There is often an old saying: I would rather cry in a BMW than cry on a bicycle.
But it turns out that the woman sitting in the BMW can't cry, and the person sitting on the bicycle can't laugh! In fact, we all understand that life and love have ups and downs, and no one's married life is always sweet.
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Today I saw the daily life of a Guangxi post-90s girl on Douyin: a person sends her child to school at 6 a.m. to go to school in the car and has to do laundry when she comes back. The meal was given to the mother-in-law and his family. The younger uncle was 30 years old and had a mental disorder, her mother-in-law was mentally disordered, and her father-in-law was more than eighty years old and had frequent urination and defecation. In order to support his family, Xiaoyu's husband chose to leave the house to work, so she had to deal with major and minor issues. She even helped her father-in-law not go to the men's bathroom when he was ill.
Xiaoyu grew up in a remote rural area in Guangxi. His parents are farmers and the family is struggling. However, both parents are still alive and can satisfy their brothers and sisters. When Xiaoyu was in middle school, she and the senior in the next town liked each other, but at that time she was young and didn't express her love and liking.
love to be together
When they were still together after they got out of work, the two of them were still so sweet and crooked, Xiaoyu's parents objected to their love, young No one understands the true meaning of life like firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. Xiaoyu kept staying with her senior without telling her parents. When Xiaoyu had a child, her family could not talk about the relationship. Accepting their relationship by default, Xiaoyu may have dreamed of not having a life after marriage and turned her into a hard-working third mother. If she knew the ending, she would stay away from this man's family!
Living together without weddings and blessings
The only thing that can help the senior’s home is his father.A construction worker on a construction site, the remaining mother-in-law and uncle are burdensome. Their home is the simplest in the village, which is in stark contrast to the three-story decorated bungalow next to it. When Xiaoyu married her senior, there was no wedding, no blessings, and no beauties because of the limited family conditions. But Xiaoyu believes that this man will let her lead a good life sooner or later, and they will live happily than others. But this kind of life continued for 12 years and still didn't come true. She didn't have to complain about her husband. She knew that her husband was also suffering. She couldn't complain about the last bit of tenacity that crushed her husband.
Aiwu and Wu contain this family
Because the father-in-law has gotten older, he did not pay attention to his health when he was young. Xiaoyu accompanied him to the hospital for drips every three days, and sometimes the child would ask the child to help his grandfather at home.
The uncle's mental state is not better, so he ran out at night and yelled in the fields, knocking on her door in the middle of the night. Cooking for her mother-in-law and cursing her mother-in-law’s mouth, Xiaoyu feels nothing because they are patients. They are tortured by the disease. She can understand that her monthly living expenses are only 2,000 yuan, and she needs to buy it for her child to go to school. Medicine, cooking and buying vegetables to feed the family.
Life is difficult and dangerous, but still optimistic
Although Xiaoyu married into such a home, she still has no complaints and no complaints, on the contrary She uses her mobile phone to shoot videos every day to record the bits and pieces of her life, letting everyone know her love for life and her reluctance to fate. A thin woman of hers abruptly made herself like a superman. Fortunately, her husband loves her very much. He is very grateful for everything Xiaoyu has done to take care of their incomplete family's food, clothing, housing and transportation. No one took care of him during the confinement period when he gave birth to 3 children. It was all that she had done by herself. Fan washes his own clothes to coax the child to sleep.
After her story became known to more people,Everyone helped her, sent clothes to her uncle, sent clothes to Xiaoyu, and let Xiaoyu carry the goods live. Later, Xiaoyu started the mode of carrying goods live. More and more people understood their stories to support them, and that’s it. Their lives are getting better, the uncle’s illness is under control, and the husband has the opportunity to return to take care of the family, carry the rice, carry the rice and chop wood, and the husband arranges it. They have also changed from eating a few meals a month to having meat the next day. eat.
Xiaoyu is also a very caring person. During the flood in Henan, she also donated money to Henan when she needed help.
The words written at the back
Love life is a hard-to-read scripture. No one's life and work status is smooth sailing, so we must maintain a love of life Heart, think of ways to change the status quo. Complaining is really useless and will consume our will and self-confidence. If life has given you any hardship, then we have to change our smiles to welcome you. Finding a way to break through is always more difficult than difficult.
The best investment for a man is to find a good wife, so that the family will be harmonious and life and work will be smooth.
For a woman to find a man she likes, so no matter how hard and tiring the life is, she will choose not to complain; A man finds the woman he loves, so that he has the motivation to create a better life.
Is it the right choice for a woman to marry love?
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