a big house.
Jiang Hao's ex-wife fell ill. Jiang Hao was going to donate 100,000 yuan, but I refused, but only gave 20,000 yuan.
This time, I couldn't go to a private school with a smile, and said that I would use the money to treat her mother's illness. I was angry when I heard it.
It is Jiang Hao's duty and responsibility as a father to send her to a private school.
is to avoid conflicts when they are often together, and this is the second best thing to pay for high tuition.
How can they calculate this way?
I firmly disagree. I even took a fancy to a three-bedroom house first, paid the deposit, and went directly to an intermediary to sell our house.
The mother-in-law sighed when she found out, but she didn't say anything.
Smiling when I heard that I was going to sell this house and buy a big house, I cried and asked if I was unwilling to spend money to treat her mother.
Although my husband did not dare to say that I was wrong, he also said that I was too extreme and too impatient.
I am really a little angry. I told Xiaoxiao that I was not obligated to treat her mother with the hard-earned money I saved, and I didn't have that responsibility and affection.
I told my husband that Laughing Mom wanted to treat her illness, so she sold the big house that belonged to her, so she could go for treatment!
The husband said that his ex-wife wanted to save the house for Xiaoxiao.
I sneered.
His ex-wife was really good at calculating. Morality kidnapped us, blackmailed us emotionally, and asked us to pay her for medical treatment, but she left a way for her daughter.
I also have a son, and I have to leave a way for my son too!
Besides, why should I pay for the treatment of his ex-wife's illness?
Later, my husband listened to my suggestion and after discussing with his ex-wife, he sold his ex-wife’s big house.I bought another small house. In this way, his ex-wife still has a house to live in, as well as money for medical treatment, and we can also guarantee the quality of our lives.
I don’t think I’m selfish, and between people, I can only help others if I’m rich enough. I’m struggling now. Where can I take care of others?
I can love Wu's care and smile, but I have a son, and my duty and responsibility is to take good care of my son.
At this point, I am plausible. I said so loudly to my mother-in-law and husband, no one can refute it.
In the end, with my strong insistence, Xiaoxiao was sent to a private school.
Xiaoxiao hates me for this.
I smiled and thought it was because I couldn't help it. I had to encourage her father to sell her mother's big house and dislike her as an eyesore. I had to send her to a private school just to prevent her from disturbing our lives.
For this reason, I laughed and yelled and complained about me. I didn't explain, and I didn't bother to talk nonsense with her.
Because this is my real thoughts, I don't think I am doing something wrong.
Maybe this is the thinking of stepmother!
The adopted daughter has her own mother. Since I can't expect the adopted daughter to treat me like a mother, then I will do what the stepmother should do.
seems cold and unkind, but it is the most suitable arrangement.
Sometimes distance can not only keep right and wrong away, but also give each other a certain amount of space. Everyone can live more freely. I do this, which is very reasonable.
Fortunately, my husband supports me.
My husband's ex-wife's surgery was done very well. My husband and I visited her several times. For the sake of face, we all treated each other politely and got along well.
We also moved into a new home, and everything seems to be back to normal.
The relationship between my mother-in-law and my mother-in-law is lack of affinity, and there is no contradiction. Every time I come back with a smile, I will find reasons to ask for money, buy clothes, shoes, buy this and that, and ask for famous brands and brands.
I never refuse this directly, nor will I accept her heart.
I let my husband educate her,After all, he is still a primary school student, and he is too vain to compare with others. This bad ethos is not good.
Because when I buy clothes for my son, I always focus on affordable and comfortable clothes, and I never care about what brand of clothes I buy for my son.
Husband did not encourage the vanity of smiling, and sincerely educated smiling.
However, Xiaoxiao told my mother-in-law that it was my stepmother who refused to let her father spend money on her.
said with a smile, my stepmother is too vicious, I just want to earn a family business for my son.
When my mother-in-law was chatting, she told me that Xiaoxiao had a deep prejudice to me. I hope I can talk to Xiaoxiao when I have time, so that the conflict will not worsen.
I refused. There is an adopted daughter of my own mother. Feed the unfamiliar adopted daughter, let me let it go!
Because her husband's ex-wife seems frail and weak, but she is a scheming one. Obviously Xiaoxiao was sentenced to her, but because of her illness, she naturally asked us to bear all the expenses of Xiaoxiao. She also asked his father to make a will and ask for it to be written. In the future, our house and property will also be available. For a smile.
For this reason, my husband was very dissatisfied, and told his ex-wife to let her worry less and raise her body is the right way.
I said to my mother-in-law, as a stepmother, I might not be too accommodating to spoil my adopted daughter. Because, I know, an adopted daughter whose mother is still alive, my stepmother, can't be recognized even if she is so tired that she vomits blood.
No matter how good I do, it won’t be accepted. Why not just do what the stepmother should do?
I don't abuse my adopted daughters, I should do my duty well, have a clear conscience, and live calmly and calmly.
Three years later, Xiaoxiao is about to enter junior high school, and my son is also in kindergarten.
At this time, her husband's ex-wife is about to remarry.
I was really surprised, Xiaoxiao Mom got cancer and didn't have a formal job. Why would I want to marry again?
What kind of man would it be like to marry a middle-aged woman who has a sick child and hasn't had a stable job?
Jiang Hao went to find his ex-wife again and again for this, worrying about her being cheated.
His ex-wife said that the man to be married is a business man,She was a classmate. This man was widowed for many years and had two children. In a car accident, both the child and his wife were killed. This man had a crush on Xiaoxiao's mother in his early years, so the two are getting married now, just to keep warm.
After listening to my husband, I feel that it is nothing. It is better to have someone to live with you than to live alone.
Unexpectedly, his ex-wife said that she was going to make a will and would leave the house for Xiaoxiao.
His ex-wife asked my husband Jiang Hao, hoping that Jiang Hao would also make a will. In the future, he would treat him with a smile, not patriarchal, and give all the family property to his son. His ex-wife said that Jiang Hao, the relative father, should also give his daughter one. Assure.
After my husband came back and told me, I coldly responded: "There should be a family property with a smile, a piece that is indispensable to her, and she won't get a point. She is an outsider with the status of an ex-wife, what is there? Eligibility to mix with our family's affairs? Tell her, our family's affairs, I am in charge. I will not make a will."
Husband also bothered his ex-wife using this as an excuse to make a decision, so he refused the ex-wife's request.
Unexpectedly, his ex-wife stopped talking about the marriage, and instead went to court. She had to arrange her daughter's future life before she died.
My husband and I received the court summons, we were all dumbfounded. I don't understand what Xiaoxiao mom is tossing about?
Later I learned that Xiaoxiao’s cancer had metastasized and might not be able to live long, so I made up a lie about remarrying.
Her purpose is just to deceive her husband to make a will, who knows that I was blocked by force.
She worries that her daughter will be treated harshly by my stepmother in the future, and she is even more afraid that my husband will not give her daughter any property. Therefore, before she died, she wanted to fight for her daughter at all costs.
I was really hurt by her neurotic operation.
This woman is really dying, she has to count to death!
My husband hates that his ex-wife is dying but he does this! Let Xiaoxiao go home and persuade her mother not to be such a demon.
Who knows, smiled and said that her mother loved her, so she planned for her, and smiled and asked her father if she loves her? If you really love her daughter, why not write this will?
Husband was really forced by their mother and daughter.
My husband directly found a lawyer, and then wrote a statement that all the real estate and family assets of the family will be reserved for me and my son, and he completely gave up all rights.
As for my husband a hundred years later, he made a notarization, and the right to deal with the real estate is entirely up to me.
I didn't expect that my husband would do this. Didn't this slap his ex-wife and abandon his daughter Xiaoxiao offend?
I really don't think it is necessary to do so absolutely. After all, Xiaoxiao is her husband's daughter, and a family property that should be given to her will not be missing from her.
Husband said that he was his own daughter who wanted to laugh and never thought of being mean to her. Who knows that their mother and daughter are calculating again and again, which is so disgusting and sad.
Husband said that he completely let go of their wives this time, to see how they bother.
I said, maybe I will die before you first. In that case, let’s give a smile to the family property!
My husband said, nonsense, I am ten years older than you, and I must die first. The mother and daughter were worried about this, so they forced me to write a will, but I just couldn't say what they wanted.
The final result is that Xiaoxiao and her mother both said that it must have been my idea behind the scenes, and encouraged her husband to make such a vicious decision.
I don't want to defend myself, let me laugh and wrong me.
My husband loves me and my son. I am naturally grateful and moved.
My husband's affection for our mother and son, I accept it. I also want to leave a guarantee for myself and my son. I, the stepmother, did nothing wrong.
My mother-in-law also felt that my husband had done nothing wrong. The mother-in-law said that with a smile, the property left by her mother is guaranteed. A girl’s family, so greedy, what do you do?
I don't want to pretend to be impassioned, and I don't want to pretend to be virtuous.
Since the adopted daughter can't be raised no matter what, I will raise the child I gave birth to. It is too hypocritical to reluctantly come.
has some fate, can't make fate, so just do it!
Dear friends, tell me, as a stepmother, what should I do to be correct?
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