Introduction
Can the old cow live happily in the marriage of tender grass? In fact, in real life, in a happy marriage, it is difficult for old cows to eat tender grass, because the age gap is too large, and there will inevitably be a generation gap together. Usually two people can't avoid conflict, so it's best not to get old. People who are too big live together to save their lives from grievances.
Today, for everyone to discuss, the 65-year-old uncle and the 40-year-old woman cried after remarrying: "She forced me to have sex every day. Didn't this kill me?"
Look at this story.
Uncle Song/65 years old
I am 65 years old this year. I have had three marriages, each of which is not long. It's not that I don't want to live with them, but that there is no fate between us.
My first wife and I had a very good relationship, but when she gave birth, she died of dystocia. The child was saved, but she failed to save it. At that time, I was very sad. Unexpectedly, the child will have no mother when he is born. At that time, in order to let the child have motherly love, I chose to remarry. Although she found her partner shortly after her death, I feel sorry for her, but I don't know how to bring the children, and my parents are also old. If you get it, you won't receive it, you can only find a number for your son.
Soon after a friend introduced me, I met my second wife, her name is Xiaoting. When I first met Xiao Ting, I thought Xiao Ting was a very good person, and she was willing to take care of me. He is a son, and we remarried soon after we met. After remarrying, she treated my son very well and treated my son like a child. Later, we lived for two years and gave birth to another one that belonged to us. Two children.
after giving birth,She did not ignore the feelings of my child, and treats my son very well, so she is a very competent wife and a competent mother.
My son also likes this stepmother. He and his stepmother are also very close. In a blink of an eye, we have lived for many years and our children have grown up, so we don't have to worry about their affairs anymore. The two of us can have fun. enjoy life.
But because the two have been together for a long time and lost their freshness, she carried me with her male girlfriend. After I knew it, I was very angry. Unexpectedly, she was such a woman. I also asked her why she did it at the time. The two fell in love. Why have you betrayed me suddenly after so many years?
She said to me: "For the sake of freshness and passion, I know this is not good, but I will get tired of being with you all day, I want to change my taste, so I hope you can understand if you If you want to get a divorce, then I won’t say much. After all, it’s your choice."
When she heard what she said, I was very confident and I was very angry. It is natural to say that it really disappointed me. In order to prevent myself from being green again, I directly chose to divorce. After the divorce, I gave her half of the property because she also took my children. She has been very supportive of me over the years, and I will return her anyway. Although she betrayed me, I still chose to share the property with her in return for so many years.
After the divorce, we never contacted or said hello. Our two children sometimes visit her when they are free. After all, one was born to her and the other was raised by her. No child hates her, and usually respects her. I didn't say anything. After all, she is the child's mother. I have no complaints about how the two children should repay her.
Because of the divorce, I became an old man living alone. My life is very lonely and boring. I don't know how to cook, because Xiaoting always cooks.Later, my son hired a nanny for me. This nanny is a very young middle-aged woman who works very seriously. After two days of trial work, I stayed with her because I was very satisfied with her and the food was delicious.
After hiring a nanny, my diet became regular and I gained a lot of weight, so I am still very grateful to my son for the nanny for me.
This nanny is a woman with a hard life. She originally thought that she could marry a good husband, but ended up marrying a domestic violence man, but in the end she couldn't bear to choose a divorce. In order to support the children, she chose to be a nanny. Because she knows that the salary of a nanny is very high, and she does not need any education, as long as she can do housework, although many people laugh at the profession of nanny, but for her, as long as she can earn money, no matter what occupation is worthy of respect.
Gradually she also worked at my house for a year. This year she was very good to me and I also like to get along with her. Every time she is bored, she tells me stories. In fact, I treat her very well. I have never treated her as a babysitter, and often paid her a salary, because I think she is too serious about her work, and I am sorry for her handling the salary. I not only pay her salary, but also buy her gifts every month, because I care about her too much and she feels about me.
Once on my birthday, she cooked a lot of delicious meals for me. During the meal, she and I had a few drinks. After drinking a few glasses of wine, she confessed to me, because she has not had the courage to confess to me, so she can only confess to me that she likes me while drinking.
When I heard her say that she likes me, I was very excited. I didn't expect that I was so old, and there was a woman in her 40s who was chasing me. I didn't expect that we were so different in age. , I hesitated for a while, because I was afraid of ruining her reputation and her future life, so I didn't dare to agree and didn't want to hurt others.
So I said to her at that time: "We are not suitable,You go find someone else.
She replied: "I don't care what people say about us, because I think love has no age, so even if you are more than 20 years older than me, I don't mind, because I really like you. I really want to take care of you. Usually you are so kind to me, I want to repay you well, so you promised me well, don't refuse me. "
Hearing what she said, I also agreed. After a month of being together, the two got a remarriage certificate. After remarrying, she treated me well, as usual. She took good care of me, never Asked me to pay her salary because she felt that she was already my wife, and it didn’t matter whether she paid or not, but she refused to let her pay. It was in vain. I often smuggled the money onto her card. Such a Come, she has to ask herself if she wants. I did this to prevent her from becoming my free nanny, so I am a very qualified husband.
but I don’t know why, since I have been with her Being together, every day is very tired, because her thoughts are different from mine. She always does some naive things instead of going to the playground to sing. I don’t like to do these things. I just want to be quiet. In her old age, but she always asks me to do it, so I really feel very speechless. Although she is so much younger than me, it is normal to do these things, but she should think about it. I am an old man and I don’t like that. Life, but she doesn’t care if I want or not, she has to pull me in everything.
The most exaggerated thing is that she forces me to do things that should be done between husband and wife every day. I’m so old, and toss him every day. Many. So I really can’t stand her behavior. Although thirty is like a wolf and forty is like a tiger, she can’t always be like this. I also advise her not to do this because she can’t stand it personally.
She directly said: "That's how couples are. If there is no such thing between husband and wife, what is the point of getting married? "
I filed for divorce.After the divorce, I finally breathed a sigh of relief. I am not as tired as before. So I think I still need to find a wife who is about the same age. Finding a woman many years younger than yourself is not happy at all. , I will only feel wronged and tired.
After these three marriages, I have completely abandoned my heart and do not want to remarry because I feel that I am not suitable for marriage. I feel hurt every time I enter a marriage, so I am not as good as a person. In my old age, so I don't have any worries.
Concluding remarks
This is why the elderly are advised not to eat tender grass, because they have no common language and different living habits with people younger than themselves, so even if they are looking for people of the same age, Don't live a miserable life. The picture of
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