Hello:
I've been divorced for 5 years, I don't want to remarry, it doesn't make any sense. It's almost the same for men. I just want to make money, but I can't make much money from my work income, so I always want to integrate into a higher level In the circle, accumulate more network resources to see if there are better entrepreneurial opportunities.
Accidentally met a local social tycoon at a dinner party. This man used to be a famous and rich man. He opened nightclubs, set up underground casinos, and also engaged in real estate development. But these are all his glorious past. Later, because of business competition, his subordinates cut off the opponent and cut off one of the opponent's arm, so he spent several years in prison.
It didn't take long after he came out. At that dinner, everyone at the table complimented him. His bearing was also full of arrogance and spontaneity. Observing the intertwining of gongs and chips on the dinner table, he occasionally got up to make a toast. When the dinner was about to end, he noticed me and took the initiative to talk to me, asking me what industry I was in. After I gave a simple answer, he said to me, if there is anything I need help looking for in the future. Brother, I will do it!
After the end, he walked in front and I walked behind. When he left the door of the hotel, he suddenly turned around to look for me, and said to me, "Did you drive? If not, I'll take it to you."
I answered truthfully that I didn't have a car, but I rejected his kindness and said he would take a taxi home. He laughed and said, "Are you afraid that I will eat you? "
Half annoyed and half dissatisfied, I replied, "Don't you dare to take a car? "
So I got into his car, he chatted with me very gentlemanly, and added contact information to me when waiting for the traffic light. He probably knew my situation, but when he was about to go downstairs in my house, he suddenly asked "You won't invite me up to sit? "
I immediately became sensitive, and I said to him very unhappily, who have you put me back then? A single woman's house is a house that you men enter whenever you want?
After getting out of the car, I slammed the door and closed I went back to the community and went home. After
, we didn’t have any contact. I could see his daily news from his circle of friends. He didn’t talk to me and I didn’t look for him. On the sixth day, I saw him go to a field trip. The project, so I liked it under his feed, and a few hours later, his WeChat sent over: "Come back and invite you to dinner. "
He called me a few days later and asked me to have dinner together in the evening. The place was a high-end local restaurant near his company.
That night he specially reserved a private room and ordered a lot of expensive ones. Cai, during the dinner, he suddenly seemed to be a different person, no longer like a social boss but an ordinary man, he talked to me about his family and his history, including his imprisonment.
He said At that time, the public opinion was boiling, which had a huge impact on his whole family. He didn't want to affect his wife and children, so he took the initiative to divorce his wife. Children are raised to adults.
But after he came out, he found out that his ex-wife not only took away the property and went away to live in another city with the children, but also had a new love and had a child with another man. After tracing the address of his ex-wife's residence, he beat her severely. There is no shortage of women around him now, but he is not interested in these women who come up to him. He said that what he lacks is women who can communicate with him spiritually.
I am a little confused, he is just meeting me for the second time, what does he mean by telling me this? To my question, he just said lightly, "I have a relationship with you, and it feels very relaxing to talk about this in front of you." It's a middle-aged woman who is divorced, and he, a man with money and background, has a desire to talk about me?
We talked a lot that day, and he still took me home after dinner, and he suddenly offered to take me back to his house to have a look. Casual woman?" He also looked down on me too much, so I immediately offered to get out of the car, and he stopped insisting.
But after passing through a few traffic lights, he said again, that there are too many words in his heart that no one can say.
I thought to myself that the company is not a home after all, and he would not dare to do anything, so I acquiesced.
After I arrived at his company, he took me to his office, but I didn't expect that as soon as I walked into the office, he locked the door, and then pushed me down on the sofa in the office in an almost rude way. possessed me.
The whole process was rude and strong, and there was no room for negotiation. After the end, I was covered in scars. All of this suddenly made my mind go crazy, so after finishing my clothes, I quickly went downstairs and took a taxi to leave this place of right and wrong.
When I got home, I was still in shock, crying with grievance, and he didn't even send me a message, didn't ask me if I got home safely, and didn't call me for many days to ask me how I was doing, I was very angry , the humiliation is indescribable, what I've been unsure about now is, should I sue him for rape? (Opening allowed)
Reply:
In fact, you are not a ghost, nor are you confused, every step of testing and in-depth between you and him, there is no element of being forced.
A woman with a normal mind who doesn't want to be greedy for money will never meet twice and stay alone in a private space at night with a social guy who doesn't know the bottom line. They are all grown men and women, don't tell me that you have something in your heart How pure did not think of anything.
Judging from the fact that you are trying to attract his attention by liking the circle of friends, and the performance of flirting with him for the first and second time and refusing to greet him, you are obviously eager for something to happen with him sooner, and I want to use sex to see if there is another possibility with him.
So, everything is your own willingness to get in, you just want to use sex in exchange for possible resources or money on him, and see if you can get a big piece of fat from his mouth by paying a little bit of color.
But your little thoughts are with him, all of which are pediatrics. He just took advantage of the little Jiujiu that you wanted to get from him, so he easily fell asleep with you, and finished his desire for revenge after sleeping. (It can be seen from his description of his ex-wife's past that he has developed a strong sense of revenge towards women, and you have become his substitute for revenge on his ex-wife), but you don't know how you died in the end.
As long as a man has the desire to perform in front of a woman and puts on the light of human nature, and talks about how ungrateful he is to his ex and how ungrateful the other is, it shows that he is as scum as he is.
and you just happen to be fascinated by the once light on him.
The worship of patriarchy is found in many women, that is, the more a man shows her masculinity and arrogance, the more he treats you like a boss, the easier it is for you to mistake such a man as very masculine and very masculine. Manly, the more obsessed with him, the more he thinks he has a sense of power, and thus falls into the fantasy that he can cover himself in all aspects.
In fact, you just didn't get the response you wanted, so you are worried about gains and losses, and you are unwilling to be put to sleep like this. What you want is for him to give you some kind of hope or possibility, as long as he releases a little bit of you Signal, you will never want to accuse him of rape, and you will even be happy that you climbed up on him so easily.
If he would call you to say hello that night or the next day, your heart will be more balanced, and you will not be angry if you think that you have received his attention, and you will think that there are new expectations in the future. Unfairly thinking about accusing him of rape.
A man who has hacked people, went to jail, divorced, chased his ex-wife, has no humanity towards society and others. You are still imagining whether he will take the initiative to give you some sweetness and get involved with such a person, no Self-destruction is painful. In the end, I don't know if I can get rid of him. It is obviously a beautiful thing that you brought to your door. If you sue him for rape, believe it or not, you will never want to live a quiet life in your life. ?
For him, it's not that he has never squatted before, so he has no fear of squatting again. When he gets out of prison, the first one to hunt down is you.
has caused a bunch of shit, just hold back the nausea and finish it. It's over with a dumb loss. Don't shake it in front of his eyes. It's better to hide and live in another place.
