Our life is neither long nor short, and it is only a matter of a few decades. If life is a practice, the word "provision" can be said to be carried through a lifetime. How to achieve a happy life? I think the best way is to master it.
It is not difficult to do the best or the worst for one thing, but it is difficult to do the right thing.
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Even the best friendship has an untouchable bottom line.
Friends are indispensable in our lives, and the company of some partners in the long river of life is very precious. Friends can trust and grow with each other, but a sense of proportion is also extremely important in friendship.
I still remember the two years ago S and Aya participated in a variety show " _span _span we are real friends". From the show, it can be seen that Aya has always been ridiculed. Size S can make various jokes on her, such as her appearance, her dress, or when Aya tells her to shut up her idol.
Does this way of getting along really make everyone happy? not at all. Friendship shouldn't be speaking the most hurtful words through the identity of a friend. Respect is the most important cornerstone between friends. You can trust each other but cannot enter each other's lives. Proper measure is the essence of friendship.
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Even the warm affection must be respected by keeping a distance
Since ancient times, we have been influenced by Confucianism,Parents are the existence at the top of the pyramid of a family. "Filial piety" is almost in the minds of all Chinese people. For many parents, children should not have a secret in their eyes.
When they were young, many people had the habit of writing diaries. Everyone will write their little secrets on it and hide them secretly. Even so, parents are always magical to find things they don’t know in the diary, and then say what many parents say, "You were born to me, there is nothing you can’t read!"
children, shouldn’t they really have their own thoughts and privacy? This question has a good interpretation in the 21st century. Everyone is an independent individual. Although a parent has given the child his life, he has no power to control him.
Children should be respected when they are small, regardless of their size, no matter who they are, they should keep the respect of distance.
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No matter how beautiful the love is, it also needs to be maintained and managed. Don't let you lose your mind.
Love is the best product in the world. Many times we think that love is a matter of two people, but it is not just a matter of two people. Each of us has our own independent circle, friends, and family. In love, when we pay attention to each other, we also have an intersection with each other's world.
Their sense of proportion lies in their trust and support.Will not dictate or interfere in the opponent's world. Each glows in their own world.
The most basic reason for Zheng Shuang and the current fate is that he lost his footing in love. She put her feelings and career in one world, and after a long time there will be no balance.
If Zhang Heng is not accepted in her world, if she can manage this relationship with some reservations, if she can distinguish the relationship between love and career, then she may not Will become the embarrassing person today. The so-called one step wrong step wrong, but so.
The proportions in love should protect and accomplish each other instead of unbalanced damage and helplessness.
We are all practicing in our life. We practice how to love someone, how to respect a person, how to protect a person, this is also what we call a sense of scale. Regardless of friends, relatives or lovers, grasping the boundaries of each other is the best and best respect.
