Today we will continue to talk, let the older young women return to the countryside to solve the problem of large numbers of bachelors in the countryside. Take a look at how netizens come up with ideas and how to evaluate this matter?
A netizen said that he has his two daughters. He moved from the countryside to the city to live. The children went to school in the city since childhood, and the house industry was all set up in the city. In the end, he also said something cool, even in the countryside, let the people with more sons stay.
From his words, we can first tell that he does not have a son and he wants a son, but he does not. Then there was jealousy. This means that he will definitely not let his two daughters marry in the countryside. This kind of education itself is problematic. First of all, regardless of boys and girls, family education comes first. To make fun of others is to expose your own scars.
Some netizens also said that the two daughters in the family used to be in the countryside, and they were often bullied and even looked down upon. People can't hide in the city. Now that no one comes back, all those who have sons in the countryside have become bachelors.
Some netizens said that women go out to find better development, and men do not go out because they are lazy and feel that they lack the ability to bear them. They are used to finding comfort from their parents.
I have indeed seen this, especially in rural homes with a son and a daughter. The girl is big and the boy is small. At this time, the boy is more likely to spoil him. This elder sister has to bear more, and whether this elder sister is going to school or going out to work, he rarely talks about the suffering he suffered outside the house.
But this younger brother is different, because his parents have more preference for him since he was a child, and they have to bear more for him. It is precisely because the parents have done all the things the child should do, so he has nothing to do, and dependence arises. Many have evolved into gnawing old people.
There are even a lot of bad studies, and then go out to work, but it can not stand the beatings of the society. The leader said he was angry with a few words. He wants to give up when he gets tired of the work. After giving up, he returned to his parents. At this time, it was just mixing day by day. It's really not possible. There are still a few acres of land in my parents' home in the countryside. Pots and pans can be inherited.
Some netizens also said that it is not because boys are lazy, because human nature is lazy, but girls are more diligent. At this time, the boy has a family property and has the blessing of his parents. It’s okay to stay at home, but this girl doesn’t have a homestead when she grows up, and his property doesn’t have him anymore. If he doesn’t go out and work hard and find a better family, his life will be miserable. .
What is the root cause? It’s still the traditional concept, patriarchal decision. Girls will marry when they grow up. After they are married, they will no longer be their own family members. Sons can pass on from generation to generation, so that their own line can be passed on.
Then there is a netizen who tells his own experience. That's how he has his dad. His dad supported him once when he was young, and fell down that time. At that time, there was nothing wrong with the pain, but his father hurried back to his hometown behind him.
Said that I was too tired and never wanted to eat anymore. I have been in my hometown since then, and I haven't stepped out of my hometown for decades. If you eat at home every day, I have to deliver it to your hands. I will criticize you if it is not delicious. His mother does all the farm work, hard work, and housework in the family. Don't come out to take the burden unless you have to.
And most of the money earned is smoking, drinking and playing cards. Before he went to elementary school, he always wore other people's old clothes. Only when I was in junior high school did I have a few pieces of my own clothes.But 80% are other people's old clothes. I bought the school uniform once when I was in school, and it was someone else who persuaded his parents to buy it. As for books other than books, the one that the teacher asked to buy, the book that requires homework assignments, is never bought. I will scold you if I say too much. A book can be scolded for years.
Now I am sick from smoking and drinking, and I don't really care about hygiene. When I am over 50 years old, I said I want to provide for the elderly. In the end, there was no alternative. People whose mother had never had soft door had no choice but to go to work in the factory. His younger brother had to go to school. The tuition was all taught by his mother. He bought clothes and shoes.
He paid for almost half of the living expenses. My son's father stays in his hometown all day long and spends more than 2,000 yuan a month. Let him save the cost, he still doesn't listen, and after spending it, go find someone else to borrow money to spend. Others also know that his mother will pay it back. So I lent it to him every time. He felt his father was too useless.
This kind of people are very common in rural areas. Why? The patriarchal thought is used to the traditional concept. Especially those who treat their sons as baby bumps. When I grow up, I can't bear hardship, and I can't stand alone. Parents rely on their parents when they are there, their wives when their parents are away, and their children when they grow up.
This kind of person can only marry a wife in the past, but now he has no other choice.
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