male: "Brain brainstorming at work meetings. I still have to think about the proposal with Party A at noon. I just want to go home from work and Ge You to lie down."
female: "I know he is very tired at work, and sometimes I want to ask more. A few sentences express concern, but I am afraid that he will be more worried."
Male: "Every day, my head is full of contract signing rates, new product distribution rates, and various KPIs. The pressure is great."
Female: "I especially miss the beginning. When I was in love, I was less anxious at that time, and I often met for a walk in the park at night."
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I don’t know when it started, the pace of life became more and more hurried, the work became more and more involuntary, and everyone started to follow suit. Tears of being pressed on the ground every day.
Even the most intimate couples, under such pressure, seldom can calm down and chat, solve each other's troubles and troubles; what’s even more sad is that sometimes everyone will unconsciously lose their emotions at work Bringing it home, plus some trivial things, are likely to become the fuse of conflict.
A good husband and wife relationship is to grow together and make progress together. If you just bow your heads and ignore each other's emotional exchanges, your life will gradually lose its color.
Eliminating the current communication dilemma is the top priority for the long-term relationship between husband and wife!
Maintaining good communication is actually not as difficult as imagined. It is very important to find a communication scene with warmth that allows people to let go of their worries; and this kind of scene happens to be indispensable to every household-the kitchen!
We live in a country that places great emphasis on food culture, and the kitchen naturally becomes the epitome of a family. One person washes and prepares vegetables, and the other handles the pot, and the affection for each other is constantly warming up like the oil pot.
While making dinner, while chatting about interesting events or difficulties encountered in the company during the day, the relationship between husband and wife is naturally one step closer.
However, once I turned on the range hood in the kitchen,Such a warm scene is as if colorful bubbles were shattered by noise.
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Poor communication environment
creates barriers between couples
Anne and Jelly talked about a reunion of classmates after graduation from high school in love. Soon, the two entered the marriage hall and gave birth to a beautiful daughter.
all say that working mothers are great, and Annie has to take care of the projects on hand, but also worry about the baby at home. In order to insist on breastfeeding, Annie became a "back-milk" family, and the sadness among them was difficult for those who had never experienced it. She often hid in the bathroom and cried secretly, but as soon as she went out, she was the image of a powerful woman. At the end of the day, she always felt like a deflated ball, all weak.
Jelai is the planning director. In order to complete the KPI, he often works overtime to lead the team to polish the project plan, improve the PPT, and follow up on the implementation of activities. When she got home, her daughter had fallen asleep, and she was afraid of waking her up. Annie could only send a WeChat complaint to Jie Lai. She asked if this home is just a hotel for you.
Annie suspected that Jele didn't want to go home with her baby, so she always pretended to work overtime. Although she repeatedly told herself that this was not true, because Jele did not respond in time, Annie became more and more irritable, even cold and violent.
Jelai knew that Annie was upset, and he wanted to spend more time with her family, but every time he heard her doubts and cold words, he didn't bother to explain.
It is clear that both of them are working hard for this family, but the poor communication seems to make them drift away.
They also tried to adjust the state back to the beginning of love,Create more solitary space.
On a rare weekend that doesn't work overtime, my grandmother takes her children to the playground to play. Annie wanted to make a table of delicious food and grab Jerry's stomach.
After answering the phone call from a colleague, Jerry saw Anne doing her best in the kitchen.
"Do you need me to wash the vegetables?" Jerry asked while looking for her apron;
Annie was watching the fried chicken wings in the frying pan while cutting carrots, because the hood was so loud that she didn't hear it. Jelle’s concern;
"Do you need my help?" Jelle yelled again, finally overwhelming the roar of the range hood;
"Go, don’t be unhelpful here, call you if you need it !" The range hood rang loudly, which seemed to make Annie a little anxious;
Jie Lai had no choice but to sit alone and swiped the phone.
Later, Annie called him in the kitchen: "Husband, prepare the table and chopsticks. The big meal will be ready soon. By the way, we will prepare a small wine. Let's have two drinks."
However, the range hood roared, and Jelle didn't hear what Annie said.
When Annie put the cooked chicken wings on the table, she found that Jielai was still playing with her phone and hadn't done anything, and she couldn't help being furious.
Jie Lai has a black question mark on his face. He doesn't understand why his wife has changed his temperament again. The beautiful candlelight dinner ended hastily in the cold war between the two.
The kitchen filled with the noise of range hoods deepened the gap between them.
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looking for a breakthrough point
out of the communication dilemma
was once the top seller of Th1span, "The One _span 2span", the best-selling book on Amazon.Explained a core point: the most important thing, there is only one.
The most pleasant thing in life is to have three meals for two in a house, and so on.
Annie and his wife could have sat at the table for a romantic dinner, slowing down the time and bringing each other's hearts closer together. But the beautiful plan was disrupted by the "noisy" range hood, which made the relationship between the two deadlocked again.
Perhaps, they never thought that it would help them to get out of the dilemma of couple communication: a quiet kitchen.
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Create a good communication environment
Keep your husband and wife relationship fresh for a long time
Linda and Reid are no exception. As soon as Rhett went to work, it seemed to be lost. Linda sent him a message, and it took a long time to get a reply. She felt that Rhett was very indifferent to herself. De found himself annoying, so Linda's bad emotions kept accumulating.
One day, the range hood at home broke down, and after-sales feedback that this model had no accessories too early, Linda simply replaced it with a new one. The new machine surprised her. The kitchen no longer had the original roar. While cooking and listening to music, she was excited.
Her birthday is approaching, Linda wants to talk to Rhett about going to Disneyland, but she is afraid that he will not be able to make a business trip, so she plans to discuss with him in advance about the vacation.
On Wednesday night, she sent a message to Reid that she should hurry home to eat after get off work, and she would prepare him the same dish.
When Rhett came home and just changed her slippers, she heard Linda’s concern from the kitchen: "Hurry up and put the bag down.Go wash your hands and get ready to eat!
When Rhett heard the voice of the food anchor teaching in the kitchen, he secretly smiled, walked into the kitchen, and hugged Linda from behind.
"How do you think of learning to cook this dish today? I am greedy.
"I heard you chat with your classmates that day and said that I missed the sour and sour pork that I had when I was a child. I wrote it down. The first time I cooked it, I wonder if it was the flavor you wanted. "
"My Lin shot, it must be authentic, I will come first. "
Linda was amused. The dish looked really good. She proudly took a piece of meat and brought it to Rhett's mouth: "It's still a bit hot, you eat slowly. "
The fragrance of sour vinegar lingers on the tip of the tongue, and Rhett is intoxicated: "My Lin is really talented, it's so delicious!"
The kitchen was full of laughter and laughter. The two looked at each other, as if returning to their first acquaintance. The new AO Smith "Yo" range hood quietly sucked out the remaining smoke in the kitchen. Without interference. Life is inseparable from firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea. It is also a kind of romance from a passionate first love to a return to the ordinary, occasionally making small luck!
"I also want to give you a surprise. I have taken a good annual leave. You used to say that you want to accompany you to , Daocheng Yading on your birthday. Let's go!"
"Really? I was thinking about how to talk to you, so I was looking forward to going to Disney. I didn't expect you to have such a big battle..." Linda's eyes were a little moist with excitement.
At this moment, Linda found that Rhett had been carrying her in her heart, but she was too busy on weekdays to express herself.
In this quiet kitchen,Reid really expressed their love. They were cooking, talking, and planning a beautiful journey. It turns out that love has never left.
"The Pioneer of Quiet Kitchen" A.O. Smith The "Yo" range hood witnessed the story of two couples.
Also in the small space of the kitchen, Annie's relationship with Jerry seems to be even more estranged, while Linda's relationship with Rhett is heating up.
The very quiet and very clean AO Smith "Doo" range hood makes the kitchen no longer exclusive to one person. Here, the two have a dinner together, put aside the troubles of the day's work, and return Bits in family life. In the intimate care of each other, I experience a full sense of happiness.
The very quiet and very clean A.O. Smith "Doo" range hood not only creates a quiet and clean kitchen environment, but also focuses on creating high-quality and comfortable home life, realizing your expectations for a happy family life.
Because, the heartbeat is only a moment of surprise, and the chai, rice, oil and salt is a lifetime!
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