Some people will think that love is equivalent to paying . If you don’t get the response from and the other for what you pay, then you will feel that you have suffered a loss in this relationship, and you will have unbalanced thoughts in your heart. . Some people in
also think that since love has decided to love, why do care so much about ? Just give your own, and leave the rest to , God's will , moths to the fire is the spirit that is really needed in love.
Actually, love requires sacrifice, which is true, but if you want your love to go a long way, and you want to grasp your lover's heart more firmly, you still need some methods and skills.
Especially for men, straight men tend to make women feel unloved, and even feel that this man does not have himself in his heart at all.
But men are also very aggrieved, obviously they have paid a lot, obviously they are very good to her, why is she still not appreciative?
The root cause is that men's efforts are not on the point. In other words, to make a woman truly inseparable from you, she needs to meet her four psychological needs.
1: Let her feel loved by
No woman will care whether she is loved or not in a relationship, even a woman with strong independence, deep down she longs to be an emotional "little woman", otherwise not fall in love.
But some men fail to do this. Even if they have established a relationship, they still hold a lukewarm attitude, thinking that they are my girlfriend anyway, so why should I bother to please her? Even if I'm not that enthusiastic about her, can she leave me?
For women, when they are with a man, they always want to show him something, or he is humorous, or he is gentle, or he is very considerate, if a man is useless, then no matter how stupid a woman is, she will be sober. One day, I chose to leave resolutely.
As a man, if he really decides to fall in love with a woman, then he must let her feel loved. Only a woman who is pampered will feel the happiness and joy brought by this love, and naturally she will stay with it. by the man's side.
On the other hand, those women who are not cared for in love, even if they don't say anything, they complain a lot in their hearts. Why do other women have them, but they can't feel the warmth? After a while, I lost hope in this relationship.
2: Let her get respect
No matter what kind of emotion it is, it is inseparable from the two words respect, not to mention sacred love. Respecting each other's practices and attitudes in love will make this love established in On the basis of good development.
respects each other because she makes you want to cherish it, so you are willing to go to to listen to her voice, her thoughts, and her opinions.
And in the process of listening, you will get to know her more and more and find out her temperament. The so-called "knowing yourself and knowing the enemy and winning every battle" is also applicable in love. The more you know a person, the easier it is to have conflicts. Solve problems when disagreements arise.
Therefore, if a man really wants to grasp a woman's heart, he must let her be fully respected in this love. Only when you respect her enough will it attract her attention and make her feel your sincerity.
Some men always feel that they have won women to their side, so there is no need to pay attention to those, what about respect and disrespect? Anyway, it's his lover.
But disrespecting the other party will only make the other party feel less and less valued. In the end, it is very easy to choose to break up and end the relationship that she thinks is wrong.
3: Make her feel understood by
once saw a small question and answer: "What do you value most in love?" Many people in
said they care most about whether they are understood by the other party, and most of the respondents were women , it seems that women are paying more and more attention to their emotions or whether their thoughts can resonate with men.
It is true that everyone hopes that they can be understood by the person they care about. With that person's understanding, even if everyone stands on the opposite side of to , they still have the courage and motivation to fight.
But if even the person who considers to be the closest to does not understand him, then the grievance in his heart will be doubled by and enlarged by .
When a woman is exhausted in the workplace, she returns home and is taken into her arms by a man, and she whispers, "I understand."
What kind of happiness and steadiness is that? But if you are questioned by others outside, and denied by others, and you have to face a man's mocking when you return home, what kind of desolation does your heart feel?
A man who can understand a woman must be broad-minded. Such a man is also wise and attractive to women, and women will naturally become more and more obsessed. The women inside are prone to worrying about gains and losses , because they are too afraid of losing, so they always want to go to to test , in order to prove their position and weight in men's hearts.
Men should understand the emotions of women at this time, so It gives a woman the sense of security she needs in her relationship, such as contacting her more when you have time, even if it is just a simple message; or you can give her a little romance on the anniversary , so that she can feel the sense of ritual. Happiness comes.
In fact, women don’t want much in a relationship, and it’s not difficult to do it. It only needs a man’s heart to be able to detect it. It all depends on whether a man wants to do it or not. It gives a woman a full sense of security. Maybe you will find that she is more reasonable and emotionally stable than before. That is because the sense of security makes her trust you more and believes that the relationship between you is stable.
There is no so-called "magic power" in love. You can tie the other person firmly by your side without paying anything. The so-called "magic power" is actually the reward you get by paying with your heart.
Whether it is a man or a woman, we must manage love with heart, because every love does not start for no reason, it must be the fate between two people, so there is a process of acquaintance, acquaintance, and love.
How can there be a reason not to cherish the fate of being around? So instead of throwing fate to God to make a decision, it is better to start from yourself. As long as you use your heart and give your sincerity, you will definitely be able to get a response from the other party, which can be regarded as a no regret for yourself. explain.
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