good evening, my friend, today is the 137th time I chat with you~
tell you a scary story, we will take leave after tomorrow hahaha!
We originally had only three days off, and the next four days are vacations that I can take off. Yesterday, I saw a parent in the group @我 and asked me to change the composition for her child. I was very upset and did not reply to her message.
This parent is the one whose children had to participate in the composition competition before, and let me help them to write essays. At that time, she said, if I don’t have time to add lessons to her child, let me tell him how to write in the learning group. When I saw the news, my heart broke down.
Hey, although I am a teacher, I am not here to give selflessly. I also want to support my family. I don’t know since when the teacher was promoted to the altar, what "spring silkworm" When the silk is dead, the wax torch turns into ashes and the tears begin to dry.” After I became a teacher, I only felt that the teacher was just one of the masses, not so noble and not so great. The teacher was also for the few pieces of silver. Ordinary people who want to panic.
Besides, even if it is necessary to give, I will not give to the child's parent's attitude towards me.
Well, you see that I am right, but I really didn’t give Dao back like this. I don’t want to sacrifice my rest time for her child to change the composition, and I don’t know how to reject her, So I am very irritable.
last night at 2:30 in the morning,She added me to WeChat, and the remarks were just one word: Urgent. I really think, absolutely. Obviously, my avatar was replaced with the words "today off" a few days ago.
I woke up early in the morning to see this news, and I was so annoyed that I just wanted to log out of WeChat.
Until this morning, I saw Uncle Da’s article, which talked about the concept of "internal scorecard". After I carefully understood it, I made up my mind on how to deal with this matter.
I searched and combined with Uncle Da’s remarks, I think the "internal scorecard" can probably be understood in this way.
I am entangled whether to reply to this parent’s message, but I am entangled whether I should choose to refuse directly and take a good vacation; or I should reply to her and help her children in the study group to change their composition for free. .
Undoubtedly, I tend to choose the first one, and I am irritable because I am worried that if I don’t reply to the parent’s message, what will she think of me and how the head teacher will think of me . Taking the external evaluation of oneself as the criterion for action can be understood as the person is implementing an "external scorecard."
Those who implement the "internal scorecard" are independent thinking, independent, have firm values, are free from external interference, and are not influenced by others' reputation.
If you want to be a free person, you should implement the "Internal Scorecard". I suddenly remembered the Damon fan who was spoiled when watching "The Vampire Diaries",It’s because when the hostess asked him why he didn’t show his kindness to others, he replied: “I don’t want to live in the expectations of others.”
The uncle also said: This kind of inner free person is probably no different from a stubborn donkey. If you play well, you will be wise, martial and arbitrarily determined; if you play it, it will be the stone in the pit, smelly and hard.
I thought about it. If I had a bad game in this game, the head teacher would probably understand it, but the big deal is that the parent scolded me and replaced me. For me, there is only one student less, which is not a big problem.
figured it out, I won’t be bored anymore, don’t read WeChat, and happily accompany my girlfriend to marry tomorrow! Work things, wait for the working day to talk about it.
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