Ms. Xu is 28 years old this year. She works as an English teacher in a high school. She has a stable job and a good income. When the house price went down last year, she and her husband bought a set of their own nest at the right time. Now they have a house and a car. One family, the standard of living is upper-middle level among peers.
Ms. Xu said that since she was a child, her elders praised her for being smart, and she was able to learn a little bit. From elementary school to university, her grades have always been among the best. However, this smartness is limited to her studies. After she got married, she I found myself an out-and-out "stupid". Miss Xu told us that for the past three years, she has searched for information about "same room" on the Internet almost every day, but the results of the search have been strange. Once she asked an anonymous question on the website, and someone replied how could there be people who cannot share the same room? She also said that she probably has never tried a satisfactory married life, and if she is satisfied, she will naturally be willing.
Ms. Xu can't laugh or cry about the misunderstanding of netizens. But she just didn't know how she could be like this, what should she do in the future!
Fortunately, she has a husband Zhiwei who loves her very much. After one failed attempt, Miss Xu collapsed and cried and said that she would not live anymore if this went on. Zhiwei hugged her and comforted her softly and said, "I don't mind, it's good to be like this. We can adopt the child, and I will help you with your parents. Don't be sad."
After listening to Ms. Xu's narration, the teachers all sighed at the deep relationship between her and Zhiwei, and they were relieved for the following courses. After all, the relationship between husband and wife is a very important part of psychological counseling.
But after entering the course, the teachers still encountered an accident: No matter how persuaded, Miss Xu always resisted the training, and the most basic "know yourself" could not be completed. In the end, she used a tougher method to complete the course.
got the first step, and then it's much smoother. Ms. Xu's evasion from the beginning, to the subsequent cooperation, and then to the active feedback later. The teachers witnessed Miss Xu's changes and her progress.
In the last class,Miss Xu and Zhiwei finally succeeded. Although it was three years late, it was finally complete.
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