Dickens said: "Mature love, respect and loyalty are not easy to show, its voice is low, it is humble, retreating, latent, waiting and waiting."
Whether a man or a woman, they all look forward to having a mature love.
Through the naive and young years, everyone is looking forward to a long-lasting, deep love that can stand the test of time.
If you encounter it, you will cherish it;
If you can't meet it, wait patiently.
In the middle of the night, a person's sense of loneliness and loneliness will increase exponentially.
Looking at the dim lights outside the window, looking at the couples in pairs, I wish I had a lover to accompany me.
At this time, there may be a person's name echoing in your heart.
You suddenly realize that the position and weight of that person in your heart is actually different from others.
Wu Yun is a freelance worker,Every night is a time for her to "struggle with writing".
I don't know from which day Li Jing started chatting with her in the middle of the night.
Gradually, "late-night chat" became their nightly "reserved item", which also made them one of each other's habits.
One of the signs of falling in love with someone is that the other person has become one of your habits.
If one day this habit is broken, you will be very uncomfortable.
There are not so many bells and whistles in love.
As long as you feel and listen with your heart, you will naturally know what the other person really wants to express, and what your truest feedback is.
Wu Yun is accustomed to working at night. When he is quiet, his thinking is very clear, often several times the efficiency of the day.
Wu Yun and Li Jing met at a book meeting.
Both of them like to read,They also like to quietly listen to others sharing their reading experience and experience.
Both like to sit in unknown corners. The feeling of being ignored and accustomed to being ignored will make them feel safe.
Even though Li Jing took the initiative to add Wu Yun's WeChat, they had no chance to communicate in the following month.
Li Jing is a man with a bit of introversion, and Wu Yun is a woman who is not very talkative.
The most "close" intersection is the outdoor activities of the book club. They spent the night in the wild "together".
Wu Yun's cell phone ringtone is related to Hayao Miyazaki . Coincidentally, Li Jing is also the same.
They seem to have met a life confidant, and they look at each other's eyes immediately differently.
Such a tacit understanding, except for the two of them, no one understands.
Wu Yun began to look forward to the book club every Friday.
because she can see Li Jing,Both of them will sit in the corner, which is their closest contact.
Sometimes Wu Yun held her mobile phone in a daze late at night, she was thinking, why didn't Li Jing send her a WeChat?
Does he have no feeling for her at all?
Wu Yun is unwilling to be the active person.
because she knows that if a man doesn't take the initiative to contact you, he is usually meaningless to you.
In love, Wu Yun wants to be the one who waits, not the one who takes the initiative.
When waiting became a habit, when anticipation became a part of life, Wu Yun's time began to pass very slowly.
After Li Jing disappeared for a while at the book meeting, this made Wu Yun even more at a loss.
Until one night, Li Jing suddenly sent a WeChat message to Wu Yun, "Hello, are you there?" , Looking forward to so long, waiting so long,Li Jing finally took the initiative.
The two talked for a long time that night.
Li Jing said that the reason why he did not go to the school club was because he had been on a business trip recently and was afraid that Wu Yun would worry about him, so he told her specifically.
Wu Yun thought, "I won't worry about you", but his heart is sweet and happy.
Since then, late-night chat has been a habit of them.
talk all over the world, talk about music, talk about movies, talk about life, and talk about all topics that interest them.
Sometimes they don’t chat, and they can fight for a while.
Wu Yun adjusted her working hours. She tried to finish all the work during the day.
Later in the evening, she is willing to leave it to Li Jing.
After countless late-night chats, Li Jing boldly confessed to Wu Yun that it was the most romantic scene in the book meeting that weekend.
Wu Yun has been looking forward to this day,They can finally be together just right.
Countless nights of chatting, countless mornings to watch dawn together, comfort after countless sleepless nights, release after countless hard work.
For the rest of their lives, there will be more nights for them.
Since they regarded late-night chat as a habit of each other, it was destined that they would never be separated for the rest of their lives.
People who are single hope that they can leave the order sooner.
When you meet someone, you may not even realize that the seed of love in your heart has already taken root and sprouted.
Only when you realize that you have deep roots in love.
Behind those seemingly unintentional strike-ups, there is actually a passionate heart and a strong affection.
So what does it mean when a man starts chatting with you late at night?
The little secrets men can’t tell are actually here.
01
miss you
miss a sometimes do not have to say "I miss you"It can also be condensed into one sentence "Are you there?"
Shy and restrained men like this kind of opening.
Even if you do not reply to him, he will not appear so embarrassed.
When a man wants to chat with you, it must be because he misses you.
Whether he tells you this or not, the facts are there, he has proved everything with his actions.
A man chooses to chat late at night because he misses you the most during this time period.
This is also because everyone is more relaxed during this time, and you can chat quietly and easily.
You can say what you want to say naturally, without worrying about whether it will disturb the other person's work or life.
Late-night chat can make each other's feelings develop faster, leaving the noisy and busy daytime, and the tranquility of the night just suitable for heart-to-heart communication.
The man who takes the initiative to chat with you, if he says that he has no intention or purpose, it must be a lie.
His idea is to be with you.
02
after you have and want to develop
two people meet, must depend on the exchange and communication in order to promote language The development of feelings.
When a man wants to develop with you, he will probably choose this way too.
On WeChat, ask if you are there or not, and call and chat when it is convenient.
As for the choice of time, men tend to balance the leisure time between themselves and each other to see which time period everyone is more free.
Before really knowing each other's work and rest time, most men will choose to chat late at night, why?
because in the dead of night,This is when a person is the most empty and lonely.
At this time, a simple greeting can also set off a huge splash in the heart of the other party, and the collision between the mind and the mind is more likely to burst out sparks at this time.
Whatever you want to say, this time is the most suitable;
The emotion you want to express is twice the result with half the effort.
A man who wants to develop with you, you can definitely feel what he really wants to say in his heart.
In the future, I believe you will miss the midnight time infinitely.
03
_span3 _span3 I want you to understand this man, I want you to understand him
And men also want the opportunity to chat in the middle of the night to let women realize what he really is.Temper, personality, temperament, hobbies, etc.
Only after a woman knows a man carefully, she will consider whether to be with him or not.
If two people have no chance to know each other, they will definitely not be together.
Men want to create more time for each other so that women have the opportunity to understand themselves more deeply.
It is easy to fall in love with someone, and it is not difficult to fall in love with someone. The most important thing is to become a habit of that person.
Why can't many people come out of the state of broken love?
is because of changes in habits.
That person used to be a habit of his own. Now, the person who was used to it has disappeared, and of course the person who remains will be very missed.
Until the new habit is re-established, the new life can really start again.
To put it bluntly, if a man is not interesting to you, he will definitely not chat with you late at night.
He can spend this time playing games, watching movies, drinking and drinking,The only thing unexpected is you.
On the contrary, if he always looks for you at the same time in the middle of the night, he is willing to talk to you, and he is also willing to let you confide your worries and sorrows to him.
The implication is that his heart has been opened to you. It depends on whether you are willing to walk in after you hesitate.
Not all men are good at expressing themselves, and not all men choose the mode of passionate pursuit.
Some love has never been said, but men are just waiting for an opportunity.
When he tells you his heart, are you ready to welcome the love that falls from the sky?
It is his choice to fall in love with you, and your choice must follow your own heart.
Author | Qingteng National Level 3 Psychological Counselor, 5 years of experience in the psychological and emotional industry. Good at CBT therapy, ACT therapy, from a cognitive perspective, to update and iterate the cognition of visitors, look at reality from a new perspective, and solve a series of problems.
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