Due to the differences in the way of expression and thinking between men and women, many contradictions in marriage and relationships stem from "he doesn't understand my feelings" "Why is she upset?"
So whose fault is it? Up? It is possible that no one is wrong, just because the difference between men and women is not only reflected in gender and appearance, but there are many subtle physical and psychological differences, which are inherent and deep-rooted.
There is no right or wrong for this difference, just because of the difference between men and women. It is likely that no one is wrong, just like whether rice dumplings are "salty or sweet", there is no standard and it is not clear. Instead of arguing about differences, quarreling and complaining, it is better to try to understand each other.
You know, those differences that make us feel puzzling, once attracted us to each other, and now they create a gap between us. This is because we are all used to interpreting the world from our own perspective, but forgetting that everyone has different scales and feelings in their hearts.
Psychology says: It is valuable to have empathy between people. When you feel pain, others will feel it too. But as valuable as empathy is the respect for differences; when you feel no pain, if others feel pain, do not rush to say that the other person is hypocritical, he is really painful. Those who respect subtle differences must be gentle.
Therefore, the prerequisite for a good interaction between men and women must be mutual communication and understanding. There must be a kind invitation from someone.
Communication is very important. Discussing what you want and expressing your aspirations with complaints and anger is the next best thing, not the first choice.
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