When a person is old, the closest person is his wife? Or your own children? Who can be trusted?

I had a small gathering with my best friend yesterday, and we talked about a topic, who is the closest person when I am getting old? Who is the most reliable person? Unexpectedly, our answers were exactly the same.

When people reach old age, most of their parents have passed away, and only their spouse and children are with them. When they are healthy, everyone is good. Parents tell their children to go home for dinner and reunite, and children invite their parents Go out and eat out, it's fun.

Suppose, if the body has a condition, will it be the same as before? When people reach old age, they have gone through decades of ups and downs, and they have seen everything. To tell the truth, you can no longer take care of yourself. If you try and see, the problem will arise. Who do you rely on to provide for the elderly?

Of course, relying here means that when you are old and unable to take care of yourself, who will take care of your food and drink? Enable yourself to spend your old age in peace.

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2. The closest people are children, but they may not be reliable.

It stands to reason that the children you raise are the closest.

When people reach old age, their body functions gradually decline, and it is common to have a sickness. This requires children to accompany them to the hospital to see a doctor, run errands, etc. In fact, as long as this can be done, it is already good, and nothing is forced.

If you live in a hospital, even if your children are filial and take turns serving, but there is no filial son before the bed for a long time, and various problems will be exposed after a long time.

Because each family has its own difficulties, each family has hard-to-read scriptures, and it is impossible for each family to hang a all the time. It takes a long time to see no hope, and weary children who are physically and mentally exhausted. , I also gradually lost patience, so I can still rely on it in a short time, and it will be unreliable after a long time. If you think about it in another way, you can understand it all.

My colleague’s father, he was straight when he was young,I haven't infused for decades. I have a small problem that can be solved with a bowl of ginger soup. I have never blushed with my mother in my life, and my neighbors are envious of each other.

But unfortunately, my mother died in a car accident when she was 65 years old.

There were three older sisters in my colleague. At that time, when this situation happened in the family, the siblings discussed that they must respect their dad. At the beginning, they took turns living with him and took care of them. Ten years have passed in a blink of an eye.

When my dad was 76 years old, he suffered a stroke from the bath and was diagnosed with hemiplegia on his left side. This made the siblings too busy to see a doctor and hospitalization. Fortunately, the elder sisters have retired and their colleagues are not going to work. After three years by my father's side, I didn't see any improvement, and his body was getting worse and worse. The siblings were also exhausted, and finally discussed and sent him to the nursing home, which relieved.

Dad was sent to a nursing home, and he was in a bad mood. He thought that his sons and daughters thought he was cumbersome and had a grumpy temper. At first, the brothers and sisters visited every week. When he went there, he was scolded by the father for having no conscience. Conflicts also appeared between them, and they complained to each other. Gradually, the siblings went more and more often.

One day, the nursing home called and said that my dad had a broken bone. Let them hurry over. When they went to the nursing home, it was more than a broken bone. Because the body was lying in one position for a long time, there were bedsores on the back. When Dad saw them, he closed his eyes and said nothing. Maybe he was disappointed with his siblings, right? Soon Dad also left with Mom.

Later, whenever a colleague talks about his father’s experience, the seven-foot man will always burst into tears.

The four siblings, so many people, should be reliable, right? But I'm still lonely, so I can't rely on my children.

3. The closest thing should be money, and money is the most reliable.

When people are old, their pensions must be in their own hands, and they have the right to control. When the wife and children are unreliable, money can solve everything.

Because you have money, you have the right to choose. You can home care and use money to pay for nanny expenses,You can also go to a nursing home and use money to pay for the nursing home.

If there is no money, who will serve you?

To put it pessimistically, money can make ghosts grind, and ghosts without money will not open the door. The importance of money is revealed.

My girlfriend's parents are over 80 years old, and their pensions are more than 9,000 yuan. The conditions are not bad. If you choose to live at home, your pension can pay for the babysitter's expenses.

Children have time to go home to visit, and they live on their own without disturbing each other.

There is no shortage of money. Home care is the best. You can choose a nursing home with better conditions. It is also possible to choose a nursing home with better conditions. If the money is less, the condition will be worse. It is always managed by someone, not quality, but food and clothing.

Therefore, when a person is old, the closest person is his wife and children, but the most reliable person has money. Pro is definitely pro, but it can no longer solve the problem. The only way to solve the problem is money.

Of course, the ideal thing is to have a wife to accompany, to have children, and to have enough money.

Okay, I have talked so much. I just want to remind the elderly that they must take care of their own money bags. .