A few days ago, I was chatting with a group of friends, and while chatting, I came to the topic of love.
I asked a few post-95s younger than me:
What is your view on love?
One of the people's answers was particularly impressive. He said:
95 The emotional outlook after
is very simple and direct, and the most honest is to love or not to love the body.
sleeps the right person, it is firewood, rice, oil and salt;
sleeps the wrong person, it is the feather duster.
If you do love right, you will spend the next month.
Simply put,
"sleeps" for people and "does" for love.
"Sleeping with the right person is the rest of our life"
"Sex and the City" has such a line:
"How we behave in bed means how we live." also.
It is normal for two people to be you and me, dry wood and fire.
However, the little secret between men and women is exposed in bed.
I think most people are long past the age of listening to love.
Whether a person loves you or not, your body will give you the most authentic response.
And how a man behaves in bed reflects that.
can be seen, and the bedding can be seen in character.
To see if a man is worth entrusting and following, depends on how he treats you in bed.
This reminds me of a reader chatting with me on WeChat last week.
We just passed a friend, and a message from her popped up in the dialog box:
was traveling with a male ticket outside, and the male ticket wanted to have a relationship with me.
I don't want to, but the male ticket is very angry and says I don't love him, did I do something wrong?
After reading WeChat, I quickly typed a sentence in the chat box:
I am angry if there is no relationship, then you ask your male ticket to love you?
After more than half a month, this reader suddenly sent me a message, which revealed hysterical unwillingness and heartbreak.
She said:
Then, in the second week after I agreed to have a relationship with the male ticket, the male ticket broke up on the grounds of disagreement.
This reader's experience really makes me sympathize with her, and I feel indignant for her experience with a scumbag.
I remember a sentence:
People who like you only see you.
People who want to sleep with you only have hormone in their eyes, nothing else.
Yes, his sweet talk is to sleep with you, and he leaves because he is tired of sleep.
On the contrary, a man who really likes you is not only a tender feeling in the past.
is gentle and respectful on the bed.
The writer Shen Wanjiu once wrote this paragraph in the book:
"The person who loves you wants your future, and the person who sleeps with you wants your present.
Those who want you in the future will definitely care about your feelings more than yourself.
If you want the person you are now, they will give up the right to love you in order to satisfy their own selfish desires.”
Some people love you, just want to sleep with you today or tomorrow.
is tired of sleep, forget it, this is not love.
This can only be called a temptation in emptiness, a pastime in boredom.
And the one who truly loves you must want to sleep with you today and tomorrow.
I still want to see you for the first time when I wake up for the rest of my life.
wants to have another lover by the pillow, and this person is you. In the
variety show " Wife's Romantic Travel ", Cheng Lisha once talked about her special sleeping habits with her husband Guo Xiaodong.
Guo Xiaodong said:
If Cheng Lisha goes out, I am most worried about her sleep problems.
After so many years, the two of us have slept very well together, but when we are apart, we will not sleep well. This is the case for both of us.
Lisa Cheng also said:
He likes me to hold him to sleep.
If we quarrel and don't hold him to sleep tonight, he will definitely not be able to sleep.
You see, the most direct confession in the world is not "I want to sleep with you,"
but "I want to sleep with you forever."
For the rest of your life, please find someone who is willing to "sleep with you for a lifetime". There are very few people. Lu Han's birthday is a card point.
The first year is 00:00, the second year is 00:17, the third year is 00:30, the fourth year is 23:31.
The first year Luhan's birthday card point, the first year They have been together for 17 years in two years.
In the third year, Luhan likes to mention 30, and in the fourth year, Guan Xiaotong 23Luhan31.
No need for fancy sentences.
It's just that I hide from you every time loves .
And Lu Han also makes no secret of his love for Guan Xiaotong.
For example, Lu Han will bring Guan Xiaotong to the brothers who run the men's team dinner, so that girlfriend naturally integrates into his circle of friends .
For example, when the staff said that this suit is a couple's outfit, Lu Han, who was originally unnerved, said bluntly: Can I buy two sets.
Looking at the entire entertainment industry, apart from Lu Han and Guan Xiaotong, such couples also have Lin Feng Zhang Xinyue .
For Zhang Xinyue, he did not hesitate to respond to black fans;
For Zhang Xinyue, he didn't care what the outside world thought about him;
And after Zhang Xinyue and Lin Feng were together, she was portrayed as a scheming girl.
In order to prove her sincerity, she took the initiative to ask Lin Feng for notarization of her prenuptial property.
in order not to take him a cent.
To prove that I am with him all because of love.
If you ask what is the most beautiful appearance of love?
I think when you wake up every morning, you will squeeze toothpaste and hand a towel for me;
I will also hand you a cup of hot milk to urge you to hurry up Don't be late for work.
Whenever various festivals come, you will give a good gift and tell me:
If others have it, you have it.
I will also prepare a gift for you, thank you for your time.
Good love is not a humane sweet talk or eachother.
but he firmly plans you into his future.
The sense of security you want, the life you want, the safe haven you want, he has all prepared for you one by one.
And you're ready to be his one-of-a-kind baby.
We are all past the age of listening to love, and we only believe in results and what we say and do.
