Text/Bo Yang
Source/"Reader" Magazine, Issue 24, 2018
The meaning of household pairing is not relative in money, power, or social status.
"Fortress Collection" once said that love is often conditional. Only men and women who are inexperienced or men and women with ulterior motives shout that there is no condition for love.
Woohoo, husband, whether a man loves a woman or a woman loves a man, is the advantage of loving each other. She loves him strong, good at piano, calligraphy and calligraphy, and promising; he loves her to be slender, smart, and so beautiful.
These advantages are conditions.
The problem is that the so-called conditions in the world often refer to money, power, and status. Therefore, men and women with a little spirituality are ashamed to talk about money, power, and status.
If you say to a girl: "You'd better marry him, he has knowledge." She smiled quasi-brows. If you say: "You'd better marry him, he has silver." That's wrong.
Some women who look like tigers or those from poor families often bluntly put forward the conditions for choosing a spouse, and money is not necessary-but this kind of request is only limited to the time when three or five friends are together.
I have a distant granddaughter who once declared to me that as long as I have money, even bastards will marry. With her beauty, she finally caught an old pervert, and now the children are all in high school.
But in ordinary circumstances, ladies will despise things outside of the body. The most common thing is that a news reporter visits a movie star and asks her about the conditions for choosing a husband. She may say a lot, but she can’t talk about money. It’s dirty if she talks about money.
But movie stars rarely marry paupers, either to the boss, or to the director, or else to marry male stars with equal weight. Only these talents are right.
A female celebrity and a male director talked after they got married: "We are in love because of our daily life together."
What is this? There is no female celebrity who marries a friend of photography or a friend of Qianchangji. ,They also live together in daily life, but they can't produce love. Why is it so?
She flatters her boss and director, she can become famous, she can star in a few more films, and she can have a few more close-ups, and love will naturally rush out. What good does she flatter photographers and field journalists?
Any happy couple must match each other.
This is not to say that two young men and women must first figure out each other's life experience before they fall in love, but that similar men and women naturally combine easily.
If a girl lives in a western-style building and owns a car, she will go to Vienna to attend a summer camp today, and tomorrow she will go skiing in Oslo. I am afraid that a newspaper vendor who makes a living by delivering newspapers will find it difficult to catch her. So, such novels and movies can kill people), even if they catch up, how do they live their lives?
The head of the bed is full of gold, and the strong man has no color. If a husband cannot provide his wife financially, the husband will not be able to stand up in the family.
If a husband cannot be the glory of his wife, the wife will feel a lot of humiliation, which will seriously affect the marriage.
I have a friend who has three conditions for marrying a wife: one is beautiful, the other is beautiful, and the third is beautiful.
Fortunately, Huangtian did not take his pains to marry a beautiful, but the wife is a mountain leopard. The guests came and wanted to see the bride, but she refused to come out.
Repeatedly please, put on makeup for two hours, wore a string of gold bracelets on her arm, wore 18th century bald high heels, and limped (because she had never worn it in the past, she had to limp).
The guest asked her: "Hello, my wife." She covered her mouth with a small handkerchief, hehe, and twisted her waist into a navy steel cord. She sat on the sofa, pulling the lapels and tilting her neck. , Laughing endlessly, vulgar, making people want to kick her in the feet.
It's one thing to oppose righteousness, but it does exist, and it's another thing.
Author: Bo Yang, Source: Reader Magazine Issue 24, 2018,The original title "On the right of the door".
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