I have watched many emotional shows and learned some ways of getting along with husbands and wives, but I still can't suppress the idea of divorce!
Before writing these words! I have deleted an article that I just edited! That's right! It's the article! The fuse of disharmony in many families may be because of a sentence, an expression or a joke with each other!
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The old public and I run two dessert shops together, doing a very sweet business!
Having been together for 6 years, running a store together will always be a bit noisy because of different opinions.
My mom’s house and his house were not close by car for more than 5 hours.
Married him without hesitation, no house, no car, no savings.
I forced the marriage! I got pregnant twice when I cohabited before getting married, and both of them were too young to be a career-focused.
It's useless to cry and I didn't take a day off. I also want to grow my career with him, and believe that he is a man with a strong sense of responsibility.
His spirit of enduring hardship makes me admire, living together in a house where the sun cannot be seen all the year round. In order to save money and trouble, I only eat tomato and egg noodles for almost a year. I can't go back to my natal family once a year.
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After getting married, I feel that my husband has changed!
Out there, she is amiable, gesticulating at me at home, and has a tendency to self-abuse, threatening me with my own life and death to compromise!
I got pregnant again six months later! But my husband is not happy at all.
still harassed with me, and I went back to my parents' house in anger, and my dad sent me back after staying for a few days.
My husband and my dad cried out about his difficulty and all sorts of reasoning. When I listened to the side, I felt that what he said was right because I did not do it right!
Speaking of a son-in-law and a half, my dad also appreciates and loves this child, and that's it!
In the end the child did not save!
My husband had a hernia and never told his parents. My father-in-law knew to persuade him to have an operation.Why are you married?
My parents-in-law had been literate for a lifetime and only knew to work to make money, and because of that, I also missed him.
Later, under my coercion and coercion, I underwent surgery. I went to the store every day and took time to see him.
Don’t worry about the store, I called my mother to help, but my mother was robbed! His family only said that he had lost a lot of money and didn’t ask where my mother was injured. Not enough! I called my aunt’s child and my younger brother to help, and they were busy until late at night.
For large objects, I called my dad and my uncle to help, and I did a lot for the whole family?
He didn’t feel any gratitude either. It’s inappropriate for him to dislike their bad work.
Two years later, the business in the store is picking up. I am happy in the expectation of my family, but my husband is not as happy as I thought.
I am a pregnant woman who cares for me. He will force me to eat because of my severe morning sickness. He will say that pregnant women need to exercise and ask me to get up early every day. I can only sleep after 12 at night!
He always pushes me with his thoughts And he is not allowed to resist, and he will say that it is for my own good and to take care of my performance.
He will not worry about whether there are any bad guys when I go to the store too late, or whether I will fall inadvertently when I go out to deliver the goods. Inverted.
But he will argue with me about the small things in my work regardless of the occasion, until I compromise!
or drag and pull on the street, completely ignoring that I am a pregnant woman who is 8 months pregnant!
Push me to the fore as long as there is a disturbance from a customer! The reputation is "women come forward to do things well"
I didn't go through a birth check with me in October. He always said that he left no one in the shop, and my family was afraid I had an accident and asked my brother to accompany me to the maternity checkup.
My mother came to take care of me when I was due to give birth. My husband was dissatisfied with me because of the store’s affairs, so he scolded me directly in front of them and the salesperson. Give it up. I said that all the burdens are on him now, and bad temper can be forgiven. I don’t feel any uncomfortable.
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Give birth to children and die to live, and the husband is not by my side!
Husband, friend, daughter-in-law, after giving birth, his husband said she is all alone Not easy to plant,My husband talked happily and said that my wife was not uncomfortable at all, and I also laughed off.
Mom waits for the confinement, he and my mom are competing, saying that my mom is not worthy of being a human, knowing that it is too much to kneel on the ground and beg my mom for forgiveness!
Later the child was brought to my mother-in-law. He and I were busy in the shop and missed many of the first times for the child, just to live a better life.
I gave some savings to my mother-in-law and got along very well. The baby is almost 2 years old. I found that the child hits, cries, and all kinds of bad habits. Then I realized that the child couldn't get used to it and had to take it by himself.
My husband said that I am not responsible, and I am not qualified to bring children to all kinds of slander. I said that in the past, work was life, and life was work. The state of work must be changed, otherwise the child may be ruined.
He said that working hard to make money is for the future of the family. I also said that the shop is also a child... For various reasons, I brought the child to my side without hesitation.
A lot of things happened afterwards, and my sensible mother-in-law would accuse me of "Is it because my son died and died". My parents are afraid of my divorce, so I don't go to the store, but occasionally help. I feel like I'm breaking down! I have no confidence!
The status of my husband and I is now:
We have nothing to say every day, we don't care about each other! Even if you care, you can show it to others.
My husband is impatient with me!
Talk and laugh in front of outsiders, and ignore them at home.
All kinds of complaints about the poor care of the children!
Drinks, smokes, and sighs every day, and it doesn't give the child a good face!
I don't care about my children, nor quarrel, nor show it on my face!
My heart is riddled with holes, no friend has nowhere to tell!
My husband and I said to let each other go, he said casually, but not divorced!
said that divorce is never negotiated with money, and I only need 6 years of salary, he said no. He said that he wanted the husband and wife to share property. He said too much. I am not worth the money.
I said just let me go, the money is up to you, and the child belongs to me. I don't know if I will be able to give birth in the future, and he said he wants to live a good life! Accuse me that I have changed, and he hasn't changed at all!
said I have no sense of responsibility to destroy this home,Let me go out of the house or something! After waiting for two days, he will say that he is just a tofu heart with a knife mouth, that is to say!
Drinking and smoking every day, I persuaded me to say it was all persecuted!
This period of wanting to be inseparable, I have thought about where to go for a bad marriage!
I really want to end, even if I am suffering, I will take the child to a bloody road!
The excuse of winning in marriage, ruining the relationship!
I don’t know what I’m taboo, or what I’m afraid of! I don’t hesitate to divorce, I just feel sorry for the child! How to repair the shadow of the child's psychology after divorce!
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