After experiencing countless winds and rains and passing years, I suddenly realized that life has gone a lot. After tasting the ups and downs and crossing the maze, we finally understand that we should be mature people.
A mature person should: pay attention to speaking, pay attention to communication, and stay in business.
1. You should pay attention to
" Shiji · Xiang Yu Benji ".
Han Sheng dedicated to Xiang Yu said: " Guanzhong has dangerous terrain, with mountains and rivers as barriers, fertile land, this construction capital can dominate the project." The palace of Qin had been burnt down and dilapidated, and at the same time thinking about the hometown, he said: "People are rich, they should return to their hometowns, and wealth does not return to their hometowns. It is like a night walk in brocade clothes. Who can see it?"
Sheng said: "It is said that and Chu people are monkeys with hats. They are stupid. Now they seem to be so."
There are not a few people who suffer from speaking troubles, and the reason is nothing more than a love for sharp teeth and a love for length. There is a saying: "Fast for a while, you will regret it for a lifetime." talks about it, it is not a good thing to be greedy, mature people should know how to be cautious and be afraid to speak, and keep silent.
It is true that a person can speak well, but it will make people like it. A person who can talk, understands the scoring situation, tells the timing, and speaks only a few words, can also make people feel like spring breeze.
If you leave three points to your lips, it is a mature expression of a person.
2. Keeping the border should be careful _pspan2
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A good friend relationship is like a tree. I usually have nothing to water and take care of. I can occasionally see a few beautiful flowers, which is pleasing to the eye. I am afraid that someone will break the tree for a little benefit. No matter how good the friendship is, it must bring its own borders. If you don't pay attention, the relationship may be far away.
In life, when many people get along with their friends, they always feel that favor is more important than anything else. They get more and more arduous and take advantage of others. As everyone knows, no matter how good a friend is, once an overdraft is overdrawn, the relationship will change. NS.
friends who were overdrawn,Just like a fish pond that has been overfished, only a pool of stagnant water remains. To overestimate a relationship, go to overdraft without a bottom line, in exchange for an unbearable ending. Friends should rely on commonality to attract and be equal to each other, rather than blindly interrupting and endless consumption.
No matter if it is a classmate, colleague, family or friendship, don't overspend, and maintain and cherish with a grateful heart will the relationship be long-lasting.
3. If you don’t do anything, you should leave the road
I once saw a fable: the wolf found a hole at the foot of the mountain through which various animals passed. The wolf was very happy. He thought that by guarding the cave, he could catch all kinds of prey. So it plugged the other end of the hole and waited for the animals to come and die.
On the first day, a sheep came, and the wolf chased it forward. The sheep found a small hole and fled hurriedly. The wolf plugged up the small hole in desperation. The next day, a rabbit came, and the wolf pursued it hard. As a result, the rabbit escaped from a smaller hole on the side. So the wolf blocked all holes of similar size. On the third day, a squirrel came, and the wolf rushed over, chasing the squirrel jumping up and down. Finally, the squirrel ran away from a passage on the top of the hole. The wolf was very angry, so it blocked the entire cave. On the fourth day, a tiger came. The wolf was terrified and ran away. The tiger chased him, but the wolf couldn't find an exit. In the end, the wolf was eaten by the tiger.
wolf,There is no room for the animals, and no way for themselves to survive.
Sometimes, crossing people is also crossing oneself.
In life, some people have too small a structure and a good life. They only care about their immediate interests and often make enemies. The road gets narrower and narrower. Some people are kind and broad-minded, do not forget to leave room for things, accumulate contacts, and the road goes wider and wider.
" Caigen Tan " has a saying: "Pass through narrow places, leave a step and walk with people; where the taste is strong, subtract three points for people to taste".
The ups and downs of life are the norm in life. Don't always do things, leave a line to others, so that you can see each other well in the future.
4. End
Yu Qiuyu is a kind of bright in " Su Dongpo _span9" instead of bright A mellow but not offensive sound, a smile that ignores the noisy, a kind of indifference that has washed away the extreme.
When we were young, we all hoped that we could live unrestrainedly. If we have anything to say, we dare to act. Approaching middle age,Only then do we understand that we must be disciplined in speaking, acting, and doing things. Keeping three points to the lips, and being careful in words and deeds can give people a sense of stability and honesty; when friends get along, keep the boundaries, not overdraw the relationship, and maintain each other carefully, the friendship can last; when the way is achieved, the subordinates will be merciful and do things. Leave room, and the road will become wider and wider.
For the rest of my life, I hope you and I will be mature people, have elegant conversations, and have a degree in doing things. I also wish you three or five friends to have longer affection.
I am willing to roam. Thanks for reading.
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