Preface:
Married women are pursued by men, what are their thoughts? The three women expressed their true feelings.
Ms. Xiao:
I am thirty-five years old this year, and I have been married to my husband for ten years. I have an eight-year-old daughter and my family is harmonious. I feel that I am a happy woman, my husband is doting on me, my daughter is well-behaved and sensible, everyone is envious of me, and it is unanimously recognized that my fate is good.
Although I have a husband and children, I still encounter men who are chasing after me. This is probably determined by the nature of my work, because I often have to meet people of all kinds, and most of them are men.
Among all the men who pursued me, many of them are of the nature of hunting, they just want to simply play with me. Those playboys who just want to hunt for beauty, I will turn them away thousands of miles away, because I don't want to do things that I'm sorry for my husband, and I will have a bad conscience.
In addition to men who have bad intentions towards me, there are also some suitors who treat me sincerely and are attracted by my charisma. For these men, I will treat them with the same sincere attitude and be best friends with them.
Because I think this type of man has a bottom line for being a man. They don't just treat me as an object of play, but treat me as a close friend.
I think as long as it is handled correctly, there can be pure friendship between the opposite sex. I have several blues. We often discuss some thorny issues, and we also do each other's interpretations when we are depressed, so as to get out of the haze of our hearts. It is because of the existence of these blue faces that it helps me to be better at handling the relationship with my husband.
Whenever my husband and I have conflicts and disagreements, Lanyans always give me valuable advice from a male perspective. Their advice is far more effective than my girlfriends, because men are more effective. Understanding men's hearts allows me to avoid detours when resolving conflicts between husband and wife.
I love my husband and my children more. I will never leave my husband and my family in my life. Although I have been pursued by many men, I have never been one step ahead with any man.
Because I know that if I make the mistake of principle, my marriage will be in jeopardy and my happy life will be gone.
Ms. Lu:
I am forty-four years old and am currently being pursued by a man ten years older than me. For his pursuit, my heart is happy. Because since I got married, I have never experienced the taste of being pursued by the opposite sex.
Over the years, I have long forgotten that I am a woman and that I also need to be pampered by men. My husband and I live a bland life every day, and his indifference makes me unable to find the slightest feeling of being a woman. What I never expected from
is that I can be pursued by a man who is not too old when he is in his forties. I am very surprised. Before
, every time I had a conflict with my husband, he would threaten me with my age. He said that I was a "forty bean curd dregs woman," and if I kept arguing with him, he would divorce me, and I would be left alone for the rest of my life. Because men don't like women in their forties, let alone marry women of this age.
My husband often says that I am old and no man will be interested in me anymore, even if I get divorced, no man wants me. My husband often "educates" me like this and makes me believe it.
I didn't expect that I would be pursued by the fifty-four-year-old Zhao recently, which made me suddenly return from my old woman mentality to when I was young, and every day is a new look.
Lao Zhao is a colleague of my unit. Since his wife fell in love with another man and divorced him cruelly, he has been chasing me. He said that my wife and I are fundamentally different. Her wife was never up to her duty, and I looked like a woman who would make a good life.
Even if I say that I have a family and I probably won't be able to get married with him, he is willing to be with me. He said that he liked the solid feeling I brought to him. No matter whether we can achieve results in the future, he will always wait for me and keep his love for me deep in his heart.
Lao Zhao and I have become good friends who talk about everything, and I never deny the possibility of marrying him, because my husband is not good to me, and my marriage has long been in jeopardy.
The reason why I didn't divorce my husband before was just because I believed his nonsense: I thought that after I divorced him, no man would really want to marry me again.
Now I have Lao Zhao waiting for me without any regrets, which makes me feel that I have some confidence in my heart. If my husband continues to oppress me with the fact that I don't have a man, and continues to bully me, I will file for a divorce with him and remarry with Lao Zhao.
I must kill my husband's spirit, otherwise I will live under his oppression for the rest of my life, and I will be unwilling to think about it.
I have always kept in touch with Lao Zhao. The existence of Lao Zhao makes me feel that I am still attractive and increases my self-confidence. Now I'm not like I used to give up completely on grooming myself to look unfeminine.
all say "Women are the ones who please themselves." Ever since I was with Lao Zhao, I have been keen on dressing up.I hope that I am still an elegant and beautiful woman in the eyes of Lao Zhao, and I will definitely attract him to my side.
I didn't expect that my husband's attitude towards me has changed in all directions since I started trying to dress myself up. He used to be too lazy to look at me more, but now he always looks at me secretly and praises me for suddenly becoming beautiful.
In the past, when we went out for a walk, he always disdain to walk with me, and every time he would deliberately stay far away from me. I know that he dislikes me for being old and ugly, and he is afraid of being touched by acquaintances who want face. Knowing that I am his wife, he will lose face.
Now as long as we go out for a walk together, not only will he not be far away from me, but he will even let me take his arm for a walk, saying that this will make it more intimate.
I am very happy with the change of my husband. After all, every woman does not want a divorce. If her husband treats her well, why should a woman reorganize her family and adapt to a new environment and a new man?
If my husband can continue to maintain a good attitude towards me, I will stick to our marriage to the end. If my husband is still the same as me and makes things difficult for me, I will resolutely stop wronging myself and start my new life.
It is a very lucky thing for me to be pursued by a man in his forties. It has brought me a change in my whole body, made my life develop in a good direction, and made me feel more and more about myself. The more confident you are, the more you love yourself.
Ms. Zhou:
I am fifty-six years old this year, but there are still men who are pursuing me. Many of them are younger than me. They do not think that I am no longer attractive to women because of my age.
I have been a beauty since I was a child, and I have maintained this beauty to this day.I am a woman who puts her looks above everything else. Even though I am in my fifties, I still do not want to let myself grow old with age.
When I was very young, I knew how to take care of myself and was willing to invest in my beautiful appearance. I think the mission of a woman is to maintain her own appearance and to treat beauty as a career that she must persist in her whole life.
Because I have always maintained a beautiful face, so everywhere I go, there are flowers and applause. Although the statement is a bit exaggerated, the reality is not much different.
I'm a businessman, and whenever I appear in front of my business associates well-dressed, I'm always a plus point for my people. I think a person's appearance can best reflect his attitude towards life and respect for others.
My beauty has attracted the unremitting pursuit of many men. They say that I am a charming woman and that my appearance has not been degraded by age.
On the contrary, because I am in my 50s, but I have a face in my 30s, they admire me and regard me as a god.
They say that young girls, although they have shatterable skin and a prosperous appearance, the biggest flaw of girls of this age is that they are not deep in the world, so they do not have more insight into life.
They say a young girl is together, although their appearance is very seductive, but it is limited to that. They will prefer women with the right way of thinking to discuss life with them. These young girls can't give, only I can make them look good and connect with their hearts.
gave me a high evaluation from the suitors, and I took all of them. I am lucky to have the looks of my 30-year-old and the mature mind of my 50-year-old, believing that it was a gift from fate to make my life better.
I maintain a good relationship with all suitors, because I am a businessman and believe in "harmony to make money" and "many friends, multiple paths." I feel that at my age, there are still men pursuing me, which can only mean I'm good and that's not a bad thing.
My suitors have helped me a lot in my career. It is because of them that my business is doing more smoothly.
I think it is a particularly happy thing for a married woman to be pursued by a man. It fully proves that this woman is still attractive, and it proves the excellence of a woman from the side.
When a married woman encounters a man's pursuit, she only needs to grasp her bottom line to be able to coexist peacefully with the suitor, so that her life can reach a higher level.
Concluding remarks:
Married women are pursued by men, and their hearts are secretly overjoyed. They will be more confident because they are favored by men, and they will think that they are still so charming.
Every woman wants to be liked by men, even if they are married women, they will still like the beautiful feeling of being surrounded by stars. Women will be very happy when faced with a man's pursuit, whether they accept it or not.
It's just that every woman with a mature view of marriage and love knows that marriage means responsibility, that the bottom line between husband and wife is loyalty, and that a happy and happy life needs to be maintained by the trust and honesty of both husband and wife.
Mature women know how to keep boundaries with their suitors, and know that if they want to prolong their happiness indefinitely, they must not go beyond the limits of their suitors.
They deeply understand that once they cross the line with their suitors, the result of doing so can only be to bring themselves into injustice and ruin their hard-won happy life.
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