Text: Shiyi Changqing
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Once a woman likes a person, she will be full of expectation and enthusiasm for the other person, as long as she can make the other person happy, whatever she does, she will Feeling willing.
Especially when the other party responds, their beliefs will be firmer.
It seems that as long as you can be with your loved one, everything is worth it.
However, when there is no response to the effort, and the respect is not exchanged for flattering, their enthusiasm will slowly cool down until the person in their heart is completely forgotten.
Even people who have loved them deeply, once they are much disappointed and their hearts are cold, their attitude towards you will be completely different from before.
Maybe, sometimes you will feel that the woman has changed, the tone of talking to you is no longer gentle, no longer caring for you, no doubt, her heart is cold.
In other words: a woman’s heart is cold, and she often becomes like this.
No more sharing the bits and pieces of life with you
When she first got together, she always chatted by your side, even if she wanted to tell the little things about Sesame you.
At that time, you will not feel annoying, you will listen very carefully, and cooperate with her to share your opinions and opinions.
However, I don't know when you start to resent that she will always say something meaningless, and everything will bother you.
As a result, she slowly became less talkative. When you are with you, you don't ask her without asking. Sometimes even if you ask, she will habitually say "It's okay."
once saw this sentence: "The deterioration of a relationship often starts from the loss of the desire to share."
deeply agrees.
When a woman's heart is cold, she will choose to hide her thoughts in her heart, because she knows that even if you say it, you won't care.
So in her opinion, it's the same whether you say it or not.
When I feel cold, I will naturally no longer share the little bit of life with you. The implication is that her life has nothing to do with you anymore.
Become strong and independent, no longer dependent on you
In the world of feelings, every woman wants to meet a man who can rely on and trust.
If you are the trustworthy person in her heart, she will often behave easily in front of you, and even put down all guards to be the truest self.
get along with you,She will not feel pressured, and she will not deliberately pretend, no matter what she will subconsciously seek your help.
In fact, she believes in you from the bottom of her heart and regards you as the closest person who can rely on.
But if you start to ignore her, reject her, and are unwilling to reach out and pull her no matter what, her love for you will slowly lose its warmth.
She began to try to change herself, no matter what she did, as time passed, she no longer needed your care and no longer needed your help.
You should know that when she starts to be strong and independent, the first time she encounters difficulties is to rely on herself or find others, and no longer rely on you, which proves that she has no expectations of you in her heart, and has chilled her heart with you. .
Don't care about your affairs, don't care
There is a saying on the Internet: "When I love you, you are a glass, I don't love you anymore, you are glass slag.
If you think about it carefully, this sentence is not unreasonable. If you like a person, you will coat the other person with a layer of gold. In the eyes of others, he is obviously so ordinary, but in your eyes, he Will glow and heat.
That is to say, when a woman likes you, she will treat you as a treasure and cherish it. She will always see you more importantly than her own.
No matter where you are, no matter how far you are, you will always receive her care and greetings.
But if what you do breaks her heart,Her tolerance and forgiveness you don't cherish, she will be disappointed in you sooner or later.
Since then, she will no longer ask about your affairs, she will no longer participate in your life circle, and she will not care about who you are close to.
Maybe you are still complacent because she has no restraint and no requirements on you. You think she is tolerant, generous, and sensible, but in fact she just has a cold heart and has no expectations of you anymore.
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Author: Shi Yi, do not forget your original intention, grow up with you, write every article carefully, I hope my words can heal and warm you~
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