63 years old start a business, 40 years old son is still a bachelor, how many parents have been imprisoned in life due to the marriage of the daughter
My name is Dong Depeng, I am 65 years old this year, my body is still healthy, my wife has been away from me for ten years Time is up, a son is still single now at 40 years old. It's not that his son is not doing his job properly, but that his character is dull, and he always gives people a nervous feeling. For so many years, he has often been introduced to blind dates, but none of them have been successful.
I got married early. I got married at the age of 19. At that time, it was considered an arranged marriage by my parents. My wife was the daughter of a friend of my father. I have known my wife since I was a child and often played together when I was young.
When I grow up every day, my father also thinks I should start a family. In that era, learning was extravagant, and I don’t know why. I always feel that our generation is stupid, not good at learning, and always feels like learning. If you don’t go in, you simply won’t go to school after graduating from elementary school, and you will be farming with your parents at home.
It’s impossible for people to have a smooth sailing in their entire life. They just got married and were ignorant. They often had conflicts with their wives. As the children died one by one, I felt very uncomfortable, but divorce at that time was very difficult. The shameful thing is that it is not easy to marry, and the other is that it is not easy to marry.
just insisted on making do with it. When I was 23 years old, my son came to the world. He was really happy and didn't know what to say. The whole family treats him as a treasure, after all, he is the only seedling.
Doted since childhood, but this child is not the kind of naughty child, you can do whatever you say, sometimes very stubborn, but never cause you trouble. The academic performance is also average, but I still finished high school.
Later, I went to a state-owned factory. I have been working for more than 20 years. I usually have no bad habits. I work every day, eat, sleep and sleep.
However, what my wife and I look forward to most is that he can get married and have children, but my wife did not wait until that day, and I also felt choked.It's so hard to get married now, and I can't afford it.
Over the years, my son has not saved any money. After the death of his wife, he was still hit hard. I thought, with his stable character, what should I do if I leave? Although he was not young, he still wanted to save some possessions for his son. Later, when he was 63 years old, he took out his savings and started a restaurant.
I used to be a chef, but I am old, and I have been idle at home for these years, but I have a 40-year-old bachelor son. Every day, I feel flustered and opening a shop is not easy, but fortunately The staff is good, and the neighbors in front of you are also taking care of it.
has been in business for two years and the benefits are not bad. In the past few years, it has been a big problem to introduce someone to my son. This kid can't even drive a car until now. Many times, I worry about him, but it's useless to worry about me.
My son said he was ignorant. He would come to the store to help after get off work and said he was sensible, but he still didn't act on the issue of men and women.
Introduce those who don't like the second marriage, who is with you at this age of first marriage.
Sometimes, people see the reality clearly, it doesn't matter my age, my son is not too young, but he still doesn't understand.
Many friends around me are holding grandchildren at my age, and I haven't even seen the shadow of my daughter-in-law. It's fake if I don't worry, but maybe it's fate.
Postscript:
There is too much helplessness in life, how many parents and daughters’ marital problems have become prisoners of life, and how many parents and daughters have to be busy all their lives. Dong Depeng is just one case. Among thousands of parents, there are still many parents who are paying for their children's lives. Not to mention that we have to be filial to our parents. Even the most basic marriage cannot be resolved, and parents have to worry about it.
Sometimes, it feels that the life situation of the generations born in the 80s and 90s is very miserable.Maybe it was caused by the times, maybe it was caused by people's hearts, more is that we have forgotten the suffering of our parents, we always feel that parents are omnipotent.
I see many parents, for the sake of their children’s marriage, and even in the latter half of their lives, doing some painful work, some as security guards, some as nanny, some sweeping the streets...
In fact, when parents are in their 60s and 70s, they should be enjoying their old age. Why do they still do these hard work? Isn’t it all for our children?
So, I think everyone should be self-reliant and work hard to make their lives comfortable, and to reduce the burden on the elderly.
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