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"Brother-in-law, your house is demolished and give me a set" My brother is too confident, brother-in-law: OK, pay. What's going on here? Why does this happen? Let's take a look at this case today.
Self-reporter: Mr. Tan, 42 years old
My parents-in-law have been partial to my younger brother since childhood. This is good. He spoiled my brother-in-law as a waste. Sometimes I can't stand it anymore. My wife and I are on the same front, and she also thinks that she can't spoil her brother-in-law like that.
But the parents-in-law don't care, they still inherit the old patriarchal ideology, so their preference for the brother-in-law cannot be changed, but my wife and I have always insisted that we do not support this practice, but the mother-in-law does not care, Sometimes when they can't get the money, they come to my house to make trouble. If they don't give money, the mother-in-law will splash around in the house. Anyway, this rogue way of my mother-in-law makes me really want to hide. My wife is almost driven crazy. But parents-in-law don't care that much.
Last year, my house was demolished, and the family got three suites and a large amount of compensation. Naturally, this money was also targeted by my parents-in-law, but we were dead and alive. At that time, my mother-in-law even ran away. The wife felt very embarrassed when she went to his wife's company to make trouble.
This time, my brother-in-law also went into battle. That day, my brother-in-law bought a lot of things and came to my house, cooked for me, and did housework for me. In fact, I knew that he came with a purpose, but the two of us just didn’t break it. , let him keep doing it, and we just pretend we don't know.
When the table was served in the evening, my brother-in-law began to make his own demands. At the beginning, he wanted to buy us off with emotional cards, but we were not moved. Later, when he had and , he directly said to me: "Brother-in-law, you The house was demolished and gave me a suite, which is also what my parents requested, you and my sister must implement it, or you will divorce ." I saw my brother-in-law like that, and I thought he was a little complacent, so I deliberately asked my wife : "Are you going to divorce me?" My wife said no, we both sang and reconciled, and my brother-in-law had no choice. In the end, I said, "If you want a house, just buy it with money." The brother-in-law has no choice. It's all forced by them. For so many years, my wife and I have a very good relationship, and we rarely quarrel . Their family always thinks that their wife was brought up by them, and they always use this as an excuse to tell their wife When we asked for money, I could see through my parents-in-law's face, but we would make trouble if we didn't give it to them. My wife was afraid that she would divorce me because of this, so she kept comforting me. I knew it wasn't my wife's fault.
This time, I rejected my brother-in-law, and my parents-in-law will not be so easy to pass, so not long after, my parents-in-law came to the house, and aggressively scolded my wife, and said Sang scolded Huai . Don't think that marrying someone else's family is someone else's family. I think the thoughts of my parents-in-law are too terrifying. They always embarrass my wife in this way. Sometimes I really can't see it. Throw the bucks to your parents-in-law and tell them directly, if you are bothering us, we will call the police.
Concluding remarks: Parents like
have never cared about the happiness of their daughter . When it comes to their children, they must be equal. Their daughters are their own daughters, but they have to worry about their own families after they get married.
