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Life is like a blind box. You never know if you are full of joy and usher in expectation or trouble.
Before things happen, few people can predict, but when the situation has surfaced, how to decide how to judge next depends on the perception of the parties.
Any bad thing, as long as you stop it early enough, you can avoid the worst. However, too many people in this world have a "gambling" mentality and ultimately fail.
Don't bet on a relationship, when uncertainty appears, there is a high probability that the truth that will appear next is not so pleasing.
Life is alive, don't bet on feelings, don't guess people's hearts. Ten bets and nine loses, often guessing is often wrong.
Many people suddenly lose contact. The emergence of this kind of situation has nothing to do with the importance of it, and it is often affected by the need or need.
Plants tend to grow with light, and people's minds tend to gain advantages and avoid disadvantages. This nature cannot be changed.
Don’t foolishly believe that if you are affectionate and sincere enough, you can surely impress the other person.
You must know that most emotions in the world cannot resonate. Those so-called empathy are just an excuse to draw closer and caring. In fact, no one can truly understand the heart and emotions of another person.
Don't bet on a relationship, you won't win the bet.
Some feelings, let go when it is time to let go, forget the other party, let go of yourself.
People who treat you in the following four ways, no matter how much you love, please persuade yourself to leave early.
Hot and cold, never express your opinion
If a person is hot and cold in a relationship, don’t take a fluke. This happens.Often the other person is tired of the feelings between you.
Whether a relationship can last depends on whether the relationship is honest enough. A relationship is only the beginning. Responsibility can last. A relationship without a sense of responsibility cannot be guaranteed to last no matter how deep it is at the time.
In a relationship, hot and cold means that the effort is unstable. Those who never express their opinions may not have made up their minds, or may just take advantage. Regardless of the former or the latter, it is no longer worth continuing.
writer Su Qin once said: "You don't have to invite too many people into your life. If they can't get into your heart, they will only disturb your life."
Be knowledgeable, if you can't get close to each other's hearts, stay away as soon as possible.
There is no principle, change at any time
In any relationship, changing at any time is a kind of disrespect.
Everyone's time and energy are precious. 's so-called attention is to trouble yourself rather than trouble the other party.
If a person often causes trouble for your own convenience, then this person must be selfish and careless about your feelings.
Psychologically speaking, people who change their minds at any time lack a sense of responsibility.
changes in feelings, seemingly directionless, but in fact not greedy.
People who are unprincipled are never trustworthy. A person may hesitate on something, but there is rarely a huge change in "whether".
It must be understood that those who change their minds at any time are the least credible, because they will rebel at any time for their own benefit.
Excuse life, all kinds of stingy
psychologist Freud said: "True love,The first is to be willing to give, not to get used to it. "Please stay away from the person who is stingy with you.
Although we need to live, we need careful calculations, but in some ways too careful calculations become calculations.
People who really care about you will not do it for the so-called "life" To wrong you, of course, some exaggerated consumption does require moderation, but the person who asks for savings everywhere must care about money over feelings.
True love is to do your best to be nice to you, as long as you want, as long as you want. He does, and he is not stingy.
Beautiful promises are indeed beautiful, but they cannot guarantee the stability of life. The excuses that appear once are forgivable. If the excuses appear frequently, they are proof that the other party has never paid the truth.
Frequent disconnection, no respect
Baby Annie once said: "Everyone who is close to us carries with him the requirements and responsibilities of his past life. Will categorically let go and have no worries. "
Contact can promote feelings, and disconnection will only make each other strange.
People who have not been in contact for a long time suddenly appear to ask for something. The true affection is "a day is not as good as three autumns", and there is a person in my heart. You can’t ignore the other party’s existence. Frequent disconnection can only mean that you don’t have you in your heart. Relations based on equality and need to lose dignity to maintain are all evil fate.
To be a man, you must first learn to respect yourself to have true feelings.
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