In many love dramas, love at first sight for the hero and heroine always excites the audience, shouting: I believe in love again!
In fact, although "love at first sight" is very sweet and exciting, it is not the normal state of feelings, and the feelings it brings are not stable. After all, two people don't know each other or even know each other. It's somewhat unreliable to identify each other based on appearance.
Compared to "love at first sight", "love for a long time" is the norm in the relationship. After a long time between men and women, they understand each other very well, know each other's personality, temperament and temperament, and slowly develop a good impression. Peaceful affection, such a relationship will be more stable and long-lasting.
Emotions are complex emotions, but also emotions that are difficult to be controlled by others. There is no reason for liking someone. It is originally a logical thing that happens naturally and is not affected by anything. Controlled by human will.
In the process of getting along with men and women, men and women who have three kinds of relationships are prone to "giving love" for a long time, and it is difficult to control their feelings.
Colleague relations that get along day and night
At present, the pace of society is very fast, and people work under pressure. Overtime has become the norm in people’s work, such as "5+2" and "996". , Let work occupy most of people's time, and people spend much more time in the office than at home.
Based on this situation, many people's social circles will become very narrow, and there is no time to make friends. Most of the people they know are colleagues. People get along with their colleagues day and night,Working together, chatting, meeting together for dinner and entertainment, there are so many things I can do together.
In addition, colleagues have a lot of common topics. You can talk about other colleagues’ gossip, talk about company leaders together, and discuss company affairs together, support and help each other, and form alliances. advance and retreat.
Because of this, it is easy for coworkers to "grow love for a long time", unknowingly, they will develop love, solve the love problem inside the colleagues, and have office romances.
However, many companies prohibit office romances, mainly because office romances affect work, and various emotions between couples will be mapped to work, resulting in a decrease in work efficiency. The most important thing is that if the office couple break up, the two will become the most familiar strangers, but because of the work relationship, you still have to look up and see you down. It will inevitably be a little embarrassing and the work will inevitably be affected.
The childhood sweetheart relationship that grew up together
childhood sweetheart can be said to be a very special relationship between men and women. Two people have grown up together and have a very thorough understanding of each other, and their parents are also very familiar with each other. , It can be said to know the roots.
Because men and women have been together since childhood, the friendship is naturally very deep, and there will be a special emotion in it. This kind of deep friendship can easily be transformed into love when the relationship between two people is first opened, and the relationship between two people will change from a friend to a lover.
Because childhood sweethearts are the feelings accumulated since childhood, they tend to be relatively pure. They do not contain various interests, but simply like them. In this interest-oriented society, they are more precious and worth cherishing.
Actually,The relationship between childhood sweethearts and bamboo horses is a typical "gathering for a long time". After a long time together, the two men and women slowly accumulate feelings and develop affection. Everything seems very natural. Even if the childhood sweethearts were not together when they first started, they are likely to be together when they meet again after years of raging in society.
Because this kind of feeling has penetrated into the human soul, it may be temporarily suppressed or hidden, but it will never be forgotten. When it is activated again, it will burst out like a volcanic eruption, making people instantaneous Going back to those lush years, recalling that pure and pure feeling.
The relationship of old classmates with common memories Having gone through the most important stage in life, those lush years will become an unforgettable common memory for both people.
The feelings between the old classmates are the same as their childhood sweethearts, they are also very deep and simple, and both of them are very knowledgeable. The common memories of the student days will bring the two people closer together and bring emotional comfort to each other.
The school days are beautiful for anyone, and they will feel wonderful when recalled. Under the psychology of Aiwu and Wu, old classmates will become beautiful.
In this case, whether it’s a class reunion or an accidental encounter, the reunion between old classmates will always make people happy. The special affection will pass through the barriers of time and space, and it will be the same as that of the student days. When the feelings are connected, it is easy to produce the feelings of "love for a long time".
Concluding remarks
In the relationship between co-workers, childhood sweethearts, and old classmates, the three types of relationships are the easiest to "live in love".Because the feelings generated by these three relationships are special enough, deep enough, and beautiful enough, it is easy for people to have unique feelings.
These three kinds of relationships produce emotions. Once the buds of love appear, they will become uncontrollable and spread quickly. People will be unable to control their emotions and fall in love both.
The love produced by these three kinds of relationships "giving love for a long time" tends to be more stable, because if two people understand enough, the time for running-in will be shortened accordingly, the running-in process will be more harmonious, and two people can also go. Go further.
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