Romance, tenderness and love will last until death.
@安暖&reader _span1
The topic of today's interview is - Check the boys' next operations , and then let's take a look at the four more exciting speeches.
Gentle, cute, and excellent boys abound, but there are also not a few uncomfortable boys. When you encounter the latter, listen to me-run away! !
What topic do you want to watch next time? Tell me, I'll arrange it.
old rules, the end yes pet powder welfare ~
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0 1. chat open yellow chamber .
I’m really curious, why do some boys think that they are so handsome and sultry when they talk to each other in a yellow accent?
is obviously very difficult.
Those little couples with good feelings don’t discuss it. I talked with xx for two months, and I just started talking about a lot of hobbies and feelings, and I felt very congenial.
For a certain period of time, I silently regarded him as a "boyfriend candidate" in my heart, and waited for the time to develop slowly.
But in the third month, he started to talk about it intentionally or unintentionally. From some small jokes, it gradually became more and more excessive. He even asked me directly: usually wears jk or black Where's the silk? Are there any private photos to see?
I am very angry.
Whether it’s at the stage of getting to know friends,It is still the development of intimate relationships, mutual respect is necessary, and sense of proportion and scale are all necessary.
Although in my mind the "lower-body thinking animal" is not strange, it is not necessary to nakedly expose one's senseless ignorance and lack of grace in the chat.
I hope that my sisters will meet a boy who likes to speak pornography. Even if they have a good relationship, they must say frankly: Hello, you offended me.
@ small A ~
0 2. like materialized girls .
In this society that advocates women's independence and equality between women and men, girls have long been capable of emotional independence, economic independence, and are no longer dependent on men.
But there are still many boys who point to girls as if they were choosing products on the cupboard.
Don’t talk about the next head, say the next head is light.
"you are too fat."
"You too short."
"you are divorced, ah
"Are you not getting married when you are 30 years old?"
, they put various tags on the products, just like women To make a comment, I feel that divorced and older people are "commodities" that can't be sold.
It seems that she is not a virgin, she is not married, she is over 30, or "the product expires", so she should sell it at a discount and hurry up?
Every girl has her own value and beauty. They are all flesh and blood individuals.Not the object you materialize.
Cherish life and protect yourself.
@ grilled sweet potatoes
0 3. comes superiority.
My ex-boyfriend is a person with a sense of superiority and always feels that he is superior.
At first, I didn’t pay much attention to it. I thought it was the little boy’s fart and narcissism. I always smiled and said to him: "Yes, yes, you are the best." _span4p
Slowly I found that something was wrong.
He started to lift himself up,It is my blessing to belittle me intentionally or unintentionally, tell me how many girls are chasing him, and to be able to choose me.
I started from the happiness and luck at the beginning to become disgusting and disgusting.
He will not tolerate others to say that he is not good at all, and he will never admit that he is not as good as others.
What's more frightening is that a large part of his superiority comes from the gender of men and women. This kind of superiority in gender has not only deeply hurt me, but also made me more and more inferior. .
I start to feel that I can't do anything well.
Later, I became sober and realized that this is actually a kind of pua. We don't need to deny ourselves just because of the other's words.
Really good boys will support you, appreciate you, encourage you, and provide you with good emotional value, instead of raising yourself and demeaning you.
So now,He is an ex-boyfriend.
@ White Rabbit
0 4. think girls substance .
There is really a kind of boy who is not only unwilling to spend money on you, but also accuses you of spending money, saying that you are prodigal and that you are material.
I don’t understand that girls spend money to invest in themselves, dress themselves beautifully and exquisitely, and pursue life. Is it material?
Is it wrong to pursue a better life?
I am almost 30 this year, and I have met several times, but each time it fails and ends sloppily.
In the eyes of some men with no taste,It seems that girls should wear an apron, tie their hair, and do housework at home. They should save money and save money. This is called "be able to live".
Such a girl can marry.
also when pursuing, sweet words are enough, what gift do you want? It's enough to love you, can you not be so material?
Say we matter? It should be yourself. You can't love someone without money, right?
Those so-called material girls, many of them are trying to live and make money, and want to give themselves a better life, they should not be blamed.
I make money to buy a brand-name watch for myself. Is there any problem?
@懒懒
1 strong span4span.
Seeing this, it is not difficult for us to find out, in fact, you have more or less encountered some "underhead men".
And in fact, these behaviors can no longer be described as "under the head", but should be resisted nakedly!
However, I also hope that you don’t have any prejudice against the boys group. There are still a lot of boys who respect women, have a sense of proportion, and deserve to be loved.
I just hope that you will bravely say no when facing bad behavior and stay away from those who hurt and consume you.
Finally: If you feel like you can run away.
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