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Marriage is an unforgettable relationship, a promise to grow old hand in hand, and a life without regrets in this life. People of the older generation have people who walk hand in hand. They value feelings very much and value each other very much. They are married for a lifetime.
The divorce rate is so high now that many people get divorced soon after they get married. They treat their feelings like a child's play, and they have no responsibility at all.
Where is it like the older generation, treating feelings, treating the other half as if treating yourself, never leave and protect each other. Do you all envy this kind of marriage and the love between them?
Actually, there is not much love between husbands and wives. After marriage, love has become family love, and the feelings must be divided among the children. The only thing left between husband and wife is the plan to depend on each other, relying on each other and supporting each other.
Some people don't treat marriage well, and they quickly find another one after divorce, then how do they feel and what changes will happen to their married life. Let's listen to what the three women are saying and how they feel. The following content does not represent the author's point of view, please speak in a civilized manner.
Ms. Mao, 36 years old
I am 36 years old this year. I have been married once and have my own views on marriage. These views are in my heart and affect me, and also affect me to find this section marriage.
The person before is a good gambler, he likes betting very much, he can squander it immediately, regardless of who you are, how much money you give him. In his eyes, no one can stop him, even his own parents, who can't be pulled back when they enter the casino.
For this kind of person, I can't help but can't control it at all, I can say I dare not control it. When this kind of people become addicted to gambling, ten cows can't be pulled back, and they are even grumpy and don't listen to you at all.
Seeing this kind of person, I know how I will end up with him, and I am very anxious. Since he can leave me and the child behind, leave this family behind,I decided to divorce him.
He also begged me bitterly and told me not to leave. I gave this kind of person a chance, but I was disappointed. Disappointed time and time again, I saw hope because I had to go there by myself.
Don't gamble, not only hurt yourself, but also hurt your family. In the end, your family will go bankrupt and your wives will fall apart. I also advise these gamblers to look back in time and not to do this kind of thing.
After the divorce, I finally learned my lesson. I won't go to this kind of person. When I see this kind of person, I hide far away. Because I was scared, I didn't dare to try it with the rest of my life.
I also gained experience from this lesson, knowing that those people will be like this. In the end, I found a person who cares for my family and treats me well. He is responsible, loves children, likes life, and doesn't even go to gambling.
How do you feel about my remarrying now? Of course it’s so cool. I feel like I’m regaining my life and I don’t have to worry about it anymore. People who are afraid of gambling have gambled on the house and sold themselves. Now there is no need to be afraid and you can sleep peacefully.
Ms. Luo, 33 years old
My previous husband is not in good health. He goes to bed very early every day and doesn't care about my feelings. It looks like a pig, has fat head and big ears, and has fatty meat everywhere. I asked him to exercise, but he refused to go, and felt a waste of time.
He thought so, and I also felt that I wasted my saliva. I just didn't listen to it and didn't pay attention to it. Gradually, I lost hope and confidence in him, facing someone who was like a pig. Teammates can't run, let alone pull, they can't breathe while running, and they have to pull a person to run.
If this continues, I abandon him halfway through, thinking he is hopeless. If you follow him, you will become lazy, and you will be lazy. I'm afraid too, let's get a divorce! It is a better relief.
In addition to being fat, husbands and wives are also incapable. This is the main reason for my disappointment. After the divorce, I found a good person, healthy, and able to live a married life every day. In fact, I am not looking at the health of the body, but you have to hold hope in your life and be optimistic, and you can tell whether your body is standard or not.
When you go to the gym every day, your mood may become very good, different. Like my ex-husband, who doesn't work out and has a bad temper, I can't say a few words. Such a person, if you don't leave him, you still quarrel with him?
Ms. Wang, 41 years old
My view on marriage is very simple. As long as I can get along and say things, I can be happy every day. Feelings are not like this, you have a good personality, you will not feel boring in life, you can feel that life is all about motivation.
is a kind of healthy and happy marriage. My ex-husband quarreled with me all day, even small things. The typical one is that he can't make it through, and his personalities are incompatible.
Quarrels also affect the children. During that time, seeing us arguing, the children's personality became withdrawn and they didn't like to communicate anymore. We tried to reconcile, to communicate and get along, but it was still no use. Since the problem cannot be solved, then avoid my problem and get divorced.
I don’t regret the divorce. Later, I found a person with the same frequency to commute to get off work together, go home to cook, and do housework. The personality is very good, knowing to bear with each other, will not quarrel with me. Such a person, I feel that I have found the right one and can live a good life.
Concluding remarks: Some people find experience after their first marriage, avoiding some pitfalls, and they feel comfortable remarrying.
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