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The world is full of people. Where can one look like a blank sheet of paper? Everyone brings their own love, hatred, and enmity. If nothing happens, some people hide very deeply , some people can't hide it.
As ordinary people, we all have a past that we don’t want to recall, but we are still embarrassed while moving forward. Look, everyone else can get by, so why should you hold on to it?
01: As long as you don’t expose it, there will be no wounds that can’t heal
. Because the scab can not only stop bleeding, but also protect the wound and promote wound healing. Removing blood scabs too early will delay wound healing, make the wound lose its protection, and increase the chance of infection.
For some reason, I suddenly thought of Mr. Lu Xun’s wife Xianglin. Sister Xianglin is a helper of the fourth master of Lu's family, and she wins her master's favor because she spares no effort in her work.
later married He Laoliu under the coercion of a strong mother-in-law. With her diligence and ability, Xianglin's wife can pass her marriage. Unexpectedly, God's will make people, He Laoliu suddenly passed away, and her son was also eaten by the wolf. Lonely and helpless, she returned to Lu Si's home.
This time Xianglin’s wife has completely changed.Not only the body and spirit are not as good as before, even the character has become dull and chattering, and there is no smile on his face like a corpse.
She burst into tears and told everyone about her son's death and her own experience after leaving those years. At first, everyone was sighing. But when the experience is told the second time, it is the story; when the third or fourth time is told, no one wants to listen anymore.
The book says: "In the end, even the most compassionate old ladies who prayed to Buddha, there is no trace of tears in their eyes."
She doesn't know: no matter in that era, people's compassion is limited. Sister Xianglin showed her spiritual wounds time and time again, hoping to get peace of mind through the comfort of others.
Actually, the wounds have been seen too much, and people only watch it lively, and the only pain is myself. And the reason why a wound is a wound is because it requires us to suture and treat it carefully.
Exposing the wound time and time again will only cause it to become inflamed and purulent, which will eventually destroy our immunity and lead us to destruction.
In that evil old society, I dare not say that if Xianglin's wife is stronger, she will be happy. Her ending is the tragedy of that era. But if she can let go of some obsessions, she must be able to return to the original Lu Si master's "the cheeks are still red", "looks like "Zhou Zheng"" capable helper.
Now that we are in a peaceful society, living in a country that promotes fairness and democracy, what kind of injuries will there be that we cannot heal ourselves.
The wound can only be treated correctly if it is exposed to the doctor. Those who just want to see the excitement do not need to hurt their bodies in order to satisfy their curiosity.
02: As long as there is hope, there is no unstoppable despair
, in a recent movie "My Sister An Ran" He grew up in a family that favored sons over daughters.
has never been liked by her parents since she was a child, and she has suffered sudden beatings. Her parents have secretly modified her wishes for her younger brother. Faced with the pains brought to her by her native family, she still works hard, hoping to have One day I can go to Beijing with my boyfriend for the postgraduate entrance examination, and cut off contact with the current one.
But the unfortunate death of her parents destroyed her only hope. He had already made a clear life plan, but it was all disrupted by this younger brother who needed to be taken care of.
I used to think that people who are desperate would cry heart-stirringly. Only then did I realize that the daylight’s hollow heart is like dead water is the real despair. She calmly said to her brother: You are not the only one in my life. But why everyone thinks that it is her responsibility to take care of her younger brother? Everyone thinks that she must give up everything for her younger brother.
Some people say that if you feel desperate, it proves that you still have hope. Faced with life's accidents, she chose to resist in despair, trying to abandon her brother, send him to her uncle's house, and find a suitable adoptive family. All kinds of behaviors are all that she is working hard for her long-planned life.
The last affection of the movie defeated An Ran's yearning for the future, and she chose to go home with her younger brother. Although I don't know what the final outcome will be, I believe that Anron will definitely use another method to make ideals bloom differently in despair.
Many times we feel that life has reached a desperate situation, but in fact it is just that our thoughts have reached a dead end. No matter how deep the despair, there will be a process of disappearing. As long as we muster up the courage to move our heads forward, a turning point will appear at the next intersection.
I hope everyone can meet the most beautiful surprise in the deepest despair.
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