Why doesn't the blue team support the original match to use threats to let the derailed man break the relationship with the small trifle? Because it is easy to be backlashed.
An infidelity case dealt with by Lan Fang before is such a situation.
The original partner Ms. Guo and her husband have been married for more than ten years. The two have a daughter, and both are civil servants.
usually has a good relationship, but occasionally. Because of some trivial quarrels, but Ms. Guo thinks it’s normal. Husbands and wives will quarrel.
But many men don’t think so. Tarn will feel that his wife is nagging and often quarreling is annoying. A woman who quarrels can't help but feel good about such a woman.
If this woman is also interesting to such a man, then an extramarital affair is an inevitable result.
Ms. Guo’s husband cheated on her female colleague from the same unit, a middle-aged woman who lost her husband.
Xiaosan lives alone with a son. Personal conditions are better, so many people introduce her to her,
However, most of the people at this age who can introduce are older men who are more than ten years old than the third. The third is unwilling, and
is eager for marriage. It just so happens that Ms. Guo's husband shows a good impression of her, and the third is also going smoothly.
These are what Ms. Guo learned from another female colleague of her husband after she found out that her husband was cheating.
After understanding the situation, Ms. Guo first went to Xiaosan and said that she would report her as a third party. When she was scared, she told the cheating man,
The cheating man was still standing there at the beginning At the same time, he went home and scolded Ms. Guo viciously, saying how the widow and orphan of the third child could survive without a job.
Ms. Guo was very angry when she saw her husband helping the mistress. She turned the contradiction and started to target the cheating man, saying that you feel bad about reporting the mistress, then I will report you.
The derailed man had just been promoted at that time, and there is still a chance to continue to be promoted. Ms. Guo was also afraid of this,
So in the end the derailed man still yielded, saying that he is a responsible man and cannot be sorry for his family.
But in fact, I was afraid that I would ruin my career because of the derailment, so I reluctantly returned to the family.
Ms. Guo thought that the extramarital affairs could be solved like this? That was really naive. The derailed man and Ms. Guo said that he had already made a change and had to return.
As a result, the unit and the small third still showed the same appearance. The two were forced to be helpless, and the people in love could not be together.
Ms. Guo's female colleague who inquired about the situation before, kept reminding her later that the two of them might rekindle their old relationship.
So Ms. Guo asked her husband to transfer to another job, or she had to continue to report two people. Not only was her husband reluctant,
also quarreled with Ms. Guo, and shouted at Ms. Guo, "I abandon my true love for the family, what do you think? What?!"
Ms. Guo was speechless for a while. It was obvious that the two people abandon the so-called true love for their own business.
turned out to be forced to be helpless. The cheating man went home and his original partner could be justified and confident. Tell this lie.
Although Ms. Guo threatened two people to report, in fact she would not report it because he did not intend to divorce.
ruined the derailed man’s career, which is of no benefit to her, so it was just a threat, and the derailed man would not accept it. She threatened, and she was helpless.
Ms. Guo came to Lan Fang for help. There are two appeals. On the one hand, she hopes her husband can recognize the mistake, and on the other hand, she completely separates her junior.
I told Ms. Guo that it is easy for her husband to be completely cut off from the mistress, but it is difficult for her husband to admit her mistakes sincerely,
So Lan Fang’s advice to Ms. Guo is to completely separate the mistress first and let the cheating man know that the extramarital affairs are not good. , Even a chicken feather,
makes him hate Xiaosan, so he may realize that his derailment was a mistake, and then continue to guide him to admit his mistake.
How to completely separate the junior three, you must disintegrate the relationship between the two people from the inside, let them turn against each other, and then be able to truly and completely separate.
In fact, it’s not difficult for Ms. Guo to completely separate in this case. From the two people facing Ms. Guo’s threats to them,
’s reaction can tell that although the two people say that each other is true love, in fact I love myself the most, and my career is more important than the other.
Because their current relationship is both prosperous and both prosperous, both of them will not get better after being reported, so the interests of the two people are the same,
so even if two people are separated, they still think that the other person loves themselves, but if the two When there is a conflict of personal interests, love will disappear immediately.
All that is left is to tear each other in disregard of their own interests. All Ms. Guo needs to do is create a conflict of interest between the two people.
Both people care about their careers, so Ms. Guo can start from the career side.
directly threaten the cheating man and ask him to persuade him to transfer to another post or report him cheating. The transfer must be the kind of bad department.
must bring all kinds of evidence that can prove his cheating and take your written The report letter said to the cheating man,
and it must be asking the cheating man to talk to the young man, forcing the cheating man to damage the interest of the young man.
As long as the derailed man goes, the mistress will definitely resist. The more fierce the mistress is, the more fierce the original partner will force the derailed man. The original partner of
can tell the cheating man that if Xiaosan reports him, he can testify that she has nothing to do with Xiaosan.
At this time, you stand firmly on the cheating man's side and let the cheating man and Xiaosan have a dispute.
Next, you will watch two guys who were so in love with each other suspicion, blame each other, attack each other, and finally turn each other into enemies.
In an extramarital affair separated in this way, the chance of a recurrence between two people in the future is almost zero, and the chance of a man derailing is very small.
In the end, Lan Fang wants to say that the more intimidating the original partner is to lure the derailed man to return to the family,
The more likely it is that the derailed man will be unclean and the trivial mess, and the more likely it is that old love will rekindle a second derailment. .
And if it is through various means, the internal disintegration of the extramarital affairs and the return of the derailed man to the family can be considered a complete solution.
If you encounter a similar emotional problem and don't know how to solve it, you can follow the blue party's private letter for help, and I will help you with suggestions.
I am Lan Fang, an emotional mentor who tells the truth and does things.
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