I saw a female friend post a selfie in a bar in Moments before. PS: There are millions of scumbags, and half of them are around. She is a friend of a friend I have met twice before. She is fashionable, beautiful, and very kind. It is a pity that the love story is always endless throughout the year. I heard that she had three boyfriends in three meetings in the past two years, but there are One broke up because of a long-distance relationship, and the other two are real scumbags. Drinking drunk in bars has become her daily routine. I sympathize with her and understand her. After all, a beautiful woman who has failed consecutive relationships and is still green is very shocking.
In this realistic 21st century, single men and women of all kinds travel through the streets and alleys of the city, eager to get the true love of meeting love at the corner. But being born in this era is both lucky and sad. The materialistic society makes it easy for young men and women to be blind and confused when choosing love. They want to talk honestly about a love that never breaks up, but they always encounter scumbags. The male and female scumbags hurt their immature hearts and lost their desire and trust for fresh love.
Young people who have not yet fallen in love, while searching hard, while faintly afraid, dare not try, dare not affectionate, and dare not make decisions, because their hearts can no longer bear it. A scum attack. Therefore, keeping your eyes open and choosing a true partner requires young people to work ten times more vigorously, carefully investigating and distinguishing whether the person who wants to enter his heart is a man or a ghost.
The scumbags are also divided into levels, and the cunning routines are also different.
First of all, let’s look at the low-level scum, who can’t forget the predecessor. For example, in college, being unable to forget an ex was the most common case of a relationship breakdown. A female friend of mine finally forgot her first love nightmare in high school when she was in college. She was ready to take a walk through the current sugar-coated sweets. Unexpectedly, after two years, it was her boyfriend who could not forget her ex. They had been honest about their relationship history with each other,Mutual understanding and trust, eating together and playing football every day, my friend never doubted boys, until one day the boys went out to buy food and forgot to bring their mobile phones, my friend saw the ambiguous chat records with his ex on his mobile phone, my friend Far away in a foreign land, no one tells that, a person of his own life cut off the contact with the scumbag, and there is still a shadow until now. When college students graduate from the college entrance examination, they will break up with their high school lovers due to remote reasons, but they will also find a substitute to fall in love because they want to hide their missing hearts, deceive the other party to deceive themselves, this kind of people can't handle the front line and start The next relationship is extremely irresponsible, and it also warns young people to pay attention to whether their partner’s emotional history is clean. If he/she often keeps you from sending long-term news in the bathroom and other personal spaces, then be wary of him/her /She is reconnecting with her ex who separated the two places.
The second kind of scum can not bear the temptation. Most of us are normal people with ordinary looks and ordinary backgrounds. Many times we will get married with a similar ordinary person by chance, and live our own little life. But some people, because of changes in time and reality, he/she has become no longer ordinary. There is a real example around me, a friend's cousin was injured. Both his girlfriend and him are middle-level employees in the company, with similar salaries, and barely make a living. They just have trouble buying a house and a car, and their parents can't provide much financial support, so the two have not yet discussed marriage. Later, his girlfriend was spotted by a divorced man from the company's executives, and from time to time he invited his girlfriend out to meet and drink tea, but he never made any leapfrog behavior, so his cousin was relieved. Unexpectedly, the company later prepared an annual promotion selection. The executives left the opportunity to their cousins and girlfriends, and both of you and I understand the price. The cousin's girlfriend really did not withstand the temptation, kicked his cousin away, and was with the executives. The cousin didn't accuse the scum girl too much, nor did he blame the scum girl for breaking her promise, but always blamed himself for not having any promises. It really hurts! This kind of scum is mediocre at first, quite well-formed, and has never complained in ordinary life, but when he encounters a chance to climb to the sky, he will show his true face of greed and become a scum. Friends can pay attention to observe your partner’s micro-expressions and psychological activities when facing luxury goods, when friends show off their wealth, and when parents urge you to get married.Whether you have a strong desire for things and things you can't get, whether you will get angry and careless because of your friends' display of wealth. If there is someone around you who can subvert the status quo of your life with your fingers like a TV show, then you must be careful and vigilant, pull out the quagmire yourself as soon as possible, so as not to sink deeper and deeper, and hurt more deeply.
The third type of scum is senior scum, and the degree of scum is unheard of. The champion of the ten-boat race, the time manager, the jury of bluffing, and the master of the lie and scam. Most of this kind of people have good looks, with a little bit of beauty on their appearance, plus the experience of being in love, they are unambiguous to deceive people, their faces are not red or heartbeat, and they can be seen within an hour. Three spare tires, boasting about his superb love control ability. You think that you have met a warm man and a beautiful girl, and you are really the emperor. In fact, you are just a small fish he/she casts a net on a large area and selectively catches it. He/she has countless social accounts and three mobile phones. With his/her cunning and sweet words, he/she can live a carefree life with countless people scrambling to feed and hug right and left. Very sweet. The biggest feature of this type of person is that they are particularly soft-hearted and talkative. Even if you ask him/her to meet, he/she can find a variety of reasons. The next time he/she meets, he/she will use another spare tire gift. Compensating you not only makes up for his/her fault, but also reaps your heart of understanding. Recently, an artist surnamed L was revealed to have been playing "multiplayer sports" with his girlfriend on his back for nine years in his relationship. He could spare time to "exercise" and "steal fishy" at four o'clock in the morning. Is it because the partner is not good enough? Is it because your partner is not pretty? Is it because of the poor financial conditions of your partner and yourself? No, this kind of person is a natural liar and lonely person, and the inherent scum attributes in their genes can't be seen well hidden. If you meet this kind of scum, it is also a rare experience and anecdote in your life. Only by smiling can you make up for the pain!
Love is not a joke, let alone scumbags. I hope my friends can polish their discerning eyes and find their love for life.
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