35 years ago, following a violent beating, a woman was trafficked at the market in her hometown;
35 years later, with the help of offspring’s efforts and access to the Internet, she and the living 80-year-old Parents reunited.
This is an individual tragic story that spawned under the environment at that time;
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But real life is far more complicated than single-line stories, and the process is far more complicated.
Tragedy is intertwined with emotion,
Maybe we should think about how to turn this helpless tragedy into a comedy.
Let her and them no longer be blocked from happiness.
A woman without a name
Nobody knows the name of this woman, 1span
No one knows how old she is, but she seems to be about 60 years old.
She has dark skin, a short stature, and a height of about four meters.
has sparse hair, with no greyish white teeth left.
because of her weak hearing, she speaks a strange local accent, like a minority language,
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Every household in the village treats her as dumb or mentally ill.
People know nothing about her origins and past experiences,
knows very little about her two daughters.
Her husband usually calls her just one word: "Hello."Or "hey".
"Li Yurong" on the ID card and "Li Yurong" on the ID card and the birth date on July 15, 1960, were randomly guessed by the husband.
daughter Lixin Mei,
only remember my mother and off about had been trafficked for yourself Situation:
In the winter of that year, she went to the market with her neighbor’s sister-in-law,
suddenly came to the village outside of 2 Covered her head and covered her face and tied her to the car where she was not going. afraid of her running away,The cold weather made her take off until only a thin layer of single clothes remained. On the train leaving the province, he was beaten with blood in his mouth and nose.
She shivered with fear, and was finally taught to obey her.
When she remembers again, she has reached Zaosheng Village, Hui County, Henan Province, more than 1,400 kilometers away.
in Lixin Mei father's narrative,
mother It was bought by my aunt for 1,000 yuan from the street.
The aunt saw her pitiful, and thought of her unmarried brother,
and gave it to Li Xinmei.
is said to be a "hard plug" because at the beginning, the father showed rejection and extreme dissatisfaction.
He disliked that this woman was dark and short, and her hearing was poor.
But the hospitality was difficult, and he finally accepted this shameless, bought-in-law.
This woman who cannot understand the other party's language and cannot communicate.
After marriage, the relationship between husband and wife is more like a symbol between two people.
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Occasionally, there is an emotion similar to that of a loved one. This is something later.
Most of the time,They only use simple gestures to express their intentions,
For example, if the husband points to the pot, she knows that she should cook. Pointing to the wheat may be asking her to fight medicine.
They don’t quarrel, but they don’t communicate. The house is always quiet and quiet.
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Li Xinmei’s mother is no exception.
She ran twice.
for the first time,It didn't take long to sell to Zaosheng Village.
She took that single and ran for more than two hours before being blocked by relatives who came to catch her.
The second time, 9 years later.
Li Xinmei is 4 years old, and my sister is 2 years old.
She was not willing to go alone, so she left with her two daughters.
At night, she puts on her daughter in thick clothes, muttering in her mouth:
"We are going, we are going to home".
An adult and two children rushed during the day and slept in the haystack at night to avoid being found,
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was found by the neighbors who squatted there again.
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is left alone and is firmly suppressed and raised here.
The fear of being trafficked and beaten is deeply rooted in the consciousness of Li Xinmei’s mother.
She looks like a frightened bird. She shivered with fear when she saw the "tall and strong people" when she went to the market.
Since Li Xinmei can remember, she has noticed that her mother would put a knife across her pillow every night.
Sometimes it is a fruit knife, sometimes it is a scissors.
Li Xinmei was puzzled. She once took the knife out of the pillow while her mother was not paying attention,
The next day,Mother put a new knife in place.
In the past few years, Li Xinmei learned that it is the custom of the Bouyei .
In countless nights that Li Xinmei did not know, his mother had had nightmares for many years.
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She thought it was an agreement to sell the child,
An insurer took the child away like crazy.
grandson is going out,She always kept telling me: "There will be bad guys out there hitting you."
even though her grandson could not understand her squeaky babble.
The other villagers in Zaosheng Village are the same,
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It’s impossible to chat smoothly.
People regard her as the weird person in the village because of her protruding brow bones and deep sunken eye sockets, and some people guess she is a foreigner.
When Li Xinmei was a student, his classmates mocked "your mother is so ugly".
She is like an isolated island on the edge, which does not belong to, nor can it blend into a certain ocean.
Li Xinmei can understand it by context,
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That means "home" and "go home".
Li Xinmei can't remember how many times, when she saw her mother sitting at the door of her house,
called her to go home, but she said, "That's not my house."
no one responds and he said to himself: "Where is my home? Are my parents still there?"
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That was the first time she shed tears for this man. She stroked Li Wei's arm and cried.
After that, she repeatedly mumbled and changed to:
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yes,She wants to go home.
"I am good"
Li Xinmei did not help her mother after twelve years.
has added 5 or 60 QQ groups, posted on Baidu Post Bar, registered information on XunKan, and even spent money to top posts.
But because there are too few known clues, the mother can't provide a more precise location,
has achieved nothing for more than ten years.
a turnaround in September last year,
strange language barrier, although the way the mother home,
But it might not be another vine to follow.
Li Xinmei accidentally swiped a Bouyei instructional video on the short video platform.
's voice and intonation are very similar to the mother's usual speech.
She contacted this blogger named "Feng Xiao Xiao".
The real name of "Feng Xiao Xiao" is Huang Defeng, who is devoted to the promotion of Bouyei language daily.
Through the photos and voice provided by Li Xinmei, he is quite sure that Li Xinmei’s mother is a Bouyei.
But there are 2.87 million Buyi people all over Guizhou. How easy is it to find her family?
Huang Defeng edited the voice into a video overnight, posted it on the platform, and forwarded it to multiple groups with Buyi people.
Fortunately, the second person who helped out appeared.
He is Zhou Guomao,An expert in the study of Buyi culture.
When he heard it, he was convinced that the native language spoken was in the western part of Guizhou.
The scope is further reduced.
Everyone gathered firewood and the flames were high, and Li Xinmei was quickly pulled into a group.
Group name: Binon, go home.
In Bouyei language, "Binon" means "family".
The number of people in the group has increased linearly, and they are all Bouyei volunteers who come to help listening.
In less than ten minutes, someone pointed out that this dialect belongs to Qinglong County in Guizhou.
According to the proposal of volunteers,
Li Xinmei collected many pictures of local landmarks, landscapes and national costumes.
show it to her mother, hoping to evoke the memory of her hometown.
When seeing the famous "Twenty-Four Turns" on the Panshan Highway, my mother was dancing with excitement.
This helped them to target the sand town of .
After another volunteer working in the Bureau of Statistics, after searching for information overnight, two villages in _p51brp1span3br
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Another volunteer in the clothing business Luo Qili heard that
immediately contacted his contacts in the two villages.
In less than half a day, someone called,
said that more than 30 years ago, a woman in the village married a ten-year-old man from a neighboring village. But by the husband’s default,She was abducted to the bazaar, and there was no more news. Her name is Deliang. After many comparisons, it was confirmed that Li Xinmei’s mother was the missing Deliang.
Hadrian's parents
"Hadrian! Duc Luong!"
Lixin Mei's mother finally know name.
She yelled to her mother two times excitedly, hoping to get a positive answer from her mother.
's mother's cloudy eyes lit up, and she smiled for a long time:
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return and reunion
From the province to the city cluster, to the county, to the town, and then to the village,
to find and communicate with each other until the old man’s parents are found. Days.
Li Xinmei was also unbelievable, and several times proposed to transfer money,
, but after learning that the other party did just help for free.
The volunteers are not over yet. Under the arrangement of Huang Defeng and others,
and his mother came home.
got down and took a taxi. After the taxi got on the bus,
took two hours and 40 minutes to land.
Deliang and the volunteers are waiting here in traditional costumes They were surrounded by a rickety old man, Deliang's 84-year-old mother. Deliang’s parents are still alive. Although they are nearly ninety years old, this is the best news. The old man was holding a bowl of white rice tremblingly,Picking up a piece of rice ball, he leaned close to Deliang's mouth. According to the traditional saying of the Bouyei people, they will never go far after eating their meals at home. The volunteers who came back that day described the scene at the time: to a 60-year-old mother who was feeding herself, like a 60-year-old daughter of The little girl under the knee is like Deliang is still a little girl.”
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It seems that she hasn't experienced the vicissitudes of life and hardships, and she can still act playfully in her mother's arms.
That was probably the happiest twelve days in Deliang's life.
She briefly experienced the happiness and peace of mind of returning home.
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Try it on for my mother;
and my sister go hand-in-hand and chat homework, and talk about everything.
No longer using gestures to communicate, she returned to her own world.
In these twelve days, Deliang is vying to cook and do housework, just like 2sp br3 p br _sp _sp _p51 many years ago. I kept saying "I won't go anymore, you go".
Li Xinmei saw it in her eyes, she couldn't bear to break it,
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Deliang didn't say anything, but she didn't want to take too many things away. She wanted to return in a few days.
Li Xinmei said that we will come back during the New Year,
Although thousands of kilometers of distance and expensive fare are hindering.
Grandma followed with red eyes, and Deliang looked around blankly.
, but I still have some hope. When I left, Deliang had a meeting with his neighbors and verbally agreed:
35 years, from the beginning of a cold winter to the end of a warm winter.
Later, the group of "Binon, go home" did not disband,
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Huang Defeng helped two abducted women go home in the same way. .
Everything is moving in a good direction.
But there are some things that are not destined to be prevented by humans.
In March of this year, bad news came. Deliang’s mother passed away.
Li Xinmei did not dare to tell Deliang at first,But the news could not be kept, Deliang still knew.
The line of defense in my heart collapsed silently.
Deliang’s mother
Huang Defeng and Li Xinmei took the old man back to relax.
Looking at the twists and turns of the twenty-four turns, like her ups and downs in life.
Deliang also calmed down a bit, but she would still talk to herself in a melancholy manner.
reporters who have interviewed her said:
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points to the twenty-four turns,Recalling Deliang in the past
In the movie " Spirited Away ", the protagonist is asked to remember his name.
That symbolizes the return of identity and self-recovery.
But Deliang is deprived of it, more than freedom?
In the process of helping Deliang find his hometown, there was an episode.
Because a girl named De Ling was also abducted in the village next door,
So at first, she was recognized as De Ling.
And it happened that the two were once acquaintances.
For decades, Deliang’s mother has not enjoyed her lap, and Deliang has no chance to be filial;
De Ling has disappeared from everyone’s sight.Life or death is uncertain.
The volunteers also said that many local girls were abducted like this in those years,
Their cousin is...
Talking about this, they are a bit sad.
How many people have lost their names?
Do they end up like Deliang or Deling?
People don’t know.
Perhaps, there is no difference between the sky and the earth.
The life of the past can never go back.
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