Chen Jie and her boyfriend Zhang Qing have been dating for nearly 5 years. The three views of the two are very compatible and their relationship has always been very stable. Seeing that they are about to run for the third time, the parents urged the two children to get married and discuss marriage. Things are also on the agenda. Zhang Qing is a child of a reorganized family. The family's economic conditions are average. Because his mother is relatively strong, his honest stepfather has no right to speak at home. Chen Jie’s family is in good condition because they are in business. Both parents have a house under their names, and they have three stores in total. The Chen family’s parents also prepared a house for their daughter very early.
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Chen Jie feels that she and Zhang Qing can talk very well and understand the situation of his home, so she proposes to use her house as a wedding room and ask Zhang Qing to decorate it. money. As for the bride price, Chen Jie felt that it was just a formality. It would be good to take an auspicious number to win the prize. The Chen family's parents let their daughter be the master and decided to marry a car, which can be used as an added value when she runs the market. After discussing with Zhang Qing, he felt that this was okay, so he nodded in agreement, but after Zhang Qing told her mother, she vetoed it all, expressing firm disagreement. It turned out that the house price in the county where Zhang Qing’s hometown is located is not high. Zhang’s mother paid a full price of 500,000 yuan for a house, and it has been renovated. Of course, later Chen Jie learned that Zhang’s mother had also borrowed 280,000 yuan to get the house. In this way, when the parents met to discuss the marriage, Zhang's mother said straightforwardly: "My family's money is spent on the wedding room, so the gift is gone." The Chen family's parents are relatively open-minded, and their daughter likes Zhang Qing. They had a good impression of this guy, so they accepted the bride price, but hoped that the man would prepare "three golds and four clothes" in accordance with local customs, as well as wedding photos and honeymoon trips that young people like. At that time, Zhang's mother also agreed, saying that there was no problem, and the matter was settled. Zhang Qing and Chen Jie's marriage was also put on the agenda, but it was unexpected that something went wrong later.
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During the New Year’s Day, Chen Jie had a family banquet at home, and naturally invited the prospective son-in-law’s family of three to participate. On the one hand, he wanted to introduce them to friends and relatives, and on the other hand, he also wanted to Arrange the date of the wedding. Unexpectedly, Mother Zhang drank too much and suddenly regretted what had been discussed before.She said that she couldn't take out the money for the "three golds and four clothes", wedding photos and honeymoon. After all, there are so many people watching. Dad Chen said that he only needs Zhang Qing to pay 50,000 yuan, and he will make up for the others, and he will definitely give the two children a perfect wedding. He even said that he would make 180,000 yuan first. Clear the account and give it to yourself as a gift at that time. Father Chen felt that he had already made such a big concession that Zhang's mother had to sell her face, even if the current situation was first rounded out. But Mother Zhang said, "Don't go too far in your house! The house decoration has drained our house. Do you want me to borrow another 50,000 yuan now?" Dad Chen is in the business market. I heard that Ms. Zhang bought the house with full money. He already had an opinion, but he just watched that Chen Jie and Zhang Qing were in a good relationship, so he never said it. But now Mama Zhang is making such a fuss in front of relatives and friends, and he is also very angry: "What about you? You would rather borrow money to buy a house in full, but don't keep the money for the wedding. I still don't know what you think?" Be careful. Zhang's mother became angry all of a sudden. With her drunkenness, she lost control of her whole person. She had a big fight with Dad Chen. The scene went out of control, and everyone present was busy trying to persuade...Zhang Qing was stunned for a while, then hurriedly sent her mother home, and hurried back to apologize to Chen's parents, and promised to transfer the garage of about 100,000 yuan under his name to Chen Jie as a gift. However, the Chen family's parents were so embarrassed during the festive days of the Chinese New Year that they didn't want to listen to Zhang Qing anymore. They just perfunctory and sent him away.
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This is what Chen Jie knows in her heart. Mother Zhang was really upset for the profit of her son. The money for wedding photos and honeymoon, and buying a house in a hurry is also for the money to become Zhang Qing’s pre-marital property. Although Chen Jie didn't care about the money, things started to confuse in front of her relatives and friends. If she still marries Zhang Qing like this, she would be considered unmarried and reposted, and her parents would be even more embarrassed. But the five-year relationship didn't mean giving up, so Chen Jie left a message on the Internet for help, but now, the Internet is persuasive but not reconciled, so Chen Jie finally ended the relationship.
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