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When feelings can only be missed, it happens that the feeling of feeling at this stage is not as good as before, and the degree of closeness specific to brothers and sisters is the same The increase in age shows an inverse relationship.
1. Having their own families is very different from forming their own families before. They will be redefined in both sense and substance. Since brothers and sisters take care of their own families, they will be The respective family is the center.
Personal interests must be subordinate to the interests of the family. When the brothers and sisters are young, or to be precise, when there is no separate family, the two parties are in a big family. In many ways, it can be done regardless of you and me. There will be calculations and no calculations. A similar situation will end with the establishment of a family. The brothers and sisters are nominally former brothers and sisters, but additional factors play a decisive factor, and alienation will be inevitable. After all, it is impossible for different families to distinguish between you and me, pay or gain accounting and calculation.
2. The age of siblings to a certain extent means that they are farewell to their parents. The common path in life has disappeared, and they will gradually drift away on their own homecomings.
When parents are there, the home in my heart is there. When my parents are gone, the home in my heart is gone. When parents are alive, they usually organize family dinners under a variety of names. Will rush back from all directions, brothers and sisters will relive the good old days, the cohesion of parents will make brothers and sisters feel close, even if the feelings are not as close as they were when they were young, they will not fall to the point of alienation. Sisters have conflicts, parents will reconcile them, but everything that accompanies the farewell to their parents is over, and the brothers and sisters become relatives from family members.
Three, there is less contact between brothers and sisters,There is less meeting, less walking, each is busy with work or family, brothers and sisters, except for formal greetings when they are free during New Years and holidays, the rest of the time will be indifferent, communication is developed, and no relationship is maintained. Your mind and consciousness, feelings will fend for themselves.
Brothers and sisters have gone to the extreme of incompatibility. Even if they were close, they will now feel alienated from heart and heart, so that their brothers and sisters are not as good as relatives and friends who communicate with each other appropriately. Once acquired indifferently, and neglecting the superstructure that builds acquired feelings, the foundation will go from barren to weathered to razed to the ground.
Conclusion: Age is not just a number of changes. Behind the numbers is the growth of experience. Books read, roads traveled, and people met will change the three views of brothers and sisters. The three views are harmonious at first. It means that the last three views will be in tacit understanding as always. Sometimes estrangement is accidental, and more often it is inevitable.
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