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teacher, why do you encounter betrayal in your intimate relationship? Just do 4 points. The article said that being betrayed, going to a third-person theory or even forcibly revenge, is the most stupid person? Why do you disapprove of the original partner doing this? In the question of
the reader's private message, I clearly felt the pain and resentment of the original wife, but I felt more directly that what she resented was not her man, but the "third" person.
After repeated inquiries from readers, I decided to write this article temporarily, hoping to bring more sobriety and reason to more women who have been betrayed and lost in marriage and love.
Now, women who have been betrayed or are being betrayed, think calmly about the question:
What is the root cause of betrayal?
Okay, I will give the following answers and let female friends do a rational multiple-choice question:
A: Someone outside of marriage takes the initiative to strike up a conversation and approach, causing the man to stray into the "flower bush"; Looking for warmth in places other than marriage;
C: Because of the disharmony between husband and wife "sex", men go to places other than marriage to release themselves;
D: Men with no moral heart use various reasons and excuses to cover up their betrayal Shameful behavior;
In the content of the reply to the reader's private letter, I replied to her with this sentence:
You must know that there are no thieves who can't attract outsiders.
When a smart woman is betrayed, she won't find the "third" person. The sooner you know, the better:
1: After finding the "third" person, the consequences are unpredictable
Most women are betrayed and put all their The anger was vented on the "third" person, forcing the whole responsibility of the man's betrayal to the third person.
Therefore, we often see many original spouses beating and scolding the "third" person in the street, and even often heard that the original spouse carried out fierce "revenge" against the "third" person, and in the end not only failed to make any profit, but also assumed economic or legal responsibility. responsibility.
Readers have asked me more than once, what are the unpredictable consequences? I would say that in addition to financial or legal liability, there is also the risk of personal injury.
Here I do not want to take up a lot of space to list examples.After all, in the Internet age, it is not difficult to find some relevant information about the persecution of the original spouse after finding the "third" person.
As for marriage, a woman who encounters betrayal has only two choices:
①Open one eye and close the other, and continue to live.
②stop loss in time.
The act of betrayal will be repeated many times and countless times once it has been done for the first time. The disappearance of a "third" person, there will be later people, and there will be endless scarcity.
Don't think that your other half is such a good man. If he was good enough, he would not have "grudges" between two women who had nothing to do with him because of his lack of morality. The main point of
is that if he is good enough, he will not forget the betrayal of the promise he made to you, and he will make many excuses for himself.
2: The "third" person who was betrayed was never the one who should bear the greatest responsibility.
Among women who have experienced betrayal, more than half of the women believe that there is no current "third" person. Men will not betray themselves. But is it really so?
If your man has betrayed you and happens to be known to you, it is very likely that he has already thought or acted to betray you. Yes, the author is not fanning the flames or exaggerating here. Many times, it is not necessarily a betrayal that there is something in the "bed".
The "bed" is nothing more than a more intuitive representation of the fact of betrayal.
The injury of betrayal is caused by the man himself. In a sense, it really has nothing to do with the "third" person. She just reached a certain consensus with your man and contributed to the behavior of hurting you. That's it.
The world is so big and there are so many opposite sexes. If all acts of betrayal are blamed on the "third" person, then it is very likely that your man is too busy to have any leisure time.
It is undeniable that some women outside of marriage will have some admiration for your man. However, if the thief does not open the door, how can he lead outsiders into the house and steal it?
3: When betrayed, don't ask the "third" person to carry out "action"! This is the wise move
The days of betrayal are like this, either live or go! Either endure or be ruthless!
too, just have to endure! Don't try to make up for your grievances and unwillingness from the man who betrayed you, I tell you, it's useless! Once such a thing happens, it will be an eternal shadow, and no one will truly forgive a person who betrayed him.
If you want the marriage to continue, then learn to be the "blind man" in the marriage, and don't put your hope of love on a man with no moral heart in the future.
roll, be ruthless! Rolling is to stop losses in time and leave an unhappy marriage. Ruthless, don't look back no matter what! I tell you, if you really don't want to go on, then just get out and be ruthless.
Don't make excuses for the sake of children and the elderly, no one can keep those who really want to leave.
In addition, if you want to leave, you must be "ruthless" to weigh the pros and cons! How to leave? What result do you want to get?
Get a lawyer when necessary! (emphasis added)
Looking for the "third" person is nothing more than a temporary rush, which is an act of fools.
A smart woman should be rational and sober at the first time, and plan for the future and the rest of her life, instead of making impulsive actions in her head. torment.
is not worth it!
If you want to do it, just be a "decisive" woman. If you are not strong, who will you show it to?
For those of you who have been betrayed all day with tears and broken thoughts, I really want to slap you awake. You've been hurt by betrayal, but you still have to make up for yourself. How much resentment and resentment do you have with yourself? So that you want to harm yourself with someone who has no moral heart to betray you?
Don't be silly, wipe away your tears, recognize the status quo, weigh the pros and cons, and think about what to do next. understand?
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