The tenant opposite, who has been living in for almost a week, only met today to say hello. The renovation site is busy these days, and I rarely stay in the residence during the day.
The new neighbor looks in his fifties, dressed in ordinary casual clothes, with a calm temperament, a slightly longer face, and sharp features. It feels like he was more handsome when he was young, but the vicissitudes of his face are too heavy. It seems that he has experienced too many hardships, and he is obviously a person with a story.
Through a simple chat, I learned that his surname is Yin, and he is also working at the renovation site. He turned out to be a colleague, and the distance was much closer. Lao Yin's room was not well ventilated, and it smelled of damp and musty. Therefore, as long as he is at home, he always opens the doors and windows, so that the air in his room will be better.
Because the door is often open, everyone can clearly see the activities of Old Yin in the room. Old Yin cooks, stir-fry, smokes, looks at the phone, or lies in bed to rest in the room. Old Yin was alone, with no relatives around him, and few friends coming to the door. Lao Yin went out to work for two days when he had something to do, and rested at home when he had nothing to do. He was fishing for three days and drying the net for two days. The time for work and rest every month was about 50%.
Sometimes I have a suitable job on the decoration site, and occasionally I ask Lao Yin to help, and I pay off my wages on the same day.
The people who live upstairs are Putian Local people, mostly young people, always go up and down silently, busy with their own affairs. There is also a Jiangxi couple upstairs, about 30 years old, the man is scraping putty powder on the decoration site, and the woman is probably in the service industry.
The couple are a little different from others. Every time they go upstairs and pass by the door of Lao Yin, they especially like to peek inside. They also like to whisper while stealing, and sometimes they laugh. It's summer, and the weather is getting hotter and hotter. Old Yin's bed is still a quilt, there is no mat and no fan. The couple snickered every time they went upstairs and passed by. I know that Lao Yin didn't feel very hot at the time. Soon after that, Lao Yin bought a mat and a floor fan.
Old Yin sat alone for a long time looking at his mobile phone, the couple passed by,They will also whisper, faintly, and twitter, which means that there is no woman in Lao Yin, which is ridiculous. Later, the couple and I also talked a few words, the woman said: Lao Yin is in his fifties, and he doesn't find a decent job, such as a security guard. He has work every day. Said that Lao Yin is not a young man, does he have the qualifications to lie flat?
After listening to this woman, I was speechless for a long time, and my mood was ups and downs.
First of all I want to say to her:
1. Is your life better than others?
2. You are not qualified to lie flat when you are in your fifties. Are you two qualified to lie flat when you are thirty? Don't think that you are young. If you lie flat and try, you will quickly transition to your fifties.
3. Don't you understand? Do others need you to understand? There are so many things in life that you don't understand! Others don’t understand what you don’t understand!
4. Maybe people have become accustomed to this kind of work and lifestyle. Has it affected you? Is it hindering you? Did it hurt you?
5. Even if people work on the decoration site for 15 days a month, they will still have an income of about 4,000 yuan, and they can maintain a basic life. If it works every day, maybe people's physical condition is already unbearable.
6. Maybe they have other work and life content that need to be presented to you one by one? Did they show you alive?
Later, I thought, this couple is fine at ordinary times. It would be great to read more books to enrich and enrich their lives, and they would not walk in this world so boringly and narrowly!
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2021/9/19 text original
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