preface:
Today, Xiaobian will talk about your friendship . Q: Are there really pure friendships between men and women? In fact, when it comes to this question, different people give different answers. Many people's answer is no, because once the relationship between men and women rises to a certain height, this friendship will deteriorate. So these people agree that the relationship between men and women is more of a physical impulse, and pure friendship between men and women can never exist unless they can suppress the physiological thoughts.
recently too! A fan refuted me. She said that there is real friendship between men and women, and she wrote me her own experience. Next, please help me to judge whether her emotion is a real friendship.
Ms. Li/54 years old
I was a child born in the mountains. My family's living conditions were very difficult. Later, I relied on the book in my hand to change my destiny. Something happened when I was very young that I will never forget in my life.
Aniu was my playmate since childhood. We were very naive. We often climbed mountains , collected herbs together, and even slept together. But our friendship is real, no evil thoughts, he was always just a younger brother in my eyes. I remember that when I was 10 years old and my brother was 9 years old, we made an appointment to go hiking together. My brother said that he found a very interesting place and wanted to show me there. The fog covered the whole mountain that day, and we were young and didn't know what the danger was.
So I walked into the fog with him, and the mountain shrouded in fog added a bit of mystery, which not only did not make us flinch, but also stimulated our interest in adventure.At the beginning, the fog was not very thick, and we could easily find the direction. After 3 hours, we arrived at the destination. Sure enough, this place is very beautiful. Under the background of the fog, it is like a fairyland. At this time, my brother hugged my arm. , Said my sister, I'm dying, ah. I saw two blood marks on my brother's leg.
I hugged my poor brother and ran back, but the fog was so thick that I lost my way, so we got lost in the deep mountains, and then it got dark, my brother and I snuggled together, and gradually fell asleep . When I woke up the next morning, I found that I was lying at home at this time, but I later learned that my brother died of an attack of snake venom without getting treatment. To this day, I still can't get out of the shadows. June 2 is the anniversary of his death, and every year I personally and scan the grave.
Although we have no blood relationship , but in my heart I will never forget him. Although the current atmosphere has caused many people to misunderstand friendship, it is real, at least I have experienced such emotions. I can also feel that this kind of friendship is completely different from my feelings for my husband, so I don't agree with the editor's statement, only those who have bad intentions, even if they see their own sister, may be tempted.
Conclusion:
After reading your emotional experience, I realized that my friendship is a misunderstanding. In the eyes of the editor, friendship has always been an ambiguous relationship between friends of the opposite sex. It turns out that friendship in this world is still true. It exists, but I haven't experienced it. Netizens, do you think there is pure friendship in this world? What kind of friendships have you all experienced? Click to follow, the comment area is waiting for you to discuss.
