Calling a friend of the opposite sex this way shows that the relationship between the two is extraordinary

Friends of the opposite sex, I believe that many people have friends, classmates, colleagues, and people who meet by chance in the society can become friends. Some are friends of the same sex, some are friends of the opposite sex. There is a difference between good and bad friends, the better the friend the closer.

But there is a degree of intimacy. If the scale is not well grasped, it is easy to cause misunderstanding or split friends, so this degree is really important. If

is a student, the relationship is relatively pure, but after entering university , the identity of everyone has undergone subtle changes, becoming not students, but adults in society.

Therefore, young people are most likely to cause misunderstandings, followed by middle-aged people. People who are married especially need to master this degree to avoid unnecessary trouble.

Whether there is pure friendship between the opposite sex is often a hot topic. In fact, the answer is yes, but there are too few, because it is easy to become ambiguous, and many relationships that were originally pure turn out to be impure.

ambiguous relationship, often have a special title, indicating that your relationship is not normal.

1. Calling the other party's nickname

A colleague in the company is a girl named Lin Xiaoying. Her parents call her Yingzi, but others can't call her that. Others can only call her Xiaoying. If you call her Yingzi, there will be something The feeling of intimacy, only the closest person can call it.

But one day someone ran up and called her Yingzi like this. Everyone looked at it and thought that the relationship between the two of them was not easy. Everyone said, the two of you have developed that kind of relationship? The

girl explained: No...

turned out to be an embarrassing scene.

Actually the boy liked the girl, but the girl didn't like the boy, so there was a serious misunderstanding.

In many people, you can see that there are always some men, and some are married men, who often call girls by their boudoir names or nicknames, as if they are familiar, but it is easy to cause misunderstandings to others.

If you always call the opposite sex like this, it will make the relationship between two people more and more impure. After all, they are both adults. This kind of behavior will bring emotional distress to the other party, so, no matter men or women, don't call others by their nicknames.

2. Women call men "brothers", or men call women "sisters"

Between the opposite sex, you must keep a distance, the sense of distance is very important, no matter how good the relationship is between two people, no matter how good the other party has helped you No matter how busy, even if two people have been alone, even if they have talked about everything, but as long as they are not a couple or husband and wife, they should keep a distance, because some bottom lines cannot be crossed.

Some girls will say to boys: "Brother, where do you live?" "Brother, you are amazing!" Or men call women "sisters". It's hard to imagine how, if a boy already has a partner, how dare he recognize another girl as his sister, wouldn't the boy's partner be jealous? Won't you misunderstand?

Facts have proved that most relationships are not pure enough for those who address people of the opposite sex in a friendly tone. Even if you don't admit it, or even deceive yourself, what you can't change is the truth.

This is not only responsibility between friends, but also loyalty to partners.

's colleague, Mr. Liu, often refers to others indiscriminately, either by their nicknames or by their sisters, causing a lot of misunderstandings. Everyone thinks that his friends of the opposite sex have an unusual relationship with him, so they despise him.

This is the case with a girl named Lin Yue. People call her Lin Yue, but Mr. Liu calls her sister or Yueyue, and has been alone with her many times, showing a very intimate look.

The most important thing is that Lin Yue is only a colleague of Mr. Liu, so everyone is well aware of Mr. Liu's approach, but it is difficult to point out.

And one day, Mr. Liu's girlfriend ran over, blaming Lin Yue and Mr. Liu at the same time. Lin Yue couldn't stand it, so she transferred from Shenzhen to Guangzhou .

Mr. Liu had a big fight with his girlfriend, and as a result, Mr. Liu lost his girlfriend.

So, don't call others randomly outside, otherwise there will be serious consequences.

3. Neither of the above two, let alone names such as daughter-in-law, wife, darling, and baby, are more serious disrespect.

Same-sex communication requires keeping a distance. Men and women need to keep a proper distance when interacting with each other, so that the relationship between partners and friends can be reasonably divided. This kind of relationship is actually a kind of distance.

For a person who has a partner, one should not have unreasonable thoughts about others, otherwise it would be immoral, because it would be unfaithful to the partner.

Therefore, the relationship between the opposite sex should be maintained, not only in the daily life not to get too close, not to spend too long together, but also in the name.

Adults are different from children. Don't feel that making jokes is not important. Therefore, it is necessary to maintain a proper relationship with friends and keep the name of colleagues in order to live in harmony.