The 35-year-old divorced woman said in her heart: Three family men approached me for cheating

I am Aya . I am 35 years old this year. I experienced a failed marriage and divorced a few years ago. Single women have many rights and wrongs, so I pay special attention to my words and deeds. I always do things low-key and never actively interact with the opposite sex. However, there are still some men who don't have a good heart and feel that divorced single women have the opportunity to stage a farce.

01

Awei is my high school classmate and has not been in contact for many years. When I was studying, he was my deskmate. He was tall and handsome, and his voice was very good. He sang a song at the class party and gained the eager attention of many girls.

After class, there are always a few outgoing girls around him, like stars holding the moon.

Ah Wei was very arrogant at that time. He rarely took care of these girls, but he would help any classmate who asks for help. Just like a big brother, we have a good impression of him.

Awei's scores in the college entrance examination were average, but he only studied for a college and studied hotel management. After graduation, his parents funded him to buy him a medium-sized hotel, dining on the first floor, second and third floors. The floor is the accommodation room.

Our class reunions are always arranged in Ah Wei's hotel. Ah Wei is very popular and everyone is willing to support him.

The news of my divorce soon spread throughout the circle of classmates. Many people called specifically to comfort me, saying that there is no fragrance in the end of the world, so don't be immersed in the past. Every time I have a party, a few good female classmates will call me, and they let me come out to relax.

When partying, I never drink, and I rarely make jokes with everyone. In fact, my personality just doesn't like publicity. In addition, I am single, and I am afraid that talking to boys will make people gossiping.

Awei always entertains everyone as the host. His wife is at the front desk and greets us warmly. Of course, how to pay for meals or how to pay. He always takes special care of me and directs my favorite dishes to me.

After that party, Awei started to call me often, and sometimes his phone would come in when he was at work, and he would ask him nothing, just talk a few words, or press the wrong number. I was a little baffled, and at the same time I started to have precautions in my heart.

That night, Ah Wei called again, and he suddenly said that he wanted to ask me to wash my feet in a pedicure shop! As soon as I heard it, I refused. I said I was busy and didn't have time. Of course, I was more tactful when I refused.

A few days later, Ah Wei asked me to have dinner again. I thought it was a class reunion. He said that it was only me and him. I said to call a few classmates. Everyone gets together more lively, but Ah Wei stubbornly Said: "No, I just want to be with you alone!"

I directly refused, I said never eat alone with the opposite sex, in fact, I said it is still very vague, I mean I don't want to eat alone with a man with a family, I don't want to go to any muddy water!

I was doing laundry after dinner that night, Ah Wei's phone came again, I pressed the hands-free button, Ah Wei seemed to be drunk, he said slurred: "Aya, you are a divorced I don’t have a husband in charge of you, so what do you pretend to be reserved?”

I snapped the phone, and I was shaking with anger. I really saw the wrong person. My impression of Awei from the high school days It's very good. I think he is a warm-hearted and honest person. I didn't expect his thoughts to be so dirty!

I felt that I was greatly insulted. I immediately deleted all of Awei's contact information and blocked him. I never attended the class reunion afterwards.

02

Ajian is my best friend's husband. When I haven't gotten divorced, the two always gather together for dinner. We rush to pay the bill every time, and the relationship is very good.

My best friend and I grew up. We have lived in the same compound since we were young. My father and my girlfriend's father are colleagues. We get along like a mother. When we were young, who had delicious and rare things, we had to set aside a portion and share it with each other.

Even if you go to the street with your mother to buy a hair rope,We will also ask for one more and give it to each other. After we got married, we often played together and traveled together.

When I first got divorced, I was very depressed. My best friend came to my house and stayed with me for several nights and enlightened me. She said that even if the whole world abandons me, she still has her! I was very moved and hugged her and wept bitterly.

A Jian also often enlightens me that maybe I will meet a better man in the future! After the divorce, in order to avoid suspicion, I seldom talked with Ajian on the phone. Sometimes their husband and wife asked me to have dinner together, and I was able to push and push.

But I slowly discovered that Ajian would call me if he had nothing to do, and he would chat with me on the Internet either intentionally or unintentionally. He told me that he is a relative and a single woman in her 30s. She has a lover and has a colorful life.

This thing Ajian said made me very disgusted. I can't figure out what he meant. Is it implying me?

I began to avoid Ajian deliberately. I seldom go to my girlfriend's house anymore. She will come to me if anything happens.

Once Ajian called me and he asked me for coffee. He said he wanted to ask me for a meal, but he couldn’t drink enough. If you don’t drink, you will have no mood. Just ask me for coffee. .

I asked his girlfriends? Is everyone together? Unexpectedly, A Jian said brazenly: "She didn't know that I asked you, you must not tell her!" Then A Jian said: "Which divorced woman is not lonely? It's not good for me to accompany you. Is it?"

As soon as I heard it, a fly seemed to fly into my heart! I sternly warned Ah Jian, don’t have crooked eyes, I’m not that kind of person, and I also warned him if he wants to cheat, be careful when I tell my girlfriends so that he can’t regret it!

A Jian was originally a handsome man, at this moment, I think he is very ugly!

03

Ajie is my colleague and we are in an office. In normal work, we have a lot of communication, but the topic is limited to work.Never involved in life.

A Jie has a happy family. His son is already in high school. A few years ago, after letting go of his second child, they gave birth to a beautiful and pink daughter. We all envy A Jie’s children to have a happy life. A Jie’s wife We also know that she is a beautiful and gentle woman.

After my divorce, Ajie always cares about me intentionally or unintentionally. For example, before I enter the office, he has already made a cup of hot tea with jasmine fragrance, and sometimes he will bring me a cup of hot tea. He didn't even want to pay for a breakfast, which made me feel bad.

With the example of my classmate Ajian and my girlfriend's husband Awei, I took the initiative to keep a distance with Ajie, and then I found a suitable time to go to another office.

But there are always a few washed and rare fruits on my desk, sometimes mangosteen, sometimes cherries. I know it’s all what Ajie did, but I can only pretend to be deaf, except What else can I do?

At the end of the year, I was very busy at work and often worked overtime until late at night. Once, when I walked out of the office, it was already more than 10 o'clock in the evening. I didn't expect Ajie to be waiting for me in the corridor.

He walked out of the office building with me. When I walked to the parking lot, in a dark shadow, he suddenly took my hand. I was struggling hard by instinct, and gave it to me in a thunderous manner. He gave him a loud slap in the face!

I beat him up at once, and he said embarrassingly: "Aya, I have no malice, but I think it is not easy for you to live alone."

I drove away without looking back.

According to conscience, the three men Ajian, Awei, and Ajie are not villains. They are good husbands and fathers with good looks! But there is a source of filthy deep in their hearts, exposing the ugliness and nasty of their human nature.

Single women are indeed lonely and lonely,But what they need is a stable family, a husband who cares and accompanies her, not a messy relationship!

Being single is not a woman's fault, but it would be a big mistake to excuse being single to indulge yourself! One needs to be upright and dignified.

Single sisters, be sure to keep your eyes open and recognize the family man who is close to you, so as not to be deceived!