How to "steal" a man's heart? Everyone has a different answer to this question. Some women think that if you want to "steal" a man's heart, you need to grab his stomach, so that he can taste the warmth of the food when he is extremely tired, so he naturally likes to be with you. Together.
So we can see that in life, there are many women, who obviously have talents and abilities that are not inferior to men, but they walk into the kitchen and learn how to cook in front of various gourmet apps.
Some women feel that if they want to "steal" a man's heart, they need to control his money.
"Men become bad when they have money", which is what this type of woman believes most. In their opinion, as long as a man has no money, and there is no way to to become bad, then his whole heart will naturally be placed on himself.
So we see, in life, there are many women, racking their brains to find a man's private money . In this process, it is bound to be obstructed by men in every possible way. After all, in today's society, it is impossible to move without money.
In this case, men naturally have to protect their own interests and try their best to resist.
For the resistance of men, such women do not take it to heart at all. No matter what reason the man puts forward, she will try to suppress it.
During the time when the two of them got along, although there was inevitably a lot of noise, his heart was on his own. Sometimes, the woman comforts herself like this after the two have had a violent fight.
Are these methods useful? At some point, it is useful.
Some men are very moved when they see their obviously talented wife , but they wash their hands to make soup for their own health, so they vow to love their wives forever.
Some men see that their wives are exhausted for the family, but they still insist on taking care of themselves, so as not to lose control and waste money.
He was unwilling in his heart, but he knew that his wife did this for the sake of the family, so he slowly gave up resistance and lived with his wife.
However, too often, we see that the above two methods do not work.
Wives who sacrifice their careers for the sake of their families are right for their husbands. As for preparing delicious food for herself, that's what she should do. After all, it is she who has been working hard outside to support this family.
Only enables the wife to enjoy the "beauty" of life in a warm room, and enables the child to grow up healthily in a safe environment.
The wife who seized the money from her private house, in the eyes of her husband, was just selfish. Therefore, not only will he not be moved by his wife's contribution, but he will also use various methods to avoid being seized by his wife.
This kind of life is a kind of love between husband and wife when the two people have strong feelings at first; and when the two people's feelings gradually disappear, it is a kind of bondage.
Let me ask , in this case, how can a man be willing to spend his life with a woman? Why would such phenomenon happen?
The answer is that these approaches are relatively one-sided. If you want to "steal" a man's heart, you first need to control the man's heart. The above method, in fact, does not do this.
Actually, it is not difficult to steal a man's heart, just give him these things.
1: Trust
Trust is the cornerstone of a husband and wife. If there is no trust, the two will always be in doubt about each other. Even if they are in love with , it is difficult to work together for a lifetime. In
, Xu Lingyi and Yuan Niang in "Brilliant Heart Like Jade", although they got together because of the words of their parents' matchmaker, their similar educational backgrounds gradually made them develop affection .
However, they have become a pair of grudges.
When Xu Lingyi and Eleven Niang were deeply in love, he once analyzed his relationship with Yuan Niang with her. The root cause of
is that Yuan Niang lacked trust in him. She didn't believe that he would use all means to protect her; she didn't believe that he had feelings for her in his heart; even less that he actually hoped that their children could have a better future.
In Yuan Niang's view, everything Xu Lingyi did was for the Xu family. Now that she is still alive, there is naturally no problem. However, once she dies, Xu Lingyi will inevitably disregard their children for the benefit of the Xu family.
This kind of distrust made Xu Lingyi very annoyed, but she didn't know how to explain it to her.
A long time and countless trivialities have built a high city wall between them. Whenever he mustered up his courage and went to move this high wall, Yuan Niang's eyes would flicker with calculations. The light, maybe she would not go against his decision on the surface, but behind the scenes she tried every way to stop it.
The resulting frustration caused Xu Lingyi to gradually give up the change and let the wall get higher and higher, which has since become a barrier between them that can never be eliminated.
How could Xu Lingyi fall in love with Yuan Niang under such circumstances?
2: free
A survey from UK showed that more than 70% of men said they could not accept nagging by their wives, so they were very fond of missing the good times when was single. The biggest advantage of being single in
is that it is free enough, so you don't have to worry about your appearance, and you don't have to worry about wasting your time.
Mr. Qian Zhongshu likened marriage to a besieged city, saying that those in marriage always want to come out.
The reason why they want to come out is because of the freedom outside.
A man's nature is to expand his territory, even if he is really in love, even if he gets married, even if he has become a father, he still wants to pursue freedom, even if it's just a little bit. The emergence of
freedom can allow men to temporarily step out of the heavy responsibility of supporting their families, and allow men's tired hearts to take a short rest.
Because of this, the longer they are bound, the more they want to be free. Those smart women will give a man a little private space, let him be pure himself for a while, and then return to the world.
If you want to steal a man's heart, you just need to give him trust and freedom. It's not hard to do this, what's hard is is this man worth your effort?
Some men, after gaining the trust of women, do not think about how to repay the favor, but think about how to deceive women, and embark on the road of "the red flag at home does not fall, and the colorful flags flutter outside".
Some men, after getting the freedom given by a woman, do not sigh at the thoughtfulness and well-behaved of a woman, so as to let her live a good life.
was insatiable and wanted to gain more freedom, so he often tried his best to get away and put all the burdens of the family on the shoulders of women.
Some women are unkind to people and can't see through the little tricks of men, so they let him play around, and they pay a lot, but they are scarred.
So what a woman should do most is not to think about how to steal a man's heart, but to become " eye-catching " and find the right man from the vast sea of people.
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