By Ye Yu
Many people believe that they will meet love at first sight and look forward to them.
But I don’t believe in love at first sight.
Not only do I not believe in love at first sight, I also do not believe in so-called fate.
chatting with friends a few days ago, we talked about the concept of time.
A friend is a very punctual person. If a specific time is agreed upon with someone, he will usually arrive early.
In his time concept, he values time very much, because everyone’s time is limited, and everyone’s time is priceless. He not only cherishes his time, but also cherishes it. Other people's time.
The appointment of friends for a specific time,There is a very clear principle: I'd rather I wait for others in advance than let others wait for me.
Because of this principle of friends, we have become good friends.
A relative introduced him to a blind date when he came home. After adding WeChat, the two chatted very well. After sharing photos, friends also thought that each other was pretty.
looks good and can talk to each other, so I agreed to meet up after talking for a while.
But unexpectedly, the two will see the first and the last.
It was a weekend, and the two agreed on a specific meeting time. The friend arrived 15 minutes earlier, and then sat and waited at the agreed place. After the agreed time, the other party had not yet arrived. However, she sent a WeChat message to her friend, meaning that she hasn't cleaned up yet and she hasn't put on makeup yet. Wait for a while.
The other party is a girl, and the friend is a boy, so my friend thought that the reason why girls need makeup is because they value this meeting. As a boy, it will be fine to wait.
but waited for half an hour,The girl didn't come and waited for an hour. The girl hadn't come yet. By the time the girl showed up, my friend had already waited for nearly two hours.
What does the waiting time of these two hours mean?
My friend said, no matter how beautiful this girl is, I instantly feel that she is not that beautiful anymore.
At that moment, in the hearts of friends, his goodwill towards this girl gradually became a little disgusting.
I don’t know if this is a kind of love at first sight, but through the experience of my friends, I know that there is no such thing as love at first sight in this world.
Compared to love at first sight, I believe in love over time.
Day does not mean that it takes a very long time, maybe one month, maybe three months, and when we take the day and the month as a unit, such a period of time It is enough for us to understand a person through many details.
is like this experience of a friend. At first, two people had a special chat on WeChat.This seems to be love at first sight. If two people finally come together, it is what we usually think of as love at first sight.
But after meeting each other, the two are not together, which shows that love at first sight has stopped abruptly, and such encounters cannot be called love at first sight.
If two people meet each other and they feel good about each other, after a period of time, the two are together. Isn't it just a long-term relationship?
So what we usually think of and see love at first sight is actually a long-term love. In the process of constant chatting and meeting, through mutual understanding, emotional links are gradually established.
Fate is the same. Fate has never appeared out of thin air. The fate we think is only the result. Only when we are together is fate.
But how do two people get together? We tend to ignore this process in the middle.
If there are such two people, the relationship is determined immediately when they meet for the first time, and such encounters are true love at first sight.
But,Do you dare to have real love at first sight? This is just an instant stimulation of the hormone on both sides.
looks good, but in fact the risk factor is quite high.
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